How to chat effectively with old classmates?

Seeing that the summer vacation is coming, I came home and met my primary school, junior high school, senior high school, and even my old classmates who had shared joys and sorrows in the cram school. I was speechless and didn't know how to chat. Look at them, I don't know what to say. Bian Xiao teaches you two tricks to learn how to chat with old classmates and find the same topic immediately!

1. Speaking of former classmates, for each of us, the most precious memory is undoubtedly the memory of school. Who is married to whom, who likes whom, what happened to the goddess in the end, and who the male god loved in the end. These people's past people can help you quickly contact the feelings of old classmates without embarrassment.

2. Talk about the past ideals. Have you achieved what you thought in the past? Talking with your old classmates about the ideal that you thought was out of reach in the past, and whether it has been achieved now will quickly narrow your distance. After all, people are similar, and you will soon find the same feeling.

Speaking of the same hobby, most people who travel through the city have a little hobby of their own. It is often seen that people in suits and ties find a string bar to watch the ball game after work, and chatting with old classmates about these topics that everyone likes will help you find the feeling of congeniality that you got along with in those years.

Talking about work, in fact, talking about work is not a good topic, which will make some students who are not very good at work feel embarrassed, but the moment when old classmates get together is also an attractive golden moment. Talking about work may find your noble people.

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1. When you chat with someone and learn that they are alumni, you should call them senior, not junior just because they are old. A good address will leave a marked impression, and the next trip will be easier and give people a sense of intimacy.

When talking with people, don't blow your own horn and chatter endlessly. You come to interact with me. Talk more about each other's advantages and the conversation will be smooth. It never hurts to say nice things to others. Sometimes, if there is really nothing to say, just try to say something short from your parents, or wait a while and then follow suit. Similarly, you can make preparations in advance and plan ahead.

When talking with people, don't put your hands in your pockets, don't chew gum or betel nut, and don't wear sunglasses to talk with people.

When talking with people, don't ask personal privacy questions such as age, salary and marriage. Especially for women, don't ask questions about age after signing, which will make him embarrassed and even make the party unable to go on normally. For friends, sometimes they have secrets that they don't want to tell you. At this time, don't get to the bottom of it.

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1. Usually the first step in opening a dialog box is to recall the past, and it won't be embarrassing to talk about what we experienced together. At this stage, we must pay attention to it and be modest, such as talking about our past scandals and the other party's past glory, so as to give the other party a chance to continue. Through such a harmonious understanding, recalling such third-party sex stories in the past years, friendship will make you two return to a relatively closer relationship with the experience of * * * *.

2. talk about the status quo. When you get acquainted, you can enter the second stage: talking about the status quo. If the other person doesn't mention it, you can also open this topic: What happened? Note that after throwing this question, you must feel that the other party is complaining or showing off too much. I believe everyone has their own strategies when they meet old friends who show off, so I won't analyze them here. If you complain a lot, you can give some questions about the workplace or family so that the other party can answer them with them. If it is really something that annoys the other person in the workplace or family, then it can be roughly judged that it is something that the other person may encounter and needs you to solve. If the workplace and family are not, you can judge that the other party wants to expand some contacts for yourself.

3. determine the relationship. After the first two rounds of chatting, you can roughly understand the purpose of this chat between old classmates and friends. Next, it's your turn to judge the relationship: a. Up to now, some people are in the same class, but they are unfamiliar; Some people were familiar with each other, but they haven't been in touch for a long time and have no feelings. Scattered youth, passers-by, those years together, only belong to the term memory. Now, let's stop here! B. Willing to cooperate, in fact, there is no way to catch up with old classmates and friends and gain contacts. C. keep in touch. If after a chat, you don't want to reach a cooperative relationship, and you don't think it is necessary to break contact, then keep in touch! I have to mention that China people especially like to keep in touch with one sentence: "Let's make an appointment for dinner another day!"

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1. gossiping with women in front of them will never be an outdated topic. Women are naturally interested in commenting on other people's privacy, so choosing to gossip with women, and it is the kind of entertainment gossip, will definitely make you popular!

2. Talking about current politics in front of men, there is a universal dream in men's hearts, because there is a gene of conquest in men's bones, so talking with men will definitely talk about current politics. If you are prepared before and control the current international situation, then you will definitely become the center of the topic, focusing on it!

3. fall in love in front of singles. As singles born in 1980s and 1990s, what they want to hear most is some topics about love from some so-called experienced love experts, so when it's your turn to show your talents, you must perform well and be full of emotions. It's better to give examples of personal experiences, which is more attractive and convincing!

4. Married people talk about their jobs. For married people, family and career always come first. It is a good topic to talk about how to deal with family relations and how to work hard for your career. Especially when people who have made achievements in their careers talk about this topic, the effect will be more obvious, because when people get married, the only thing left is their career, and you should succeed!