Does he love you or not? In fact, just look at the "chat mode"!

Yesterday, my friend called me to catch up. During the chat, we accidentally mentioned her boyfriend, so I asked them by the way.

I thought she would share many happy things with me, but the first thing she knew was that she didn't know what he was busy with recently. I send WeChat, but he always doesn't reply. Even if he does, he will have to wait for hours. When he answers, he is as precious as gold, which is similar to, um, oh. ...

So I asked her, who took the initiative to contact more when you two were in love? She said firmly, of course it's me. He is too busy at work to have time.

I said: you are the stupidest. Who is more active in dating girls? No matter how busy he is, he will keep in touch with you.

She quickly explained, no, he said he was working hard for me now. He said he would give me a romantic wedding, buy a big house, and let me only take care of beauty at home ... so every time he ignored me, I thought he was actually fighting for our future.

I don't have time to fall in love, what else can I talk about? Even if there is no more time, people who really love you will meet each other, even if they have a meal, go to the toilet or cross the street, they will contact you. No time means no time for you.

A person who always contacts you through SMS, WeChat, qq and other chat tools must be someone who cares about you.

Usually, you are always the first to ask "Are you there?" Dear people, they must be the favorite people in a relationship.

Under normal circumstances, if a boy doesn't call you because he doesn't want to, so believe me, if a boy doesn't care about you, then he really doesn't care about you at all. Similarly, if a person loves you, he will definitely contact you.

Chen Danqing, a painter, once said that when people have love in their hearts, they will feel uncomfortable.

Whether he loves you or not, you can see who is more active in the chat record.

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Qiner and Bridge met through "WeChat Shake". Two people, one in the north and the other in the south, chat, video and send voice on WeChat every day. After three months, they decided to establish a relationship.

I asked Qin Er, how can you be sure that this man is your prince charming? She came back with a happy face. Looking at his chat, she knew that he loved me.

Chin said that when we talked, he never asked me if I was cold or hot.

For example, if it rains at noon, will he remind you to bring an umbrella in the morning instead of asking if it rains?

In foggy days, he will remind you not to run in the morning and supervise you to wear a mask.

When the temperature drops suddenly, he will make you put on gloves, put on a scarf and give you medicine with cold hands and feet.

At first, I thought he really had special powers and knew the weather here better than I did. I later learned that he pays attention to the weather forecast of my city every day.

Chin also said that when we were chatting, if there were 10 conversations, almost 10 conversations were all about me. What do you eat today? Where have you been? Are you in a better mood? When you want to care about him, he will naturally change the subject, and finally let you talk about yourself. He will listen attentively all the time and make you feel that even if you are bored, it will be very interesting in his eyes.

Finally, she said that no matter what I said, he always replied more than me, and he was always the last person to end the conversation. Once we said good night to each other and talked back and forth for 10 minutes. He insisted that he was the last one.

In fact, it is really obvious whether you love someone or not. If he loves you, he will want to talk to you a lot and want to know a lot about you, even if it is a small thing like eating, he should not miss it.

Love is to be caring and attentive, to be considerate, affectionate and distressed. Love also involuntarily wants to care about you all the time and hold you in my arms.

Marx once said that only love and cough can't hide it. He loves you, and the chat content must be full of topics and memories about you.

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Yesterday, I had dinner with a group of friends. We chose a farm yard that was praised on the Internet to eat chicken. That place is particularly remote, belonging to a particularly pure pastoral scenery, and in order to prevent customers' mobile phones from being stolen, the boss deliberately did not install sockets. Our party has gone, and the cell phone is dying, and the signal is not good. For food, it was also "isolated".

When I first arrived there, Brother Qiao was fidgeting and anxious. He immediately went out to look for a signal, and finally borrowed someone else's mobile phone and sent a message to his girlfriend, saying that he was eating out and said good night in advance, fearing that he would not be able to contact him in the future. But when we went, it was just 2 pm.

Brother Qiao said that she would be worried if her mobile phone died in the future. We all laughed at his willingness to reveal his whereabouts. In fact, we still envy her girlfriend, because Joe always thinks from her standpoint.

No matter where Joe goes, he will ensure that his mobile phone has electricity, internet and no arrears. Have a meeting when you are not at home, and report to your girlfriend how long the meeting will last. If you don't answer her phone in time, no matter how busy you are, reply immediately when you are free.

In our opinion, this is unnecessary, because there is really no need to worry so much? Even if there are special circumstances, it will be explained afterwards. Joe is not like this. He said, if you love someone, don't let her worry about you. Don't let her miss you, even if it's 1 hour. A girl, cautious and sensitive, can save her time to think and think by calling in advance.

After listening to his words, everyone gave him a thumbs-up sign.

A person who really loves you, he won't let you wait passively, he will think from your standpoint, even if it is a small matter like chatting, and he won't let you even have a trace of concern.

Compared with those who are always in contact with you and never around, they will reply to you after thinking about it. People who really love you don't want you to worry.

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People who love you will contact you first. The so-called too busy to have time is actually an excuse. When you love someone, time will naturally increase.

Secondly, if you love someone, you will want to know everything about her one day, every meal, dish, line and thing. Because you care, you want to know.

When you chat with her, the seemingly boring conversation is actually a spiritual communication between two people, because only by appreciating each other and loving each other can we talk. No one will waste time on someone you don't like, especially in the sparse and trivial daily life.

Writer Zhou once said that a reliable criterion to measure whether two people love each other is whether they try to figure out and appreciate each other. Two lovers must always ponder over each other, and they can't help playing, and the more they play, the more interesting they feel. If one day you feel bored and have no fun, love will be gone.

In front of the person you love, sometimes, you can say, "Are you there? Yes, I miss you. Me too. "All day. Even if you send a WeChat emoticon, you can play for a day. Never tired, never tired.

Finally, if you love someone, you can't help thinking of her from the bottom of your heart. Even when chatting, you won't miss any conversation for no reason. Love is a question, an answer. Between the question and the answer, in the communication, in your thoughts, we will deepen our feelings.

No matter whether he loves you or not, you can know from the way of chatting that there must be deep love hidden at the beginning, middle and end of your chat conversation, which is continuous and warm to your heart. Do you like this article? Share this article with more people ~

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