When parents quarrel, how can children effectively persuade?

These methods can be used, but the most important thing is to let parents realize the disadvantages of quarreling from the bottom of their hearts. Sometimes fighting is just to keep parents from quarreling, and there is no real mediation.

1. Tell parents to stop arguing, and then pull them to different rooms to calm them down.

As an intermediary between them, you can tell your parents how uncomfortable you are when they quarrel. If your parents consider your feelings, they may think of you first when they quarrel and try to control their temper. However, this persuasion is more suitable for parents who quarrel less. It's no use if parents often quarrel. It is estimated that all persuasion will go in one ear and out the other, or two people will kill their children together.

2, adults' affairs are solved by adults and do not participate. If the quarrel between two people is not serious, but loud, then leave him alone. Let them bicker slowly Sometimes couples will vent their emotions in this way, or speak their minds. Actually, sometimes it's good to say it. At this time, persuasion can't actually untie the knot between the two sides.

You can ask other family members or relatives to stop fighting.

For example, grandparents live with you, or grandparents can tell the old man to stop fighting at this time. If the old man is old or has some diseases, then don't use this method, for fear of stimulating the old man, it will aggravate his illness. Or if you have relatives living near your home, you can ask them to come and stop the fight. This trick is still useful, it can calm them down and not make things worse.

Step 4 call the police

Some couples quarrel and fight, then call the police. Because parents choose to fight, they may hurt each other in the process, and children may be hurt if they try to stop fighting at this time. The best way for their children is to call the police.