I gave 1,000 as a gift to my best friend when she got married. I received a text message from her when I got married. What should I do if I want to block her?

My name is Xiaoxiao. I have known Tongtong since high school. Her personality is more extroverted, while I am introverted. Perhaps out of the principle of complementarity, we seemed to know each other the first time we met. After a long discussion with the teacher, the teacher agreed that we should be tablemates, and we also adjusted the beds to sleep in bunk beds. During the entire high school career, apart from the boring study, Tongtong was with us, and we also gossiped about things in school. A certain boy in my family would also lie under the quilt and stay up late reading novels, but we preferred to stay in the library and read books. I read major classics, while she read all kinds of strange things.

Black June came in the blink of an eye. During the college entrance examination, I performed extremely well and was admitted to a good undergraduate school. However, Tongtong had limited abilities and had to go to an ordinary college in the provincial capital. After knowing the news, we called each other at the same time. I was very sad at first, but under Tongtong's influence, we went to the KTV and sang until midnight. Then through the dazzling lights, I saw the tears in the corners of Tongtong's eyes. , and then both of us held our heads and cried.

Later, we each embarked on the journey to our own schools. After the new students registered, I called Tongtong and told each other about the situation of our respective schools. When I hung up the phone, I couldn't help but feel disappointed. And Tongtong was the same on the other side of the phone. Although we often talked on the phone later, we were not so sad anymore. Maybe we were both used to this. Later Tongtong told me that she was in love. She was from the physical education department of the school. Since we fell in love, we They rarely talked on the phone, and gradually the relationship between the two weakened.

In the first half of my junior year, I received a call from Tongtong while I was still half asleep. As soon as the call was connected, a sad cry came from the phone. It turned out that Tongtong and My boyfriend broke up, and then she remembered that she hadn’t contacted me for a long time. We chatted for nearly 5 hours that time, and she was the one talking all the time during these 5 hours. I responded to her a few words from time to time, and later she also got over the breakup. Shadow, our relationship is back to the beginning again.

After graduating from college, I chose to find a job in the city, while Tongtong returned to my hometown. We often chatted, and sometimes she would come over to see me, but gradually, as we lived our own lives, The pressure and work pressure are increasing, and our contact has gradually become less and less. However, I believe that even if the contact is less, our relationship is still there, so after receiving the news of her marriage, I desperately asked for leave from the company (give up I went to her wedding (in exchange for a promotion opportunity) and thought she would let me be the bridesmaid. But after arriving at the scene, I discovered that she already had her own social circle, and I was already in the past tense, but I was still very happy. I gave her my best wishes, and I gave her a red envelope of 1,000 yuan. Then she simply thanked me and then went to greet other guests. I drank a few glasses of wine for the first time that day, and I was already a little drunk when I left. On the way, I suddenly woke up and realized that my relationship with Tongtong could never return to its original state.

Two years later, I also got married. When I told Tongtong happily, she just congratulated briefly and hung up the phone. After a while, I received her message. Text message: "Xiaoxiao, I've been busy recently, so I won't attend your wedding." After reading this text message, I didn't think much about it, but when I saw her friend circle showing off her dinner party with her colleagues, I realized Understand, in her heart I have become an ordinary friend, even a stranger. Then I cried and blocked her contact information.

After reading Xiaoxiao’s private message, although Xiaoqiang wanted to comfort her, Xiaoqiang knew one thing very well: some people are destined to be just passers-by. Most of the time, our enthusiasm is just our own wishful thinking. In the eyes of others, It seemed like it might be nothing, so in the end Xiaoqiang advised Xiaoxiao to let go of this friendship. After all, the road in life is still so long, and there will always be a friendship. Later, Xiaoxiao wrote back saying that she let it go, but every time she replied When I go to my high school alma mater, I always see two innocent smiling Xiaoxiao and Tongtong walking together.