My girlfriend has been sending messages to my hometown for more than two months, and she will take the initiative to chat with me when she comes back. In the past month, she has rarely taken the initi

My girlfriend has been sending messages to my hometown for more than two months, and she will take the initiative to chat with me when she comes back. In the past month, she has rarely taken the initiative to talk to me. There is something wrong with your psychology. On the one hand, when you don't have any actual evidence, don't ignore your little problem and doubt whether she loves you or not. Since you doubt, I can understand that you love her too much and are extremely afraid of losing her, so you will doubt her because of such a trivial matter. On the other hand, it also shows that you lack confidence. I'm afraid I'm not attractive enough, so I'll be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Feelings need mutual trust and understanding, and give each other some free space. Don't always try to control her. Now that she has returned to her hometown, she must have something to deal with. It is the most basic thing not to disturb her. What are you afraid of now that she has said it back? If you think she's cuckolded you, find enough evidence. If not, please trust her completely. Give her due respect! Your love should be inclusive, not possessive!