I haven't been in touch for over a year. Can I send a greeting message to my ex-boyfriend?

I think adult love is like this, respecting each other, taking responsibility and leaving room.

Therefore, the breakup of adults should be the same, separated because of understanding and unfamiliar because of respect.

Yes, respect is very important.

No more contact, because I respect you. I don't want any of my actions to get in your way. I thought you wanted to go to northern Europe with me to see the aurora, but on the way, I found that you prefer the coast of Maldives. I tried to tell you how beautiful the aurora is, but you said someone was waiting for you by the sea. It doesn't matter. Who doesn't love wrong? You have your sun, I have my snow, and I never want to be the one who makes you look back on your southern tour. Those who often look back know that love is just around the corner. Your best life, without my interference, running all the way.

Because I respect myself. I tried to keep pace with you, and I imagined accepting your seaside. I paid what I should and shouldn't pay, and I tasted the ups and downs of love and being loved. Finally, we chose different destinations. For the sake of working so hard for myself, I should also continue my trip to the North. I never want you to be my traveling companion, because there are unknown travelers waiting for me at the next stop. I want to make myself more beautiful and dazzling. I want to hear his unknown story. I want to compete.

Because I respect our past. A love, no matter how much deception, betrayal, hurt and disappointment it carries, also carries how much love and trust, dedication and expectation. I protect it well and don't want it to experience any more consumption. I don't want to add another pen and ink, and I don't want anyone to immerse myself in it. It cannot evaluate any past, nor should it affect my future. I just need it to stay in the deepest corner of my heart, miss it, look at it and complain about it.

Although I no longer love, I don't hate it. All cut off, just because it is the best choice. Like adults, we should know what love is. Love without respect is just a desire. This is not love, but a desire for possession. I don't want a random short message to care about whether your life is well or not, and I don't want a silent phone call to listen to the long-lost voice, because I know I will be happier without you and you will be more free without me. Any random teasing and involvement is an unforgettable blasphemy. If you really loved, please take responsibility like an adult man and woman, break up gracefully, leave freely without asking right or wrong reasons, and then naturally hold hands with others, even if you meet strangers.

Hope to adopt, thank you!