What should I say when I send a message to a girl I just met on a blind date for the first time?

1. Don't send messages too often. Just contact once in the first week. Say whatever you want, but don't be too rigid and relaxed.

Contact twice in the second week, and ask out for fun in the third week (such as holding hands if you are not careful when singing K). Don't just walk.

You should treat her like a father treats a little girl. She will listen to you. Don't ask her for advice on everything. Women like independence, and men who can lead her like big men.

Whether chatting or dating, happiness is the theme.

Unhappy things and boring things (work, auditing) have nothing to do with you.