What should I do if a girl sends me a "good friend card"?

First of all, we should make it clear that being given a "good friend card" by a girl does not mean that we are poor, but that we are no

What should I do if a girl sends me a "good friend card"?

First of all, we should make it clear that being given a "good friend card" by a girl does not mean that we are poor, but that we are not to the girl's taste. Don't take this as comfort, because it has really become a reality. The other party didn't accept you, but she affirmed your merits, kindness and love, which is at least acceptable to us. What does this mean? It shows that you still have a chance, but the method of pursuing girls needs to be changed.

Remember, women don't know how to cherish anything that can be easily obtained without effort. So your kindness to women is taken for granted in their eyes, and it's not even worth mentioning. Then this means that your silly efforts alone won't work. A man is too active to girls, but he is easily taken advantage of by them. I think you and I have tasted the feeling of being used. Since it is useless to "pursue hard", at this time we will let one of the 36 tricks "play hard to get".

The first is the first meeting. If a girl has a crush on you, she won't show it directly. After all, most girls are reserved and will not be so active. However, if you take a fierce offensive at this time and treat her well and flatter her blindly, it will only scare her away. In other words, she will think that you may not be great, because she has been praised by you, but you are humble to the dust. Such a man makes women look down on you. If the other person doesn't like you from the beginning, then your "hard pursuit" unconscious is even worse.

The beginning of this relationship is to create freshness and mystery. Don't expose yourself blindly, so the other person will lose interest. For a simple example, you bought two movie tickets, but don't tell her that they are for her, just say that your roommate has something to do and can't go. If the other person likes you, she will be happy; Even if she doesn't like you, she won't feel any loss, just watching a movie. Before the movie, I praised her for her beauty when I saw her; In the movie, show her that you are good to her; After the movie, tell her it's interesting to watch the movie with her.

But remember, no matter how much you want to chat with her, you should contact her every few days after separation. An attractive man must be a man who can hold his breath and will not be influenced by his own emotions. If the other person really likes you, she will feel anxious because you didn't take the initiative to find her, followed by endless longing and missing for you. The more I miss you, the more I will inspire her love and desire for you, and she will become more eager to know you, so that you will fully arouse her appetite.

In addition to adding mystery, you can also make your behavior different. Occasionally try to change your original style and suddenly appear with a different look. At the same time, you should show her your hobbies and strengths more. You can learn piano or guitar and flirt. Girls like charm and mood. You should make more friends, take her into your circle of friends and appreciate you in the eyes of friends. A friend's eyes are generally not wrong, which can make her see a more real you from the side. Of course, if the inside is perfect, don't ignore the outside, exercise regularly and show your muscles; Pay attention to skin care and keep your face clean.

Finally, I want to say that girls like the feeling of being chased. The more we want to pursue, the less we can satisfy their vanity. Sometimes give them some sweetness, and sometimes disappear into the clouds. This erratic feeling can capture their hearts better, which is the key to chasing girls.