A letter to my boyfriend's parents

After dating her boyfriend, she needs to communicate with his parents. So, how do you write to your parents? Below I sorted out the letters to my boyfriend's parents for your reference.

A letter to my boyfriend's parents

Aunt, I read the message. Are you okay? How's Linlin? Thank you for your concern for me. Take care of yourself. Me? I am very happy with him, and no one can replace each other's position in each other's hearts. Breaking up, from the beginning to now, he mentioned it twice, once in March this year and once in 1 1 month, that is, some time ago; I forgot it several times, but as a result, none of us can live without each other, and no one wants to separate this ending. You insisted on separating us, leaving me no room for resistance. I took the initiative to contact you several times, neither wanting to make you sad nor giving up my happiness. Let it happen later! If you don't believe me, I can't help it, but I still have to say my unhappiness!

Lin has no own way! Only the way you arrange it! Your previous generation's marriage has caused misfortune, so why let Linlin go on your way? He told me: I have often heard you quarrel since I was a child? He is used to being sandwiched between you. He can't help anyone. Nobody will listen to him. Have you considered his feelings? This? Don't say it's for my own good. Are you really good to him? It is a fact that he loves me! I can't change it, and he is extremely important in my heart, not just that you need him! I want to hate him, hate him because you gave up on me! But I can't hate it. Think about his situation. I really feel sorry for him! A family that should be happy, but can't feel happiness! He needs your understanding, but you can't understand him; So I always play this role, and he will tell me when he is uncomfortable; How brilliant is your smile when you are happy?

Do you know how much pressure you put on Linlin? Parents' love is always the greatest, and I know I don't deserve your family. I don't have a good background, a good job, a good education and a good appearance, but he didn't dislike me. It's just that your parents are afraid of shame and put pressure on him in various ways. I haven't had a chance to see you all this time, and I've been picturing the scene when I saw you in my mind? He kept encouraging me that everything would be all right. A few years have passed. Do you dare to say that he is willing to give up on me like this? Why does he always shut himself in his room? Still locked the door? Don't you think this door separates you father and son, mother and son very far? What do you know about his heart? How much do you care? How much did he actively communicate with you? Your unhappy marriage hurt him invisibly and taught him what his marriage needs.

Your Linlin people are very kind and sincere to me, and treat my parents like a prospective son-in-law. In front of friends, classmates, relatives and even teachers, he is undoubtedly my other half, seemingly unworthy, but closer than a real husband and wife. Is emotion a person's responsibility? How can I say that I hurt him and delayed him? Contact again and again, pay attention, send flowers, personally pack almonds, and send coffee? Please accept me and speak well! Did I make it for you? Make you hate me? Don't! I'm going to find marin! Am I pursuing the status and property of your family? I LXJ is not like this! Neither are my parents! My parents once said: If Marin is really hard to do in his own home, then come to my home. They will regard him as their own son! As his parents, I have always respected you from the bottom of my heart. You don't accept this relationship, which makes me sad, makes Linlin sad and makes my parents sad. I don't know what I did wrong. Am I bad to him? Or have I offended you? Why do I have to suffer alone? You have never seen me in all these years. He told me that you would like me one day and asked me to ignore what you said in your message.

Is height, birth and length so important to you? No one can treat him like me anymore! Think of everything for him, do everything for him and help him! No one can make him happy! From junior college to undergraduate, I helped him study (he likes playing, doesn't like classes, doesn't like painting, doesn't like homework); In life, we don't care about you and me; Now that he's working, I'm still trying to help him (the leader asked him to design news headlines and pages, and I helped him). The student said he was your social parasite? I can accept his lifestyle, temper and personality, as well as his usual performance. Do you guarantee that others will accept him? Wait until the uncooked rice is cooked, another unfortunate marriage and another imperfect life!

Are you really happy for him when you say happiness? You said that happiness is relative. Yes, nothing is perfect! When I was in junior college, Linlin rented a private house next to the school, and we began to live together. There is nothing in the house except a Simmons mattress with rusty springs and a chair without a stool. There is no heating in winter, the windows are frozen and there are no curtains. It's hard to talk about it. I was very touched that he could give me these at that time. The place where I decided to be with him is my home! What is even more touching is that he insisted on going to CD and school with me without telling you. Naturally, we lived together again and rented two rooms and one living room in the teacher's family building of the school. Our classmates, teachers and directors all know, and what we have done has touched them. Husband and woman sing together? It's a little exaggerated. It's no different from getting married, except having a baby.

I have devoted myself to him for several years. He asked me to understand him, and I did it, deceiving my parents and not letting them blame him. He asked me to wait for the result of his discussion with you. He said that you love him very much and will definitely help us. I have done it until now; He told me not to put pressure on him, and he would take care of things at home, and I did? In this relationship, he paid a lot, but I didn't? I got him! Didn't he hold me up? How have I treated him all these years? His sudden weight gain should explain something! You should not doubt my feelings for him!

To him: I am his friend, and I don't say anything; I am his lover, and if anything happens to me, he will feel distressed; I am his assistant. I helped him solve problems and dirty clothes and socks. I'm his baby. If I had money, I would buy me delicious food. I can't bear to eat by myself, nor can I bear to spend by myself. I am the closest person to him. Is there anything I can't tell you and my friends? Tell me that I cry like a child when I am wronged?

For me: he is a qualified boyfriend who gives me romance and makes me happy from time to time; Is he qualified? Husband? Wholeheartedly to me, never say a word to other girls, save money for me to spend, let me eat delicious food and work hard for him; He is also a qualified son-in-law and is very good to my family; It's my nearest relative. Listen to me. Help me. ..

In life, or in the environment you refer to, can you leave these? Do you deserve it just by your looks and origins? You can never get back a woman's infatuation with anything you take! No amount of money can make up for the damage done to this woman in recent years! A marriage that the whole family doesn't agree with! Ridiculous! Is his marriage directly related to whether they agree or not? You owe me! I owe my parents! Break up, the loss is you! ! I will never forget you in my life! Let go, is it that easy? I am not as generous as you. I will not give up what I want easily! Not even if you die!

You said that love is not everything. I am not only my own, but also my parents'. Yes! I can bear the pain alone, but my parents are innocent! So, how can I make up for the feelings my parents have paid over the years? My parents wouldn't say such things if they didn't see that Linlin was really nice to me. They would rather let him break into houses. He spent two Spring Festival holidays in my house, and on New Year's Eve he lit all the guns. The Spring Festival the year before last (that is, the third Spring Festival after we got better), my father was hospitalized with cerebral thrombosis, and Lin did the same thing as his own son in front of the hospital bed, and his parents were very moved. Last year (the fourth Spring Festival), my mother suddenly fell ill again. It was Lin who helped me send my mother to the hospital, and I took good care of her when I was finished. When we came back from graduation and caught up with the rest day at work, the four of us got together for dinner, sometimes at home and sometimes at the restaurant. My parents are happy to see us! Whose parents don't love their children! ? Which child doesn't love his parents? ! I heard from Linlin that you are in poor health. How much I want to visit you. Now, it seems impossible! I figured it out, even if your family begged me to be good with him, I wouldn't agree! Such a family, anyone feels terrible! I don't understand. I'm the only one who has been to your house. How could I die? How can my wife and children be separated and my family be ruined? ! There is no such threat! What makes you so disdainful of me? ! How can there be such a deep hatred? Marin's road, have you ever been a master yourself? A person who can't even control his own destiny, or a person, why? I think no one dares to enter such a family! Sorry for Lin! ! Not reconciled!

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Letter to boyfriend's parents Part II

Aunt:

I've always wanted to visit you, but I'm afraid it's too reckless for you to accept it, for fear that you'll be more angry. In my impression, you have always been a good mother because your son described you very well. Maybe every parent is always the best in their children's hearts. I really want to be filial to you and take care of you with your son, but aunt, why can't you accept me? Although every parent wants his child's other half to be excellent, I can understand your feelings.

We have always loved each other. Since your son told you that he wanted to get married, your disapproval, your interference, and all his efforts became weak, we have been on and off, trying to separate but inseparable, because we both love each other deeply. Aunt, do you know? What kind of mood did we come in after July? Your son doesn't go to bed until after two or three every night. He has been smoking, eating and sleeping. Because of the pain, he tortures himself and paralyzes his nerves every day. Because of the pain, he never wants to wake up by himself. He even tried to kill himself to solve his pain. Because he is filial and doesn't want to make you sad, he always makes himself sad. We refrained from meeting each other, but we burst into tears on the computer screen again and again. We can't help meeting and crying together. Aunt, can you bear it? You don't care about my sadness, but he is your son. Can't you be tolerant? You let your son choose between me and you. If you choose me, you will die. Aunt, you denied me everything before you met me. Maybe work is really important. Although I can't get into the civil service, I will work hard, love him and be filial to you. If I can, I want to kneel down, please accept me!

Maybe I love someone too lowly. Is it worth it in this way? But I really want to work hard. We love each other deeply, but we are suffering from separation. . . .

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Letter to boyfriend's parents 3

Aunt:

hello

I am a little girl you have never seen before. This is also Li Xiang's little girlfriend Yingjie. You may be surprised to see this letter. Sorry to bother you. But I really hope you can finish reading this letter. Thank you.

Sorry, my literary talent is not very good. And then searched it on Baidu? A letter to your boyfriend's mother? Many examples have been found, and it turns out that many people will experience such problems. But I thought about it. I'm not like them. Because I don't want to get a chance from you. But thank you.

I believe Li Xiang has probably told you about me. I am only 19 years old this year and just went to college. He said a lot about you in front of me. He was so excited and happy when I saw his comments on you. Aunt, you know, I really admire you. You can have your own career, or you can take care of your family so well and teach your son so well. My dream is to be. Top girls? Strong woman. But I know it's really hard. So when I first heard Li Xiang talk about you, I thought you were my goal. My father is also a businessman. He taught me to be modest. In fact, I really hope to have the opportunity to learn from you or get to know you. When watching "Floating and Sinking", I found that it is really difficult for girls to compete with boys in business wars. There are many things to sacrifice. My goal is to learn hotel management, but my family all think that this is not something that girls can do. I really want to learn how to strengthen interpersonal relationships. I learned a lot from my association with Li Xiang. I am a more pessimistic person, who taught me how to be optimistic and how to improve my interpersonal relationship. It has changed a lot compared with before. Without Li Xiang's tolerance, I think I am still a wayward child.

Aunt, I really admire you. Li Xiang listens to you very much, and you are considerate of him. My mother is a very ordinary housewife. She doesn't communicate much with me, but she cooks silently in the kitchen to support me. When she knew that Li Xiang was going back to China for development, she taught me to get together and then leave. My mother likes Li Xiang very much. I don't blame you for letting Li Xiang go back to China. After all, he is your only child. I don't want to embarrass him either. I also know that you want him to get married early. So I promised Li Xiang that as long as he returned to China, I would not pester him again. He is a very good man, and I believe he will also be a good husband and father. I really don't want to give it up. But I know it's not easy for you. My father is 65 years old now. He's still working, just because I'm still in college. I know that because of me, I have brought a burden to my family. I know, I'm still young, and being with Li Xiang is also a burden to him. He has to pay the monthly rent, give a car loan and tolerate me. I really enjoyed my time with him. However, when I saw that he had to drink at night to go to bed, I saw that he was full of white hair, and I saw that he was busy with work but had no time to prepare lunch. I know he should need a girl to take care of him. I brought him nothing but trouble. I hope that people who know me and people I know are happy.

As a little girl, I always feel that feelings are just two people's things, only love and not love. In fact, in reality, love is not important. What matters is health and happiness. When I learned that my uncle was ill, only my aunt supported me, and I had to go to work to take care of my uncle. I know you are just an ordinary woman, but you must bear it. Li Xiang should also go back.

My father almost became paraplegic when I was very young. When I was a child, I only saw my mother crying. I didn't understand it then, but I can't wait to grow up and take on these responsibilities.

When Li Xiang and I talked about this heavy topic, I just cried. I really appreciate you. Thank you for teaching such a good son and letting me meet him. I am very lucky. And I won't keep him.

Aunt, actually, I didn't think much about that perfume, it was just a gift. Because I am only a part-time job, I can't buy anything too expensive, and I don't know what you like. Just because you are Li Xiang's mother. I didn't mean to impress you. Maybe there are differences between north and south cultures. At first, Li wanted to refuse to meet my parents, which surprised me. In fact, our family in the south is very hospitable. We just want to meet someone our son or daughter likes. You don't have to be engaged to meet. And because Li Xiang also gave my mother a gift, I will choose a gift for you.

My father doesn't like Li Xiang, but it's not like that. My father has high expectations of me. He just blames me for not studying hard. But he also told me later that Li Xiang was an honest man and was good at handling things. He also believed that Li Xiang would be a good boyfriend, so he didn't stop me.

It seems a little long to write this letter here. . Sorry, auntie, you wasted your time reading this article.

I really appreciate it.