Short message skills of dating skills

Lead: Many people get to know beautiful MM by chatting up, and hastily leave each other's phone numbers, but they don't know how to further communicate and understand, so even if they leave a phone number, it's useless and a waste of energy. Some people take the initiative to send messages and make phone calls, but because of the wrong method, the opportunity is wasted. So how to strike up a conversation and chat with a girl you just met? Let me introduce some methods and skills to you:

Because the sense of security established by the person who strikes up a conversation will not be very high, it is definitely not advisable to enter the pursuit procedure immediately after knowing each other.

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Before talking about the correct SMS chat mode, list some wrong SMS chat modes:

1. Household registration management type: "Hello, my name is xxx, I work in yyy, from zzz. Nice to meet you. " It's not like a person, it's a computer program. )

2. Cut to the chase: "Are you free for dinner today?" (Too anxious, no bedding, girls generally don't like it, of course, there are also very manly people who will be willing. )

3. Be caring and attentive. "Tomorrow the lowest temperature 1 degree, the highest temperature 13 degrees. Caring about the weather means caring about yourself. Don't forget to add one more dress. " Do we know each other? )

4. Joke: "Chimpanzees accidentally stepped on the shit pulled by gibbons. After the gibbon cleaned it gently and carefully, they fell in love. When asked how they got together, the chimpanzee said with emotion: ape shit! It's all ape dung! " Forwarding humorous news is a low-level performance that makes everyone laugh. )

5. Narcissism: "If one day you feel tired, as long as you turn around, my blessing will be by your side. No matter how far away, no matter how many years, this blessing will turn into a blue star, flashing in the morning, flashing in the sunset and flashing in every corner of your life." (mental derangement! )

6. Ask endlessly: "What should I do?" (Watching TV) "What program are you watching?" (If you are the one) "Is it interesting?" (Not bad) "What should I do after reading it?" (... the woman finally stopped answering her text messages)

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The following are some basic principles of SMS chat.

First, know each other's status and often say "What are you doing" (or "Are you busy" and "How are you doing recently". ), and then comprehensively judge the state of the other party according to the speed, content and tone of the other party's answer (are you busy, are you in the mood to chat).

If you feel that the other person is not in the state, then don't continue to send text messages, so as to ensure that you don't make mistakes and are not annoying. You still have a chance in the future.

If you are not sure whether the other party is in a state, for example, the other party answers "at work."

You can answer, "Me too. I'm not busy now. When I suddenly think of you, I will send a message. " Introduce your status, add some feelings and find out your connection. )

This answer is both a communication and a test. It doesn't matter if the other party doesn't come back. You didn't make any mistakes. But as long as the other person is not busy and doesn't hate you, it is usually easy to continue. Girls usually talk about themselves or ask you some questions, such as "We are always busy and will go on a business trip next week." (Describe the status)

You can answer: "envy, I haven't been on a business trip for a long time, and staying in one place feels quite boring." (state+feeling)

Maybe she will continue to say, "What do you envy? We have a hard business trip and have no time to play. " (She also joined the feelings, which is a good sign of improved communication. )

That's it in short. Everything you say to me is trivial. It's natural to feel strange after talking too much, and then invite again, which is basically natural.

Remember, always grasp the "state"+"feeling" and find the connection between you and her (it can be the same or different, and it can be a topic of chat).

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1, about the time of texting.

Preferably around 4: 30 pm. Generally speaking, this time is the least busy, whether it's work or school. Moreover, another study claims that at 4: 30 pm, human sexual desire reaches its peak, but this may also be a rumor. Anyway, it is no wonder that many people are polite. ...

2. Main points about the problem

Don't ask questions all the time. Keep talking and asking questions separately to avoid giving the other person an aggressive feeling.

When you are asked a question in the opposite direction, you should answer it well. For example, she asked, "Is your work always leisurely?" Just take this opportunity to introduce yourself, and don't forget to add "What about you?" Finally. It's friendly and easy to keep the chat going.

3. About the end of the message

The characteristic of short messages is that they can be returned or not, so we don't have to worry about why the other party suddenly left without saying goodbye. Of course, be polite and considerate. We are the initiative. If the other party doesn't reply to the text message, it will be regarded as the end of today's communication, and we will contact you another day. At this time, we don't have to ask why people didn't reply to the text message last time, so we can reopen the topic. Try not to text a girl you don't know twice a day, including calling, or people will think you are difficult.