A birthday present for my 4-year-old daughter.

A birthday present for my 4-year-old daughter.

Information refers to the words conveyed, and sometimes refers to the words that place hopes on. The following is a birthday message for my 4-year-old daughter, I hope it will help you ~

My 4-year-old daughter's birthday information is similar from year to year, but different from year to year. She will be 4 years old tomorrow, and her daughter is already very slim. Since my daughter was born, I have always been concerned about it. Daughter, I watch you grow up little by little every day. Every day, listening to your laughter makes me feel good. Because of you, every day is bright, sunny, bright and full of hope. You are growing, singing, laughing and playing happily. Your world is carefree. Sometimes there will be tears in the corner of my eyes, and then I will laugh happily. One day, when you told me "Mom told you a little secret", you suddenly felt that you had grown up unconsciously.

Look at me and my friends around JMM and let the children participate in this training or study. I also want you to participate. I want you to learn many skills, and I want you to excel. I want you to study hard, get into a famous university, or take the postgraduate entrance examination, study for a doctor, and finally engage in an admirable and enjoyable career. I want you to do too many things. I want to plan your future and customize your life.

But I understand that although you are the continuation of my life, you are also an independent individual. You will also grow up, have your own ideas and thinking, weave beautiful dreams for yourself and move forward towards your dreams. The future I plan for you may be an unavoidable burden in your eyes. Maybe when you are young, you will rebound more. The greater the pressure, the greater the resistance. Isn't that against my original intention of making you happy and healthy? So I just want you to be happy, that is the greatest happiness in life.

As a working mother, I should take care of you. But my daughter, coming home from work every day, looking at your smile is my greatest motivation. As a teacher, I see many students. Sometimes it's really hard to see parents' helpless expressions and children's resentful expressions. The closest feeling in the world, the kinship of flesh and blood, how can it become like this. Therefore, when my daughter was so young, I liked to communicate with you and listen to your thoughts. I hope you won't hide it when you grow up. This time the school is interested in classes on Saturday. We asked you if you wanted to take a mood class, but you answered no decisively, and we didn't let you go. When the weather is fine on weekends, you can enjoy the warm sunshine and free air when you go out to play. I'm also happy to see my eyes follow you when you jump around like a little monkey. I am very happy when you whisper in my arms. I am very pleased when you say "Mom, I made this myself and gave it to you" with the handmade works made in kindergarten.

The world is so big, after all, most of them are ordinary people. Everyone doesn't have to be excellent. As long as you are happy to do what you like and do what you like, then life is also happy.

Daughter doesn't ask you to attend a famous university, don't ask you to be knowledgeable and don't ask you to be versatile. But you must have the most basic moral character and quality cultivation, and have a kind and grateful heart. Just like the name given to you, it is "shallow" and never complacent, avoiding arrogance and rashness. With a modest and prudent attitude towards life, as long as you work hard, you will still not miss the scenery on the road to success.

You can choose what you like, even the most common things. Countless ordinary people have created a colorful world. I hope you must have ideals, which support a person's spiritual paradise. Work hard towards the ideal, even if you fail, you will have no regrets. With ideals, your world will be vast. Remember that no matter what happens, mom and dad will always entertain you.

Dear baby, you are still young. What we need to do is guide you. You said you like dancing, and your mother promised you to take dance classes next semester, but if the children take part, they must stick to it, even if they encounter difficulties and setbacks. You can't give up halfway, you must stick to it. There will always be thorns on the road of life. My daughter is a strong and brave child, and she will certainly overcome herself. You have a strong personality and always want to do better. But you can't accept criticism. Son, we are not afraid of making mistakes, but we are afraid that we will not repent if we make mistakes. Mother believes that her daughter can overcome it.

Dear daughter, you will always be the best child in your mother's eyes. I hope you will be happy and healthy forever. On the occasion of your 4th birthday, send your mother's best wishes: Happy birthday! Happy forever!

Birthday message for 4-year-old daughter. The second baby will be your fourth birthday tomorrow. You are very sensible and obedient now, but sometimes you are quite willful. Because you will have an English class tomorrow night, mom and colleagues have something to do, so we will give you an early birthday tonight (including grandparents)!

The whole family wishes you health, safety, happiness, smooth growth and life!

However, when it comes to English study tomorrow night, my father really has no confidence in you and myself. After all, when I went to study last week, you didn't come into the classroom and kept crying, which made me very angry. I yelled at you, really loudly. Dad felt ashamed later. But you really pissed me off. Mom took you to the audition at that time, and you said you liked it very much, so you paid nearly 10 thousand tuition, but you got bored in the third class. Do you think we are on fire?

Mom signed you up for this class at that time because when you went to an audition class in other places, other children about your age followed the teacher to speak English, and you couldn't understand or speak it, but you stubbornly endured it for 40 minutes. You said to your mother, Mom, I don't understand them, and I don't want to learn English ... You feel inferior and sad! Mom hopes that you won't lose confidence and interest in English when you go to school in the future, and don't feel too inferior, so mom wants you to get in touch early.

Give you a vaccination tonight: I'm going to learn English again tomorrow. Let's leave now. Instead of showing interest in what I said, you are a little disgusted, which really makes me have no confidence at all! I hope I won't be angry tomorrow. After all, it's your fourth birthday. But I hope you won't be like last time: we will go home when people have classes.

Mom and Dad hope you will be happy in your future life, study and work! But you should know that future happiness must be based on the initial things that are not necessarily happy. I hope you can understand the painstaking efforts of mom and dad in the future!

Send a message to my 4-year-old daughter's birthday. Sanjiaan, my baby, you are 4 years old today.

Mom has been brewing this annual article for you since a month ago. It's just that a lot has happened this year. I have too much to say, but I don't know how to write it. It was not until this moment that I really started writing.

My baby, grandma has something to do this morning. I will take over your daily life. I'm in such a mess because of your calm command.

"Mom, I'm going to get up and go to the toilet." I pulled you out of bed, wearing only underwear, and wanted to rush to the bathroom. Mom, you reminded me that the weather is very cold. I haven't dressed cooler yet.

"Mom, it's time to get up and get dressed and go to the toilet. You should wear a sweater first. " A sweater makes me puzzled, and it is difficult to tell right from wrong. You also told me that the Chinese knot knitted by grandma in front is the front. You took it and put it on yourself. Then tell me a series of procedures that you get up early every day: dressing, putting on shoes, opening curtains, combing your hair, brushing your teeth and washing your face, rubbing incense, eating breakfast, drinking milk, gargling, and then going out to kindergarten.

I really think I'm similar to those dads my dad went to. I am so strange to your daily life that my braids may not be much better than Angela's father's. In the end, I didn't ask you to send you to kindergarten in a hurry after breakfast. It was a bad image and my head was like a chicken nest.

On the way back, I have been reflecting on myself. I'm afraid the years will pass by in a hurry. You have grown up before I can get started. I think next year, you will be more calm and do everything yourself without my help.

Baby, today moved me not only to make my mother reflect and improve, but also to recall the years when our family struggled together this year with you and tell me how much you moved me this year.

At the beginning of this year, everyone ran around for your illness; You took many detours and suffered a lot. On the way to the hospital in those days, the most uncomfortable thing was not waiting in line, not running around, but one possibility after another, one possible cause after another, especially when the doctor seriously suspected cerebral palsy at first, I felt that my eyes were dark. It's good to have your father's support. Dad said, in fact, if we didn't go to the hospital and insisted on finding problems, would you look at your daughter differently? Indeed, no matter what disease you have, it is just a medical cap for you. For us, you are still our most cherished daughter. In our opinion, you are just a child whose mobility is worse than others. No matter how bad the situation is, your world will never collapse, and mom and dad will support your bright world for you.

We never lost courage and confidence, but it was hard to attach psychological torture to me because there was no conclusion during that time. I remember that at that time, every time I came out of the hospital by subway at noon and went back to the company, I would pass through nanpu bridge. Several times, I stood by the flower bed under the bridge and cried desperately for five minutes. I told myself that if I cried for a few minutes, I would dry my tears and do what I should do.

I also had the good fortune to meet Uncle Wang, a doctor. Only he found the cause for you and gave you treatment advice. Please forgive mom and dad's entanglement at that time. When it was time for treatment, we hesitated again. Care is chaos. General anesthesia is necessary at such a young age. I'm really worried about sequelae or the risk of surgery. Although other doctors suggested conservative treatment, after discussing with your father, we decided to take this step and choose surgery for active treatment. The treatment plan was decided and the doctor gave us a vaccination. In the past few months, children will suffer more. Need to do four months of plaster surgery, and continue to play plaster after surgery, so be sure to be mentally prepared.

You have always been a very considerate but patient child. You know what adults ask you to do is for your own good, so whether you have an MRI, a sedative or a plaster cast before, you are very cooperative. Although you are scared inside, you won't say a word, mom, let's go home.

For the first time, the plaster should be applied from the sole of the foot to the root of the thigh. You are lying in a hospital bed. I'm afraid you'll be afraid. I held your hand and watched you all the time. You opened your big eyes. I watched the mist rise and tears fell from your eyes. Even then, you didn't cry or struggle.

Until the thick gypsum comes out, the liquid gypsum begins to automatically tighten and become solid, which may be particularly painful. When you can't stand the pain, you are in trouble. You cried and asked me to discuss with the doctor if I could relax and make you feel better. This is the first time you are too big to ignore; My heart is like a knife. I told your father that night, and now I know very well that if I can cut the meat to avoid your pain, I won't say anything. It's just that we can't take this for you. We can only find ways to spend it with you and make it easier for you to bear. It's like when you came home from a plaster cast and cried for hours that day, mom and dad tried their best to explain it to you and make you understand.

Dad sat on the ground and even drew a drawing for you, telling you that the wrong bone was taken back to the right home in this way because the angle of the bone was wrong. I'm telling you, the green plaster on your foot was sent by the green elf to protect you, and no other children have it. The green elf comes to protect you, and you have the obligation to take care of it and dress it up every day. I found you a sticker, and you put it on your foot. Finally, my mother told you that this was a family fight. As long as it lasts for four months, what is four months? It's just four pieces of paper on the calendar. After every day, we paste a smiling face, and after 30 smiling faces, we can tear off a piece of paper. Tear up these four pieces of paper and it's over. You finally accepted this statement and stopped crying. From then on, 120 days and nights, the first thing you do after getting up every morning is to find a smiley face sticker and put a smiley face on the day we survived.

Since then, that calendar has become my most cherished gift. Because it records the years when our family struggled together. You adapted quickly, but when we were still worried about how to comfort you, you came out of the pain and learned to have fun with your plaster feet.

We'll turn out the abandoned cart and give you a seat, which is basically equivalent to a wheelchair. I have prepared a lot of handmade materials for you. You do this every day when you are awake reading picture books. Maybe this day is really boring. I can't buy handmade materials as fast as you can finish them. I sit all day. I'm tired of sitting, so you will ask my grandma or grandma to stand up and hug you. Although you are quite heavy at this time, grandma and grandma will pick you up and shake you. Their wish is also very simple, hoping to make you comfortable under limited conditions. When sleeping, because the feet are fixed, the feet are hanging heavily, and I am afraid of being tired. Grandma and Grandma made a small pillow just in the curvature, which has moved a lot. I can't wear old pants, and I'm afraid I'll catch cold by turning on the air conditioner in summer, so I design my own tailor to make strange but suitable pants for you.

I am grateful to have such a obedient and sensible baby and such a strong family. It saved me a lot of energy in the battle years when I had expected to be very laborious every day. Many times, we still take you out to play, tell you stories and play games made up by our mother as before. I feel no different from before except sitting. I'll take you on a trip, set up a tent to breathe fresh air, and you'll still have fun like that.

When such three months have passed, we welcome the day of your operation. This is the second difficult obstacle. The night before in the hospital, you asked me, mom, what is surgery? I know that if you want to overcome your fear, you should know what happened. I specially went to the waiting room to see the process on the wall, and then came back to tell you that surgery is a process that handsome uncle treats you. You will put on your hospital gown, and then your mother will accompany you into a room. But there is no bacteria, and the mother will hurt the baby if she doesn't disinfect it, so she can't go in, but there will be a nurse and aunt to take care of you. Then your aunt will give you an injection or take a breath, and you will feel sleepy. Then you can rest assured. After you fall asleep, handsome uncle will take out his operation elf, and the elf will help you operate with him. You fell asleep until mom called you, baby, wake up. It's over when you wake up and see your mother.

You are really a committed child. You think it makes sense, and you will face it rationally after you understand it clearly.

The next morning, it was your first operation, and I changed into a happy dress. I hope everything goes well. You still watch everyone and play without any burden. We'll put you on the bed and push you into the operating room with the nurse. I hold your hand tightly, my heart is uneasy, but my face is pretending to be calm. You are brave, smiling at me all the time. At the moment when I had to let go when I pushed into the operating room, I felt that my inner defense was about to collapse. Once the door is closed, you have to spend it alone. Can you face without familiar people? After the door was closed, I looked back at my family and saw my grandparents and your father secretly wiping their tears. That was the first time I saw your father cry and saw his weak and worried side.

We slipped in while the door was open and closed, and saw you smiling sweetly at the nurse. I'm relieved for the time being. I'm glad I told you the whole process yesterday. Without the fear of the unknown, you can face it more easily.

It's just that I guessed the beginning but not the end. You haven't pushed it out for a long time after the operation.

By the time you push it out, you are already out of breath, and your face is covered with layers of tears. I talk to you and ignore me. I just keep complaining. They won't let me see my parents. They won't let me see my mother. The nurse said that she woke up early after anesthesia, but there were too many operations, and no one could push her out. Nobody cares about her. Why does she think it's different from what her mother said? Her mother said she would be with her when she woke up.

You were really angry and miserable that day. Mom suffered another blow because of your words. After returning to the ward, you still kept crying. During the break, you said, it's not my fault It's not my fault. Everyone was shocked. Let me ask you, what's not your fault? You said, it's not my fault, it's all my parents' fault. My parents did this to my feet.

I was really distressed at that time. I am very distressed. Although what we want to care for most is your heart, we didn't expect it to have a negative impact on your heart or hurt you. I sincerely tell you that many things are nobody's fault. It's not your fault, and it's not mom and dad's fault. It's just that my mother's stomach may be too small when she is pregnant. You are uncomfortable living in this house, so your feet won't stretch out too long. That's all. Now that it has been done, there is no problem at all. Sometimes maybe I'm naive. I always thought that if we handled it well, you would be safe from harm. But the influence is inevitable, just like sometimes you will seriously ask me, mom, will my foot really be fine? I'll tell you. Of course it'll be fine. No problem. Do you think, Duoduo, you can play on the grass, eat your favorite things, read books and play games at school? You can already do these things. We are fighting now just to make you run faster. Don't worry.

More than a month after the operation, we finally took out the plaster. When I finally ended with joy, I didn't expect the road to recovery to be even more worrying. You can't walk any further. You are in too much pain to walk. Your thighs and calves are as thin as hemp poles. We force you to stand, walk and practice squatting every day.

It even stipulates that if you want to watch cartoons, you must stand and watch them. Sometimes I just give up watching cartoons when I can't stand it. In those days, every day after you fell asleep, I went back to my room and cried with your father in my arms. I think we are demons, especially forcing you to practice squatting. I couldn't squat before. After the achilles tendon was broken, the doctor said that you must practice squatting and loosen the achilles tendon, otherwise you will eat it for nothing. This is your most painful movement, but we will force you to practice hundreds of times a day. Every time I cry, it hurts. We all hugged you and made you cry. When I was still worried about how to persuade you, you resolutely wiped the tears from your face with your hand and said to us, Mom, come on, let's continue to practice. Count it yourself. When you finally finished the task, you grinned. I'm finished. Yes, you did. You not only did it, but also brought us the most touching feeling.

There are too many such details. I dare not open these memory boxes this year, because it hurts every time I open them. Today, when I was writing your birthday wishes, I opened them together.

I remember a saying that the process of raising children is a process of self-cultivation. Many times, we adults are not educating you, but you are awakening us with your simplicity, courage and kindness.

Because of your strength and persistence, I am determined to continue exercising. You can face the pain for three or four months, and I will stick to one thing. Thank you, my mother has gained a good figure and a good mental state, and has developed a good habit of exercising. You can wipe your tears and say loudly, let's go on, how can mom not accompany you to the end?

Because you have a calm face, you never shy away from being worse than others in some aspects, and you will tell others that you are in plaster and can't walk for the time being; I also learned to relax a little more on many things;

Because of you, I learned to enjoy slow time, steal a lazy time when I am not busy, and pick you up at school. The two of us staggered, studied the leaves on the road together, and saw ants moving leaves, all of which were beautiful in my mother's memory.

Because of your courage and hardship, your father and I know more about the meaning of tolerance and family. We have never complained to each other these days. Although dad is very busy at work and rarely has time to accompany you to the hospital, I understand that this does not mean that he doesn't care or feel bad. There is always a division of labor in a family, and there are always people who need to support in different aspects; What we need is mutual support, and the important thing is to spend it together. I have also gained more friendship and care, and many uncles and aunts always care about us.

Every year you grow up brings us a lot of growth, and we also benefit from your growth.

As I said in my letter on my third birthday last year, we don't have too many expectations and requirements for you, only blessings.

We just want you to be happy and healthy! I only hope that you can embrace every sunrise happily and feel the world you live in with your own thinking. No matter what difficulties and hardships there are in the future, mom believes that you have courage that mom doesn't have, and you won't be afraid of them.

Mom and dad don't spend enough time with you, but every minute we spend with you is intentional. We always care about your thoughts, how to explain some inevitable things, and how to communicate to reduce the harm to your character. Mom will still sing more and more on the way to surprise you, because we also deeply realize that the "happy point" in adulthood is too high. We should create more surprises for you when you are young. Money and gifts can't buy happiness, but your heart can make you happy for a long time.

I hope you like the birthday party your mother prepared for you today, and I hope such happiness can accompany you for a long time.

Mom is as devoted as you are, and no matter how busy and complicated the promised things are, she will certainly do it for you.

Happy birthday!

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