How to investigate a wife's infidelity? How to investigate and know that my wife is cheating?

Cheating is a common thing. Men and women cheated on each other many times. Sometimes men will find that something is wrong with their wives recently. When a woman has an affair, there will be these details.

How to investigate a wife's infidelity?

1. SMS: I believe that if she really has an affair, the ambiguous content in the SMS will definitely be deleted by her. What you need to do is not to check her short messages, but to observe whether she has sent short messages behind your back, or waited for a short message all day, or whether she has a sweet smile after receiving the short messages.

2.QQ: Check the chat record when the wife goes to the toilet. If the chat content is ambiguous and the object is the opposite sex, then your wife may have secretly fallen in love with someone behind your back. If they are limited to chatting and have no actions, such as dating, then don't worry too much and don't expose it. It is likely that your long-term neglect of her led her to find another person who is willing to listen to her and care about her.

How to investigate and know that my wife is cheating?

Change 1: Going out has greatly increased, and there are always different reasons.

A wife who was passionate about housework suddenly neglected the management of housework, often went out in a hurry, and said that it was as weird as not going home for dinner tonight, just like the way to go is narrow. Suddenly, she became close, and they either had ulterior motives or hidden dangers, and their habits were exposed.

Change 2: I am preoccupied, in a trance, moody and often angry for no reason.

A wife who has changed her mind and found a new lover, no matter how she pretends to confuse your judgment, as long as she pays close attention, it is not difficult to find the clues of her change of heart, because at this time, she will suddenly become more moody than before and criticize you in every way. As a husband, no matter how good you are to her, she will always find fault with you and often send you inexplicable fire, which will easily hurt innocent children.

Change 3: For a period of time, she will often inquire about her husband's schedule, seemingly caring but actually arranging appointments.

This is easy to understand. My wife, who used to come home on time, suddenly left home late or too early. She also likes to often inquire about her man's schedule, how to travel, work overtime and go home. This seems to be concerned about a man going out, afraid of his accident and worrying about him. In fact, sometimes it's just a preparation for his man to discover his secret.

Change: Mobile phone consumption broke out for some time, and it will maintain a certain proportion of growth every month.

Mobile phone has become the most commonly used communication tool, but it is the best communication platform for people to cheat today. Both men and women can hide some superficial behaviors after having an affair, but in any case, they can't talk to each other without texting. This is especially true when a woman has an affair.

Change 5: consumption has increased significantly, especially the expenditure on clothing and cosmetics accounts for a large proportion. Clothes make the man, and horses depend on the saddle.

Women are born to love beauty. Women who cheat pay more attention to their own image. When they meet other men they like in marriage, they will pay more attention to their clothes. It's obviously an aunt, and she has to dress herself up as a little girl in her twenties!

Change 6: the frequency of sexual life is reduced and the quality is reduced. Obviously, it is perfunctory to her husband.

When couples do their weekly homework, men will find that their wives' handling of sexual life has become a mere formality. In the past, when they finished speaking, they would tease themselves and say sweet words like how your body is, but now they moan like dying people, completely losing their true emotional connotation; She used to cooperate with you to transform different sexy love, but now she lets you vent like a dead body.

How to investigate and collect evidence for wife's infidelity

1. There is no need to collect evidence of extramarital affairs at any cost. We should focus on investigation and evidence collection and property preservation. In the evidence collection of extramarital affairs, we should do what we can, don't exceed our financial ability, and don't focus on it for several years. Many innocent parties, in order to grasp the conclusive evidence of the other party's deviance, even paid a lot of money to hire people or "detective companies" to investigate, but in the end they failed to obtain evidence, bringing more pain and losses to themselves, which was not worth the candle. Lawyers reminded that when taking evidence of extramarital affairs according to one's ability, we should focus on investigation and evidence collection and property preservation.

2. The occasions and means of obtaining evidence by "catching rape" should be legal and should not violate the law. Otherwise, even if it reflects the facts, it will not be adopted by the court. We can't punish ourselves with the mistakes of others. One is to "catch rape" in your own home to collect evidence. If your spouse brings a third party home to have sex, the court will accept it more easily if you break into houses, raise your camera, click and take pictures of your spouse and the third party in bed. At present, many judges take this way of obtaining evidence, and will judge divorce accordingly, asking the wrong party to compensate the spouse. Because you catch your spouse making out with a third party in your own house, you can't talk about breaking into someone else's house, so you can't be investigated for criminal responsibility. However, if you catch a rape in your own bed, don't be aggressive, don't spread photos, and don't insult a third party. Evidence is only used in court trials, so it is more likely to be effective. On the other hand, if the parties post and distribute photos everywhere, it can be established to infringe the reputation right of a third party.

What if my wife is having an affair?

1. Keeping calm is always the first priority.

No man can make his wife cuckold. Sadness, anger and shame are very normal phenomena. However, it is not advisable to lose your mind and choose the wrong way to vent your anger. Beating your wife and retaliating against a third party can only make you more unfortunate. This will further alienate her from you and completely break the second time, which could have been reunited. So at this moment, no matter how angry you are, reason is always the first thing you need to do.

2. Don't divorce in time.

Some men find their wives having an affair. Instead of having a good talk with their wives and trying to make it right, they took their wives to court and divorced together. This way is too simple. As we all know, divorce procedures are easy to handle, but can the relationship between husband and wife, especially the relationship between children and mothers, be so easily broken off? Of course, if the relationship does break down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, then you have to divorce. But on the whole, we should make more efforts to bridge the rift in our relationship, and rash divorce often brings bad consequences.