Is writing a letter necessarily more sincere than sending a WeChat message?

"In the past, letters were slow, carriages and horses were far away, and you could only love one person in your life." Now, following the Internet cable, the two of them can share words immediately without having to wait for a long time.

? (1) The Handwriting Party has something to say

? The development of science and technology has changed the way we connect in our lives, but technology brings us abundance, but it also brings us anxiety.

? Messages pop up from time to time on the phone, dialog boxes fill the screen, and we interact with people on WeChat every day. Life seems lively, but when we put down the phone, we feel empty. Those words that are typed quickly by fingertips are very few sincere words; those fake smiles, excitement and praise cannot cover up the sadness, depression and anger in reality.

? Just like this, separated by a cold screen, we suppress our anger, we bury our sadness, and we ignore our depression. In the WeChat circle of friends, we will always be the quiet, gentle and virtuous people who check in actively. Many emotions are suppressed in the heart by the screen and swallowed up in the keyboard.

? Writing stroke by stroke is a process of true expression after thinking. The desolation that comes from the words written when you are sad, and the joy that comes from the words you write when you are happy, are vividly displayed on the paper. The subtle emotions are hard to deceive.

? The reason why the love letters of boyhood are romantic is not because of how good the literary talent is, but because the strokes of handwriting and clumsy modification marks are the favorites of that person, which is immature but difficult to read. Hiding sincerity, my heart still beats when I read it many years later. The beauty of knowing each other and being pure and fearless shines on the yellowed letter paper.

? We live in a reinforced concrete forest, don’t lose the poetry of dwelling. After all, the temperature of handwritten text cannot be replaced by input methods in many cases.

(2) The WeChat Party has something to say

? Even though the handwritten letter is full of sincerity, the contact information is only a product of the times. The wave of the times has derived WeChat communication, and it will always exist. reason. If you want to choose the most sincere one from the numerous contact methods, you may not be able to do so, because the best answer is: whether it is sincere or not mainly depends on the person.

? Netizens believe that the difference between writing a letter and WeChat is:

? If the content is sincere, writing a letter is sincerity at a very slow speed, while WeChat is sincerity at a very fast speed.

? If the content is hypocritical, writing a letter is a slow hypocrisy, and WeChat is a fast hypocrisy.

? Therefore, handwritten letters have their own feelings, but the true feelings and intentions can also be reflected on WeChat. The expression of language and words can show the degree of intention of the person. Sincerity has nothing to do with the method, and It is the person who conveys the message or emotion.

? (3) There is nothing better than meeting and chatting

? Even more upright parties believe that don’t deal with those who have something but don’t have it! Chatting in person is the best way to convey true feelings. This is a genuine physical experience! There is no such thing as words that fail to convey the meaning! If there's anything important, let's talk about it face to face!

? Here is a quote from Lin Qingxuan's "Boiled Snow" to explain this point of view:

"It is said that people in the Arctic freeze into ice and snow as soon as they speak. , the other party couldn't hear it, so he had to go home and roast it slowly to listen...

This is an extremely romantic legend, thought to be made up by passionate southerners.

However, we. Assuming that frozen speech is a real thing, it is also quite difficult. Just think about it: what kind of fire should you use when you go home to bake snow? Because people's speech has emotions, and cooking it too slowly or too fast will not be enough to express it. The emotion of speaking.

If I were born in the Arctic, I might have to worry about cooking for a long time. When I talk to an impatient person, I have to cook it over a high fire when I get home; Use a slow fire. What if you quarrel with someone? You must light a fire when you go home, so that you can hear the roar of fire.

When you are in love, be careful when you go home. To brew the atmosphere at that time, first cut the ice with love poems and love words, cut it into fine pieces, and add a little wine to cook it. Then, when it is cooked, it will make people tipsy.

If the love is strong, you can't use a stove fire, but use candlelight and a cup of coffee, so that you won't get too drunk and can still stay awake. ”

? (Conclusion)

When writing letters to be romantic, the emphasis is on the sense of ritual

When sending messages on WeChat, efficiency is king

As long as It’s sincere, what does it matter in what form?

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