What does it mean for a man to ask a woman to text him before boarding the plane?

A woman is often a good hunter emotionally, but she may also be a good prey for men emotionally. It's not that she is not strong enough inside, nor that she is born a disloyal hunter, but that everyone has a hobby of hunting, and the prey delivered to the door wants to be a hunter. In real life, long-distance running is always for marriage, and only sprint is for love. In addition to feelings, the rest of marriage is habits. When a woman falls in love with another man, she believes that love is cuter than marriage. Especially when a woman is around forty. Lily is a 40-year-old woman with a happy family and a lovely daughter. She works as an accountant in a joint venture and has a good working environment. My husband loves her very much and is also a middle-level manager of a company. They have been married and have been living in harmony, and there has never been an emotional crisis. But three years ago, a man in her husband's company, who was also a middle-level manager, suddenly began to pay attention to her. He started calling her, occasionally sending one. At first, it was normal. Slowly, she spoke with ambiguous words, and she didn't refuse his ambiguity for some reason. He called her and sent her back. On a business trip, she was on the same plane and everyone's eyes collided. What's going on here? I am not a casual woman. Really, I have never done anything out of line in all my years of marriage. I am especially filial to my in-laws. I am a good wife and mother in the eyes of people around me, and my family is envied by people around me. Now the appearance of this man makes her personality begin to show. They live in the same neighborhood and work in the same place, so there is a great chance of meeting each other. Once he sent her a message after drinking and asked her to pick him up, but she drove away unexpectedly. That day in the car, although nothing happened, we were both very impulsive. He said he liked her and she made him feel in love. She said we can't do this. We should be kind to each other's families. In the next six months, we just made a phone call and occasionally sent one, but her heart was occupied by his shadow. When she wants to see him, she can't help sending it to him. For some reason, she took the initiative, but he began to avoid her. He replied, "I liked you. Well, let's call it a day." According to common sense, stop and live a good life, because now this kind of materialism is cross-flowing. Last March, I sent her to Hangzhou to study. The city where they live is more than 400 kilometers away from the airport. They lived in airport hotel the night before. Unexpectedly, he also went on a business trip and the two met. That night, everything that shouldn't have happened to them. She is really not a casual woman, and I don't know what's going on. She thinks of him every day. After that day, he only said one word to her, and she never met again (alone). He kept his promise. After that, she sent him a message, but he didn't reply. She called him and he hung up. Even if they pass by, they are just like strangers. They have a * * * mailbox, and she can't help it. She can only write her thoughts in the mailbox every day, but he opens them every day. This year and a half, she wrote nearly 400 letters, and he only occasionally left messages to let her live a good life. She can't forget him or understand what he is doing now. If she didn't like her, she wouldn't come to this mailbox. Because she can leave a record when the mailbox is opened, for a while, she didn't write another letter, but she can still see from the member center that he must come twice a day, leaving a login time. If there are more unread emails in this mailbox, she may slowly get out of disappointment. He doesn't like her at all, but he really has to come every day for a year and a half. They play table tennis in the health club. They often meet, but they don't talk. She can obviously feel his tracking. The front is beyond redemption, jump in or quit, and you know very well, because none of us can give up and bear the pain, and what you are struggling with now is that your feelings have not been given the value they deserve. In fact, once a woman has feelings for a man, she will go astray. At the age of forty, she is more likely to have a good impression on the opposite sex physically. This kind of woman is mature outside, and it is easier to control her emotions. Cheating will be more emotional and rational. It can only be a temporary need for each other, but also to satisfy each other's feelings and family ties. If she wants to achieve * * *, women are obviously more vulnerable than men, because women's infidelity is not just attachment. In fact, casual women will never say that they are casual women, and casual women and men will never give her casual. Lead: It is said that women are most likely to cheat at the age of 37 or 38, and men are most likely to cheat at the age of 40. Why? Psychologists seized on this problem and did some research. The results show that the real reason is that both sides have become more mature and attractive at this stage, which is particularly easy to attract bees and butterflies. According to a survey of psychology, when the average age of a husband is 40 and the average age of a wife is 37, problems are most likely to occur and the divorce rate is quite high. After living together for more than ten years, the running-in period has long passed. Why can't we escape the marriage crisis? We can discuss it today. Professor Zhu, a psychologist who has accumulated trivial things in life, said: "At the age of 40 men and 37 women, the physical separation between husband and wife is very common." According to a survey, 20% of the total number of divorces is due to poor communication between husband and wife on trivial matters. The problem of daily necessities accumulated in years of marriage has become the most hurtful weapon. Three years before marriage is a running-in period, the seventh year is a dangerous period, and after 10 years is a burnout period. The marriage age of 40-year-old men and 37-year-old women is generally around 10. In the first two or three years, everyone was in the running-in period and was tolerant. 1967 knew the danger, so be cautious; 10 years later, everyone thinks that the other person is like their right hand, thinking that family has replaced love, so small things that were not a problem before will be brought out to make a scene, and there will be many small quarrels, which will hurt people. In addition, after 10 years of marriage, both husband and wife become very different from when they got married. Their differences in personality, outlook on life, outlook on money, attitude towards educating children and ways to deal with stress will be exposed without reservation during this period, and any one of them is enough to paralyze the marriage. Professor Zhu said: "The longer you get married, the more you get used to each other, the easier it is to ignore the importance of mutual understanding, and the feelings will gradually become indifferent." Professor Zhu believes that no matter what the problem is, both husband and wife should communicate frankly, and avoiding the problem is not the solution. The marriage that has gone through 10 years is fading away because of the temptation of the outside world. If the mentality of both parties to the marriage is not adjusted in time, it may create opportunities for the appearance of an affair. This 40-year-old man has overcome the naivety and fanaticism of young people, and has the talent and experience of middle-aged people, and is wise in sizing up the situation. On the one hand, these mature performances make them constantly emerge in their careers and attract the worship of young people of the opposite sex; On the other hand, it will make them more and more dissatisfied with the original stable marriage and hope to seek new changes. If the wife doesn't adjust her state in time at this time, middle-aged men will be attracted by young women around them and have an affair. Many of them will even file for divorce with their wives. After the reunification, women in their thirties and forties have two manifestations. One kind of people, like men, will be dissatisfied with the status quo. Most of them will seek comfort from colleagues and friends around them, and some will develop to the point of divorce. The other will consider many factors, either trying to save the marriage or silently enduring a depressed life without feelings. Marriage, like cherishing water, is a "seven-year itch", which is an exotic product, meaning that many things will not have some problems in the seventh year, and marriage is no exception. After getting married for a long time, the novelty is gone. From romantic love to real marriage, we are too familiar with each other in the dull day and night, and the shortcomings covered up in love or the differences in ideas between the two sides have been fully exposed at this time. Therefore, emotional fatigue or boredom makes marriage enter a "bottleneck". If we can't choose an effective way to overcome this bottleneck, marriage will end. Some people jumped into the besieged city when they were very young, but how many men and women in their twenties are calm and rational in the face of marriage? That's true. Not to mention people in their twenties, even those in their thirties and forties, I'm afraid not many people have a complete and mature understanding of marriage. In this sense, there are not a few people who enter marriage in a daze. Men are old, and women are old. Many people leave their parents as adults and feel that they should have a small family of their own, so they make friends, make blind dates and enter marriage happily or passively. Modern advocates falling in love before getting married. In the past, for most people, it was to get married before falling in love. However, married men and women in love may not be able to carry their love through to the end, and many lovers get bored soon after marriage. In many loveless marriages, the existence of children is an important reason, but children should not be the only reason for marriage. However, since you have chosen not to give up, you must grasp it well. If life is only once, marriage is an important part of life for married people, why not work hard to make it happier!