How to deal with the old man before he dies?

When the old man is dying, his children and immediate family members should be around, and distant relatives should inform him in advance to go home to meet him. If the old man can still speak, try to make his thoughts and last words clear, and don't let the old man leave regrets. This is called "farewell", which also shows that his children have entered the last filial piety. I used to bathe, brush, cut hair and shave the old people.

If the old man's illness gets worse and the pulse interval becomes longer and longer, he should put on clothes (shroud) in time, then lay a coffin bed in the hall (the old man has no elders, otherwise he will be next to him), put the old man on the coffin bed, put a mattress on it, cover the birthday strip and wait for the old man to die suddenly. According to folklore, when a person dies in bed, the soul will hang on the bed and cannot cross over. Of course, this is a superstition.

The death of an old man is also called head-dropping. The old man has no pulse and breathing, and there is no phenomenon of "returning to the light". The tattoo on his head opened and he shed tears, which proved that the old man was dead. But don't cry yet Make proper arrangements. Cover the old man's face with birthday strips and wail to show his grief. Time is 3-5 minutes.

Next, burn the paper backwards and set off firecrackers. One is that the deceased has died in the west, and the other is to report the funeral to the neighbors!

Before the old man's funeral, an altar should be set up, with snacks, fruits, candles and incense burners (bowls can be used instead). The incense should be placed horizontally and lit at both ends. Insert some money paper on the door frame, which is divided into male left and female right. Stick a note on the door that says "Sorry for bad reviews" to prevent neighbors from playing tricks on each other.

Send a funeral post (also called a messenger) to relatives and friends as soon as possible, and relatives and friends far away can call and tell them the date of burial. At this time, children and family members should pay great attention to filial piety, and dutiful sons should be arranged on both sides of the coffin bed in order to thank the mourners (regardless of age)!

After the old man fell, he needed to arrange the whole funeral. It is best to invite "elderly" abbots (that is, people who know the guests) because they are familiar with the whole funeral path, and it is also very complicated to arrange for relatives and friends to eat and drink from the funeral, guarding the shop, releasing the coffin, mourning, mourning, and funeral.