Did the conflicts between you and your roommates gradually accumulate?

Yes, due to different living habits and work and rest times, many small conflicts gradually appeared. Conflicts accumulate slowly. If they are not resolved in time, they will explode sooner or later, unless you can endure it until graduation. So when there are conflicts, just sit down and communicate and resolve them. Most people can understand each other.

It is best to explain all the rules (everyone’s living habits) clearly on the first day you move in, and discuss together what can be avoided and what cannot be compromised. You must also learn to say no. You only need to help with something once or twice. Of course, if the relationship is good, it doesn't matter. However, some people just can't get used to it. Over time, you'll notice it and it's up to you to tell the difference.

People need to be humble when getting along with each other, especially girls. Girls are sensitive animals and are easy to care about. If there is any misunderstanding between the girls, it should be resolved this morning. It would be best to explain it clearly in person. If not, you can send text messages, write notes, or leave messages. Don't wait until conflicts accumulate to a certain level and suddenly break out.

Don’t isolate yourself, let yourself go out and build good relationships with other people; whether she is overconfident, or you think her emotional intelligence and charisma are not considered at all, she will get what she says and does. The response of others is to find people to surround themselves; people have a herd mentality. Seeing that you are alone and there are more people on her side, people will blindly choose to follow others and blindly believe that she is more correct. No one can change this, we can only adapt to the operating rules of the human world.