My girlfriend cheated on me with a gambler, and I was cuckolded.

My girlfriend cheated on me with a gambler, and I was cuckolded.

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Li Muzi:

I have been in love with my girlfriend for four years. My girlfriend is neither beautiful nor ugly. She has a hot body, big breasts and a big ass. We lived together in the university for three years and were inseparable.

When I am in love, my girlfriend actively chases me. After graduation, I separated the two places by an hour's drive. She has a tax system, and I work in a police station. I work easily and freely, but my salary is not high. I spend half a month with my girlfriend. Although I sometimes quarrel, it doesn't affect our feelings.

The emotional crisis appeared after my job transfer, and we began to be "husband and wife" on weekends. She often complains that I don't accompany her and don't want her. Later, her unit wanted to elect a deputy director, and she was nominated. Since then, her temperament has changed greatly. When she is with me, she always thinks that I am not helpful to her career. In order to elect her, she drank more and more fiercely. Every time I call her, I am either having dinner with the leaders or singing and dancing in the colorful places. So I'm angry. I'm afraid she will be used by those old goat. For this reason, we often quarrel, during which he broke up, because she always said that breaking up would naturally make up, so I didn't care too much.

The cold war lasted for two weeks, but we didn't meet, but we had telephone contact. I was going to ask for leave to accompany her, but she didn't want me to go, saying that she liked others. One was introduced by her mother, the other was a handsome guy who worked in a coal management station, and two officials chased her. She is choosing a suitable one among these people and told me not to look for her again. I ran to her dormitory in a rage and asked why. She said something to stimulate me. As soon as I got excited, I slapped her in the face. She ran out crying, and I hurried out to apologize. We slept together that night, and she said it was our last night.

From then on, I was depressed, and my parents asked me what was wrong. I said I broke up with my girlfriend. My parents like her very much, and my relatives say she is very good. They want me to get my girlfriend back. I feel a little inferior, and I think she must find a powerful person in the future. Why does she have a crush on me? Her various performances to me show that she has become utilitarian, but I still got up the courage to do a lot of things that moved her. Finally, she promised to make up, but she still refused to let me go to her place to stay in a hotel or travel together on weekends.

Once we were in a hotel, when she was packing, she took out a 35,000-yuan fixed passbook with the name of XX written on it. XX is a worker in his unit. The gambler loses nine times and wins once, and his cards are very poor. If she loses, she will smash the table and bench. I asked her who the money belonged to, and she told me that she couldn't find her ID card when she went to deposit, and she used XX's ID card to deposit. Because XX used to be the person she hated most. She is uneducated, uneducated, unreasonable, has a bad business and often bullies her. Now her girlfriend uses his name to save money. There must be something wrong. So I pulled up XX's phone records and short messages through the relationship, and the short messages were all about where to report. Girlfriends are more active. Judging from the telephone conversation, they have been having an affair for three months. By the way, XX has a wife and children. His wife works in a hospital and only stays together on weekends.

I think my girlfriend is very dirty and lewd. She has sex with XX from Monday to Thursday, and then comes to me for sex on Friday and Saturday. It's disgusting to think about it. I endured it for two weeks, intentionally or unintentionally suggesting and reminding her of the danger of her mistress, but she wouldn't listen. Maybe she's addicted to cheating. Last week, when we stayed in a hotel, I told my girlfriend the fact that she was having an affair with XX. At first, she denied it and lost her temper with me. Later, I said I checked. She finally admitted it and cried and told me that she had done the wrong thing with the wrong person at the wrong time. She also said that their love was pure and she didn't want to hurt XX's family.

What I don't understand is that cheating mistresses usually find good men. How can she be with such a person? Not only can't she help her, but she also posts, which is inversely proportional to her power to become an official. Besides, I have a good sex life.

She assured me that she would never cheat again and told me not to hurt XX's family or tell her parents. I know they will go out together again. I want her to live a normal life, and I want her parents to know her scandal. My friend said I was getting back at her. I don't know if that's true.

Reply to the blogger:

I can see that you care about this relationship, but you don't know that some women can't stand loneliness. For your girlfriend, you know that cheating with a married man will not bring you results, which is true, but after being bullied by him many times, you have an extra feeling. Let's call this feeling "mean". The principle is: beating is pro, scolding is love.

Over the years, you and your girlfriend have basically maintained a high-density contact. Your sudden busyness at work made her a little uncomfortable. Although he understands you, he may not accept the fact of being left out. It was also in this state that she had sex with a man she hated very much. Once, she lied that she didn't love you because a married hooligan conquered him in bed. I don't know how to conquer her, or that man is longer than you.

It can't be said that you are not strong enough, but you unfortunately met a master who fights in bed. Your girlfriend is a typical woman, so you have to admit it. I don't know whether you are angry from embarrassment, attached to your relationship for four years, or unwilling to be cuckolded. You have a little desire to get back at your girlfriend, but what will be left for you after revenge, and you will feel uncomfortable at that time.

Everyone has his own understanding of love. Now that it has been lost, the best way to get rid of it is to pay less attention. After all, you are also excellent. Why should you hang yourself from a tree? For you, your girlfriend, to be exact, your ex-girlfriend, you can find that she is willing to degenerate, but can't the male wife or her colleagues find out? You should remember that unmarried women can't be mistresses all their lives, but they will become wives one day, or they will turn against each other voluntarily, or they will be caught in bed. At least you shouldn't be a snitch. If you really can't stand this injustice, you can give the man's wife a hint anonymously. You'd rather let others catch the rape, and you don't even come forward, because if things go too far, your face may not be properly placed. Besides, the only thing you can do now is to get rid of her, even if she cries for you to make up, don't look back.