What should I do after the funeral?

After the funeral, thanking filial piety is an ancient custom, which means that the filial son's family salutes the mourners, and also means to pay tribute to the relatives and friends who come to mourn after the funeral expires.

In modern funerals, nephews/nieces mostly go to their uncles' homes to thank their filial piety, that is, the deceased's family. Whether the deceased is male or female, the children of the deceased should attend the ceremony of thanking filial piety. Go to my uncle's house to thank the little people, mostly the children of the deceased.

If the bereaved family is an only-child family, you can go to my uncle's house with my cousin to thank you, that is, the dutiful son goes to my mother's house to thank you. If the deceased has no children, nephews and nieces can go to her parents' house to thank her.

After the ceremony of thanking filial piety, my uncle's family will entertain the dutiful son who came to thank filial piety. When the dutiful son is about to go home after completing the task of thanking filial piety, my uncle will give some gifts back to the dutiful son who came to thank filial piety.

Xiao Xie's preparation:

Xiao Xie has two preparations:

First of all, the gift from Xiao Xie is very important. You can't just buy gifts, you have to prepare them for your family. According to the traditional custom, when mourning the deceased on the day of funeral, the bride's family should prepare the gifts needed by her filial son to thank her filial piety. There are not many gifts, but you must prepare them. The specific contents are: a white rooster, a plate of firecrackers, two carp, seven or eight pounds of offerings (knives), a handful of incense, eight steamed buns, several bundles of yellow burning paper, two white candles and so on. And they also bring gifts when thanking filial piety in different areas.

Second, the preparation of filial piety, the filial son goes to his uncle's house to give thanks, and he should wear neat mourning clothes, mourning clothes and mourning belts. Then, the dutiful son, under the leadership of the elders of the same clan, thanked his uncle's family.