He was angry when he refused to date his lover.

I'm sure I'll be angry, but I won't turn my face. If he likes you, there will be a second time. How to politely refuse heterosexual dating 1 Tell the other person that you have something, but if you don't want to go to the appointment, you can tell the other person that you have something and talk about it another day. The other party will naturally understand what you mean after listening, and will definitely not chase you and ask what it is. This rejection will not hurt harmony, nor will it make the other party feel embarrassed. At the same time, I will feel much more relaxed and will not be embarrassed by this matter. If you tell the other person that you are not at home at present and you don't want to go on a date, you should learn to find reasons to politely refuse. When the opposite party sends you an invitation to date, but you don't want to keep the appointment, you can directly tell the other party that you are not at home at present, or that you are out of town, and let the other party know that you can't keep the appointment. 3. Ask what's going on in advance. When the opposite sex asks you out, you can ask the other person what's going on in advance. If the other party says there is nothing important, you can tell the other party at this time and solve it by phone or text message. If the other person says he wants to talk to you, he should also ask what it is in advance so as to decide whether to go or not. 4, directly refuse some people like to use some dead-bound invitations, I believe that no matter who meets such people, they will definitely feel very disgusted. Just say no when you meet such a person. "Declining" doesn't work for such people, because the more tactfully you refuse, the more reasons the other party invites. It is suggested to distinguish what kind of person the other party is in advance, and then choose the appropriate reason to refuse. Refuse a lover's date. He was angry. A wise lover, no matter how much he cares about a man, will refuse his following demands. No matter how much you care about a man, you will refuse his following requirements. I remember someone said before that people who don't know how to refuse will only make each other more unscrupulous. That is to say, when you have no tendency to refuse the feelings expressed by men. Men are likely to find it really easy to get your feelings, so that they don't cherish you as before, and even have some hurtful actions. Therefore, women should learn to refuse when facing feelings, especially after middle age. If they don't know how to refuse, their life will be even worse. On the contrary, learning to reject men's feelings will make men feel like a baby, so they will cherish and respect you more. Of course, this doesn't mean that you can only get the respect of the other party if you refuse your feelings. If you don't want or like some things in life, you can choose to refuse them completely, and there is no need to do them with emotion. For example, some girls can give up their circle of friends, their ideals and their pursuits for love. Perhaps the reason is that I am afraid that my other half will be jealous and want to be the full-time backing of my other half. If a man asks you to do this, you feel the same way. Maybe you can use a silly word to describe your practice. It's not about who pays how much when two people are together. But two people help each other and face difficulties together. It doesn't mean that one party will give up its pursuit and ideal. Middle-aged women, in particular, have struggled all their lives, and the most important thing for themselves is not the so-called love. It is your own ideal. If you choose to give up your ideals and goals at this age, but choose love, it may be considered naive. Now that I have reached middle age, I know better than anyone what kind of life I want. Therefore, you should refuse a man's request appropriately, even for your own ideas, and make a decision to refuse bravely, so that real life will not live up to your choice. In the emotional world, women must remember to have their own independent thoughts, that is, independent personality, and don't blindly listen to every word a man says. Because when you cater to men excessively, you will find yourself very strange. At this point, maybe even you will hate yourself. There have been such examples around friends. When she found herself bored, when she really calmed down, the other party didn't really love herself. He became more and more bored with himself, which made her lose the confidence to stay with him. And this is to warn all women that loving one person is not about fighting for the other. You need to treat the feelings of two people with rational love. You should understand that maintaining your unique charm will attract men's sincerity and make them cherish your existence more. Of course, more women like to be loved by men, but this kind of love does not make them rely on reaching for food, but dotes. After two people get together, maybe some men will ask women to quit their jobs and take care of family affairs. If you really become over-dependent and lose your own financial resources, you will find yourself a worthless person in the near future. Therefore, in the face of men's demands, women should make a rational decision and refuse this decision, otherwise the reality will give you pain. Furthermore, we can't predict what life will be like in the future. One more source of income is only good for two people's lives. Even when you refuse a man's request, some men will think that they have really found a treasure. Therefore, as a woman, no matter what age you are, you should learn to refuse, and don't let everything go with the flow, which is not conducive to your life. He was angry when he refused to date his lover. Whether it is a wife or a lover, he has the following three performances: the person who really loves you! 1, jealousy has no room for "sand" in his eyes. Because he cares about you, he will be jealous of you. If he doesn't care, he doesn't care which opposite sex you are with. His heart has cooled and he is not interested in you. Love a person, often for a trivial matter, will be angry, but will quarrel, will make a scene, make a scene together. People who say a few words and go their separate ways will not really understand each other without true love. Please cherish the people who are angry for you, because anger is love, concern, and can't let go, and can't let go of "anyone." If one day, you will be angry with him, it will prove that you love him too, and there will be no mistake. It seems like a trivial matter, but she is angry. If you love someone, you will give your life for him. Even though you know this is a dangerous wall, it is the safest place in her heart. Women will be angry with you for little things. Don't think she is unreasonable. She cares too much. Your business is very important to her. 3. I look forward to being together all my life and never parting. Whether couples or lovers, lovers have only one goal: to grow old together. Lovers always have lovers, but there is no lack of expectation for love. A person, with a heart in mind, will pin his life on him, knowing that he is unreliable, but still reluctant to let go. And lovers who love each other are waiting quietly. They say that the best love is to make each other look the most beautiful. Being with the right person will make you better. He will help you grow and give you positive energy. I will try my best to convey his happiness to you, and I will be willing to bring you into his life. People who really love you will have you in their future plans and will give you the best things.