Lawyer Lu creates a perfect marriage with a mature attitude!

"You want a divorce?" I stared at her. She looked handsome without makeup. "Give me a reason." When she really heard me, she asked her why. It seemed a little stuck. "What are the reasons for divorce?" "I may have to help this person sort out the reasons for divorce again." I sighed in my heart and asked, "How long have you been married to him? Why are you getting married? 」

"I married him for about a year, and we got married because we had children." "Such a short time, but only one year, why divorce?" I asked. "No." Three short words. "Disagreement cannot be used as a reason for divorce." I said, "He didn't have domestic violence? No. He didn't commit adultery. No. So this is really just a disagreement? " She nodded. "So, this may belong to the second item of Article 1052 of the Civil Law, which is what we call the' defect theory' in theory. The so-called jealousy means that there is a flaw in the relationship between husband and wife, and this kind of embarrassment is unbearable for most people. " I looked at her. "Is it so serious between you?" "What is serious? Do you smoke, sir? Playing mahjong? Go drinking with friends? " She asked, her eyes suddenly lit up. "It should be said that when you say it, many people will' wow' and think that there is no natural reason not to divorce. This is called imperfection." I said: "For example, ten years without * * *, ten years without taking a bath and other reasons, but it is definitely not the flaw of not quitting smoking and occasionally drinking two cups. 」

"He has no such serious shortcomings," she said. "It's just his character." "Then you can continue to get along and see, maybe there will be new discoveries." I said. "Too late. I have moved out with my children for three months. " She said quietly. "You can't move out unilaterally!" I said, "You may have the problem of' abandoning each other' in a continuous state. "Now you are wrong." "I can't continue to live with him, I can only move out!" She said angrily. "all right." I shrugged. "You haven't told me why you want to divorce. Tell you what, just give me three examples, three examples that make me sound angry, and I'll help you find a way. 」

She thought for a long time, and when she thought, I sighed deeply. "I can't think of it?" "This is often a small matter in life, which is difficult to remember." She said: "marriage is consumed by these trivial things!" " "I can understand. But I just don't love it. When you don't love, the wrong position of the toothbrush can be used as a reason for divorce. But you still haven't given me three examples. " I'm in hot pursuit. "Very good." She took a deep breath. "He can slide his mobile phone while driving, and he can't listen to anything." I shook my head, "then I may be divorced by you ten thousand times. The second example! " After I robbed her, she froze. "He doesn't respect my family." "Does he have no respect for his family?" I asked. She showed a surprised expression. "How do you know?" "I guess." I said airily. "The third example?" "He always asks me to wake him up and then lie in bed. I am often late for work because he has to send my children to the nanny's house and then send me to work. " She said.

"okay. I think you can tell him that if you love me, please pay attention to my safety and don't slide your mobile phone. After committing the crime three times, tell him directly and firmly, please stop the car, I want to get off, and I promise to scare him. As for disrespect for family, I guess he should be a big shot, so he is not very polite. Just read this a few times. If it really can't be changed, as long as the two families are treated equally, there is nothing wrong. Finally, if he really can't get up, you can choose not to call him and go to work by yourself. You don't need him to take the children to the nanny's house. You can take a taxi yourself. The report is over! " I said in one breath, "the whole thing seems to me that you didn't realize after all that you are the mother of the child and the wife of others, that's all." 」

She looked unconvinced, but there was no way to refute it. "I ask you, why did you have sex with him?" I suddenly changed the subject. "Ah?" She was speechless. "Of course, because I like him." "What do you like about him?" I asked. "He seems to be very responsible and a good man." She didn't forget to emphasize the word "looks". "Oh?" I smiled. "Then when you are pregnant, you know that you have only been with him for three months. Why don't you take off your baby? " She hesitated before answering, "because I think he" should be "the right person to get married?" Still don't forget to emphasize the word "should". "I didn't know until I got married that he was not such a person at all! 」

"But, I ask you, don't you have any shortcomings?" I asked. "Of course I do." Her reaction is quick. "Then I ask you, did he see your shortcomings? For example, the makeup is too slow, the mother of the child feeds the child in the wrong way, and if it is too troublesome, it will instruct him to drive and not cook. " I asked. "No, he didn't read me." She said simply. "How do you know I have these shortcomings?" "yes! It can be seen that he is really a big shot, don't force him to death. I avoided talking about her doubts, but I thought, don't most men think so? " However, I went back to my mother's house for three months, and he never came to see us! "She began to get excited." How could he do that? ""Then how can you do it? Your man may feel ashamed and don't know what to do if you take the child away. " I said, "Of course, maybe he has a mistress now and is very happy." "How dare he! ？” She blurted out.

"Well, do you want to have a try and write down what you thought of him before you got married?" I tried to convince him, "Maybe you look back, but he's not that bad?" She shook her head. "I want a divorce. I really can't stand him." With that, tears fell down. "The problem is that he doesn't want to divorce now. If you file a divorce lawsuit, the judge may not agree. Let me put it this way. I can't even write a letter of complaint. What reason do you want me to write? " I asked. "Your lawyer must have a way." She said. I raised my hand and surrendered. "I can't help it. If you don't even give me a fulcrum, I can't lift the whole world. " "Ah?" She may not know what I'm talking about. "Well, I'll give you a chance. You talk to him and see if he wants to come to me. If that's the case, let me help you two understand the situation. If you want a divorce, I'll write an agreement. Don't divorce, please go home hand in hand for the New Year. " She finally nodded and was willing to accept my suggestion. "Marriage is not always like this, but so is marriage." I said the last sentence to her. I hope she really understands. Lu authorized to reprint the original link.