How to treat the phenomenon that boys don't return messages when playing games?

For the phenomenon that boys don't return messages when playing games. This is from the perspective of equality between men and women.

1, "game" is correct.

This question should have several sister questions, such as: "What do you think of the phenomenon that boys don't return news when watching the Champions League final?" "What do you think of the phenomenon that boys don't return news when playing basketball?" "How do you view the phenomenon that girls often take a shower and don't return information?" (covering his face) ...

When doing necessary recreational activities, boys tend to be very focused and don't want to be disturbed by the outside world. Parents have a classic saying, "If you focus on XX and study, Tsinghua Peking University will come in the morning! 」)

Boys will never be distracted by small things at the important moment of the game, such as eating the chicken in front of them or waving when the king kills five times. But the same thing, like watching an NBA game, the two teams didn't draw until the last 24 seconds of the game, and no boy (if he was very interested) had leisure to chat with girls or even answer the phone at this time.

If the girls don't understand, I'll put it another way: double 1 1 spike, the top 500 people are half price for a limited time, and you keep refreshing the shopping cart with your mobile phone and wait for the order to be paid. At this time, your boyfriend suddenly sent you a WeChat and chatted. Why are you in such a hurry? Take care of your heart. ...

2. Psychoanalysis

As a boy, I will definitely have some basic hobbies, such as games, sports, photography, reading and traveling, which are all part of our normal life except studying, working and spending time with my girlfriend. But there is another important reason why many boys like playing games, because it can help us relieve stress.

Girls may not understand this, because boys and girls have different ways to relieve stress.

For girls, if something goes wrong in their work and life, when they are depressed or stressed, the most likely situation is to find a girlfriend or boyfriend, complain and complain, and in short, vent their little emotions to the maximum extent. Except for some foodies, of course.

Boys are the opposite. When we are in a bad mood, we usually keep silent and keep everything in our hearts. Unless it's time for help, we won't bother others or cause trouble to others.

Therefore, playing games and watching movies are important ways for boys to relieve stress. When a person does these things, his brain will unconsciously forget those troubles, and with the gradual concentration of attention, the pressure in his heart will gradually calm down (of course, if he meets B and B in the game, he may be bitten back ...).

So, if the boy doesn't reply to your message at this time, please don't think too much. He may have experienced something unpleasant and just wanted to play games alone to solve it. If girls don't realize this psychological state and behavior of boys, but send messages rashly and frequently to disturb them, I think boys will only be more agitated and hide further.

Step 3 give it to a boy

Most of the previous words are for girls, and finally I want to say something to boys. Playing games, as a normal recreational activity, is not right or wrong in itself, but it is inappropriate to be too addicted to games and ignore everything around for a long time, especially for boys with girlfriends.

Boys are sometimes busy, not just playing games, but they can't be completely ignored because they are busy. Girls often feel insecure and need the company of their boyfriends when they encounter unhappy things, because they need someone to talk to. So boys should not treat girls with their own inherent thinking, thinking that they are alone.

This is a question of mutual understanding.