A letter to a rebellious son of 17 years old.

1, son: On your17th birthday, at the dinner table, you said something I had never heard you say, which sounded very mature. If you are careful, you may notice that I have looked at you for a long time in surprise: my son has really grown up! I realize that in the future, I can't just care about you in my life, but also care about you ideologically, psychologically and academically. I feel a great responsibility. I'm afraid I can't do it, but I'll try my best to make progress with you.

2. In a certain sense, children's growth is a process of getting farther and farther away from their parents. On the one hand, I am unwilling, on the other hand, I am happy for your peace and development. In this contradictory situation, I will try my best to respect your thoughts and actions. However, from the perspective of society and people who have experienced it, I will also remind you of some inappropriate places. Don't worry, I will think twice before acting, at least I hope to get your understanding.

Your father always doesn't care about your details. I always blame him. Maybe he can let go and give you a relaxed environment for growth and study, but I can't let go. Maybe God just asked me to make up for your father's shortcomings. Facing my son, I still want to say what I want to say. Senior three, writing to you for the first time, writing about my mother's ambivalence.

Of course, I hope you study first-class. You have always been the pride of your parents, but we can't manage our study well. It all depends on the school and teachers. Everything depends on you. Even if we realize this, I am still anxious, even divorced from your own reality, making you the best. The reason why I say this is that I think more from the perspective of the influence of going to college and going to a good university on a person's life. In China, my experience tells me that university, as the starting point of life, lays the foundation for a person's life. Of course, I hope my subjective desire is more consistent with what you have done.

I am sincerely glad that you have grown up day by day. When I saw you, your father said that my eyebrows were full of smiles, but your growth also meant that you were no longer dependent on your parents, so I felt lost and uneasy. I am always willing to participate more in your study and life. I know it's bad for you, but according to my experience, I still insist on its necessity. Of course, I should pay attention to the methods, especially your father. I also hope that when you grow up, especially when you are rebellious and different, you should consider the opinions and opinions of society and parents.

6. In life, your father and I will do our best to provide conditions for you in our family, but when we see your image of paying great attention to food and clothing, on the one hand, we appreciate it, on the other hand, we are more worried, because many children with superior families around us have been destroyed by it. This is really a mistake. Boy, how good it is that you can treat these external conditions correctly.

7. When my son grows up, the problem of communication with girls becomes a problem that cannot be ignored. Mother is very sensitive to this. You didn't keep it from me on purpose. I learned something from my holiday contact and your usual conversation. On the one hand, my feelings are my son's maturity, popularity and even charm, on the other hand, I am uneasy: does my son have a correct understanding in this regard? There is no formal education in this field; Can the son grasp the discretion of communication? Too much will affect your study and even hurt others. However, as far as I am concerned, you are still a simple child, which is very beneficial at least in senior three. I also hope that you can finish a fruitful senior three simply and naively.

8. Son, you are growing up, while your father and I are getting old. On the whole, we expect you to make more contributions to society. From the family point of view, you are the future and spiritual pillar of your parents. I hope you can do better and better, which is the fundamental way to resolve my heart.

That's all. I hope you can communicate with your parents more.

Love your mother.