When children ask their parents for money, what is their correct reaction?

I believe you must have had the experience of asking your parents for money when you were a child. Seeing that your classmates and friends have snacks and beautiful stationery every day, you want to have these things like them. Asking parents for money may be the easiest way. However, when children ask for money, some parents always say, "Our family is in poor condition and can't be the same as others." How many people gradually began to feel inferior and insecure because of this sentence. If they are boys, they may even feel that they have lost not only their money, but also their dignity, because they are likely to be silent because of "no money" and stay away from their favorite clique.

Many parents will feel a little exaggerated when they see this. Isn't it that they don't give pocket money, which won't cause such a big psychological shadow to children? But the fact is that once children begin to have a view of money, they are likely to be strangled by their parents and their personality will become inferior. This also shows that it is very important for parents to educate their children about the concept of money.

What effect does it have on children if parents don't give pocket money?

Many parents decide when their children are very young that they will be "poor" in the future to prevent them from spending too much money and forming bad habits. There are also some parents who will help their children buy something directly when they need it, so as to prevent their children from being exposed to money at an early age and becoming "money-only". Although the above two parents' ideas are good, they will not spend money without pocket money, and their children's needs will not be met, which is likely to backfire, so that they will become haggard, stingy and even strange when they grow up.

So what effect does pocket money have on children?

1, cultivate children's view of money

The concept of money is three simple words, but it is very important to everyone. If children don't develop a good view of money from childhood, they will easily become obscene when they grow up. Let children master their own pocket money and let them know that money can be exchanged for what they need. In this process, children can practice communicating with others and gradually enhance their courage and confidence.

2. Cultivate the concept of consumption

When children learn to spend money, parents can cultivate their consumption patterns, let them save some "small coffers", and let them know what money is used for and what the significance of saving money is. Every once in a while, using children's coffers to encourage them to buy a favorite item can also help children develop a good consumption concept and help their adult life.

Step 3 be grateful

When children's "small coffers" are not enough to pay for the goods they like, they will begin to understand the truth of saving, which can also help children develop good independence and let them know that if they like a product, they must rely on their own ability to get it, instead of "persuading" their parents to buy it by crying. They should learn to solve it and learn to be grateful.

However, children's self-control is mostly poor, so parents must give money appropriately, otherwise it is likely that children will develop the bad habit of spending money indiscriminately.

Do parents usually give their children pocket money? Do you have any good suggestions about giving pocket money? Welcome to leave a message and discuss together.

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