My birthday. Friends and family are dead. But the stepfather is not the real father. Can he come to my birthday? Will it affect my birthday?

According to our regulations in Guangxi, we can't. . . Especially parents. . . Even if you are not your biological father, if you are raised, you should be filial. . . Otherwise, you will be cursed by family and outsiders. . .

You can't invite him for your 20th birthday. . . According to superstition, when I was young, I listened to what the old man said. I don't believe this is disrespectful to that man and his father. Moreover, it is wrong for that person to attend other people's birthday presents, which will ruin your happiness and bring bad luck. . .

You should say goodbye to him before your birthday. . . If he can come on his birthday, he can't. According to custom, you can't go near him.

Well, that's my understanding. . .

I don't know whether you are a woman or a man, and the relationship between that person and you. . . What if you are a woman? . . If that person is your boyfriend. Then you can't light white candles on your birthday. . . You can't wear red and white clothes that day either. . .

If you are a man, then if that person and you are close friends, you can't drink or light white candles on your birthday. . . You can't wear red and white clothes that day either. . . You can't go to bed until after midnight. . . Superstition is unnecessary. . .

That's all.,,, I hope I can help you. . . This is a custom in Guangxi. . . Provide reference