Can’t sincerity be exchanged for sincerity?

Sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, but it may not necessarily be exchanged for the sincerity that everyone expects.

Because sincerity is a state and an attitude, what about this attitude? We can only decide what our attitude is when facing the relationship between people and things in the outside world, and what our motivations are. We can only decide what we express through our words and deeds. At the same time, we cannot decide what others think, just like others cannot decide what we think.

We cannot decide what others think in their hearts, how they choose to express it, so this sincere feeling can only depend on our inner self. We ourselves decide whether we are sincere or not, but cannot decide what the other person’s requirements are. The other person expresses his sincerity in the way we expect him to.

Of course sincerity can be divided into many realms. The most basic sincerity is the truth of a child. What he says is true, but this sincerity may hurt others, for example, if he sees you If you have a lot of meat, you will be said to be fat. To the child, this language is sincere language. He has really seen your fat state, but to you, it may be hurtful language. Then this sincerity is what we often call childish words, only one's own feelings cannot see the other person.

High-quality sincerity is the ability to express oneself truthfully, and at the same time, it adds strength to the other person and makes the other person feel good. For example, if you see that the other person has a fat body, but if you feel that the other person cannot accept the fat body and choose not to say it, or say that the face is round, then this sincerity is of high quality, so to answer your question, sincerity Can't you get sincerity? Sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity.

But this sincerity requires us to use what kind of quality of sincerity to treat ourselves and our relationships? At the same time, what expectations and requirements do you have for relationships? When we fully accept our own sincerity, we also fully accept the sincerity of the other party. No matter how the other party responds, our inner sincerity will be connected to the other party's response.