My boyfriend broke up with me, and then he didn't return my messages. What should I do?

What if my boyfriend wants to break up and doesn't return my message? Your boyfriend wants to break up with you and won't return your message during the cold war. First of all, you need to calm down, try to get back in touch and get your boyfriend back step by step.

1. If it is your fault, take the initiative to apologize.

But if this quarrel is the woman's fault, then women must learn to apologize. Apologizing is not difficult. It depends on whether you are willing to bow your head and admit your mistake. Men can be stingy sometimes. This kind of apology is not something that women can casually perfunctory. Be sure to let men feel your sincere apology. Then he will change his mind and stop being angry with you. Smart women may bow their heads at the right time, not to hurt their self-esteem, because we should learn to respect others while respecting ourselves. Only a woman who really understands the truth can know how to distinguish between situations. Don't be stingy with your face when you need to apologize. Don't hurt those who really care about you. If this person is your destiny takes a hand, you will miss him.

2, learn to communicate, can not continue the cold war.

When your boyfriend chooses to ignore you, he is hinting that he wants to fight you. But the cold war is often more terrible than quarreling. Many couples haven't contacted each other since the cold war, so they naturally broke up. In fact, they met again many years later and realized that it was just a misunderstanding. Therefore, women must take the initiative to communicate with men, understand his emotions, and find out why he is angry. Everything happens for a reason. If you keep asking, you'll never know why he ignored you. But if you take the initiative to communicate with him, maybe he will soften up and you two will be relieved.

Learn to control your emotions at this time.

When the other party replies to information beyond their psychological expectations, girls will be very angry and completely ignore the reasons for this connection. At this time, if boys accidentally encounter information, girls will begin to express their dissatisfaction, or the cold war will bring trouble to boys. So suppose you have already started to have emotions while waiting for your boyfriend's information, then control your emotions first, and then patiently understand the reasons and give the other party a chance to explain. Then consider whether to continue the investigation according to the other party's explanation. Isn't it better to ask the other party to give you some compensation and comfort than to quarrel?