Can you forgive my wife for secretly dating her ex-boyfriend?

A little too much. For the sake of your children, be patient! There must be something wrong with the wife's indiscretion. Now I understand that you are angry at the moment. Take it back. The child is still young. It's unforgivable if your wife cheats, but you have no proof! Understand the other person, gently tell her that you don't like her doing this, and let her feel what she would think if she touched another woman. It is because you care about your wife that you mind him contacting his ex-boyfriend and telling her that you love her.

I hope you are happy and the children are still young. Don't be gloomy every day.