My mother-in-law wants me to exchange her house with my natal house when I get married. What should I do?

My husband and I have been in love for three years. In the fourth year, we were ready to get married. But my mother hesitated when she saw that her husband’s family had nothing to offer. She said she was afraid that I would be wronged if I got married, although it was okay. I live in my husband's house, but that house was built when my father-in-law was still alive. They were assigned a small house, and there is also my sister-in-law Yaoyao at home. Even if they get married and live there, it will be crowded. After all, there are only two rooms, and they usually have one to eat. The food is okay, but it would be inconvenient to live there. My father-in-law left us with the money when we got married, and my mother-in-law has been idle all year round, so she relies on her husband to support her.

If my husband hadn’t been filial to my parents, I wouldn’t have lived with him. When we got married, my mother said that she would marry us the house they just bought, and they would go back to their hometown. After all, people always have to live in their hometown when they get old. Fallen leaves have returned to their roots. Thinking of this, I am very grateful to my mother. After we got married, my husband and I lived in my mother’s dowry house. It had three bedrooms and two living rooms, and it was quite luxuriously decorated. My parents didn’t live there for long, and they moved out not long after we got married. I went back to my hometown, and I said I would go back to see them from time to time.

My mother-in-law often brings her sister-in-law to the house for dinner. Every time, she says that I cook. After dinner, my husband goes to work overtime. Everything at home falls into my hands, and so does my sister-in-law. Even though I'm nineteen years old, you never ask me to help you wash the dishes! Or help me sweep something. Every time after dinner, I would watch TV with my mother-in-law in the living room and eat melon seeds. Sometimes the floor I just swept would be stained by the two of them. I couldn’t say anything. After all, It's my mother-in-law.

This is my sister-in-law’s 20th birthday, so I proposed to spend it at my house. I just had a rest. I went to buy groceries in the morning, passed by the pastry room, bought a cake, and sent a message to my husband. I asked him to bring him back when he got off work. When I got home, I was busy. In the afternoon, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law came, and they brought a man with them. My sister-in-law said he was her boyfriend. As soon as the man came in, he said , Yaoyao, your home is well decorated? After hearing this, I didn't tell anyone.

I just watched my sister-in-law take her boyfriend to visit my house. When my husband came back, I didn’t say that to him. After dinner, my sister-in-law took her boyfriend out, and my mother-in-law So I stayed. After I finished cleaning up, my mother-in-law asked my husband and I to sit down and discuss something with us. My mother-in-law said that my sister-in-law’s boyfriend’s house was in good condition. If I saw the old house, I would find it difficult to live in. She wanted to come with me. Exchange the house. When the sister-in-law gets married, you can exchange it back, so that others can think more highly of your sister-in-law and won't think that your sister-in-law's family has no confidence.

Hearing this, I looked at my husband, and my husband looked at me and asked me. In fact, I know that this house belongs to my parents. I was thinking that grandma would welcome them to live in this house, but I didn't agree to the exchange, so I said two words to my mother-in-law: No exchange. When my mother-in-law heard my categorical statement that I would not change, she angrily said that we did not consider my sister-in-law's happiness because we wanted her to marry and be wronged. Before I could explain, my mother-in-law left in anger.

Seeing my mother-in-law leave angrily, I told my husband, do you think I should agree? My husband said, "You shouldn't, you can't let my mother have such thoughts. You see, my parents-in-law didn't dislike the house I had. They gave me the house to live in. If you don't change it, I agree, and my husband also agrees." I don't have any burden on my heart. After all, if I love you, I won't do it because of such false things. If I don't treat you well, it will show up one day. Do you think it's wrong for me not to change the house?