My best friend's relative just died a week ago, and the day after tomorrow is her birthday. How to send a blessing message?

First of all, please accept my condolences on the tragic death of your friend. In this case, it is difficult to send an appropriate birthday message, because you don't want to touch your friend's sensitive topic or cause her sadness. Here are some suggestions:

1. Express your blessing: First of all, you can express your blessing and wish her a happy birthday.

2. Mention her relatives: You can simply mention her relatives in the text message to show that you know that she is experiencing a sensitive emotion, and at the same time express your grief and prayers.

3. Encourage her to celebrate her birthday: You can encourage her to celebrate her birthday and let her know that you still want her to enjoy this special day even if her relatives are gone.

4. Give her space: Finally, give her some space to let her know that you are willing to listen to her feelings and respect her privacy.

The following is a possible SMS template:

Dear (friend's name):

Happy birthday! On this special day, I want to express my wishes and thoughts to you. I know you are going through a very sensitive period, but I hope you can feel my concern and support. No matter how you decide to spend this birthday, I will respect your choice. May the person you love rest in peace in heaven, and may you feel happiness and strength on this special day.

Bless you,

(Your name)