My mother's life is in danger, and my father said, "No money to help." I was forced to make a choice. What should I do?

In our life, facing the same thing, everyone may make different choices. If this matter involves the interests of both sides, different choices may cause contradictions between the two sides and even further harm. No, there is a man who is faced with such a thing: his mother's life is in danger. His original intention was to sell the house at home and then take money to treat the disease. Who knows that his father took the house and said that there was no money to treat the disease at home. He was in a state of anxiety and forced to make a choice. He doesn't know what to do now. In fact, I think to solve this problem, we should follow the principle of persuading dad to untie the house, and the thinking may be clearer, mainly from the following aspects.

0 1. Show your understanding to Dad

First of all, if you want to persuade a person to stand in his own position, no matter whether the other person is right or wrong, the first step 1 is to express understanding and approval of others' choices, which will bring the relationship closer and make the other person feel that you have a sense of * * *.

For example, in this case, in fact, anyone with a discerning eye can see that dad's choice is wrong. After all, my mother's life was in danger at that time. If we can sell the house for money and save my mother's life, then money is waste paper for a life. What can be more important than being together as a family? After all, money can still be earned. But at this time, you can't go against the wind. You have to tell dad and understand his choice. Maybe the money was left to the child, or maybe the mother was hopeless.

02. Give advice to dad

After understanding my father, I watched my father calm down. At this time, you can give your father appropriate advice.

For example, you can talk to dad first. Occasionally talk about the happy life before your family of three, let dad recall the happiness between you before, talk about mom's hard work for so many years, and talk about dad's hard work, so as to lay a perceptual environment first. When my father is a little excited, I can tell my father about my mother again and tell him that now my mother is struggling with the disease, and we can't imagine how painful she is. Her situation is very critical. At this time, only by selling the house and changing some money can she save her life.

Besides, tell dad that money can actually be earned again. As long as the family is willing to work together, the house will be bought back slowly. You can make a promise to your father appropriately, and you can pay him a lot of salary after telling him. After all, this can reassure him to a certain extent and make him feel that the material future has a certain guarantee.

03. Finally, I want to say

In fact, I will feel a little sad to see such a thing. People say that husband and wife are birds in the same forest and fly separately in the face of disasters, but I don't agree with this statement. From the moment they got married, they gradually became the pillars of each other's life and spirit, and in the end they were more like relatives. And when the other side is in trouble, we should not stand by and watch.