She texted me about these things last night, and now my heart hurts. (200 points)

We've all been through something similar.

Say to the girl

When you decide to be with your new boyfriend, please be sure to hide your past feelings in a corner of your heart. Don't show off often, and don't compare often. You love your ex because you have adapted to the feeling of being with him and have relied on him. Doesn't mean that the latecomers are not as good as him.

When a man can tolerate your past and grieve for the pain you have paid for your feelings, silently bear your hostility to your feelings and encourage you to get out of the shadow of the past. Please be grateful, be grateful. Only by loving a person deeply can there be such behavior of a person who is selfish to love. No one has the obligation to pay for the behavior of irrelevant people in the past, and no one has the obligation to be responsible for his woman's previous relationship.

When you have problems with your boyfriend, when he is sad and silent in order not to make you angry, don't chase him like a victorious rooster, because you must have done something wrong. If he did something wrong, he would come and apologize as soon as possible. He did this just to prevent this relationship from being hurt, not to argue with you and make excuses for you.

When you make your boyfriend sad again and again, don't think that men have an obligation to bear all this silently until forever. Everyone has a memory. Just like a vase, even if it is broken and glued, it still has cracks. The relationship between two people is like a glass of water. Pour some water from the cup every time you get hurt. Every time you are sweet and happy, you can add some water to the cup. When the water is empty, the relationship will come to an end.

When your boyfriend pays for you, please don't just indulge in the joy of getting a new thing. You know, a boyfriend not only makes you happy, but also makes you love him more. Because every penny spent is hard earned by him and is worth cherishing.

When your boyfriend can't be with you for the time being, you should try to be happy and pray that your boyfriend outside will come back safely as soon as possible. You know, my boyfriend also wants to be with you 25 hours a day, looking at your beautiful face. But men have more responsibilities, to work hard for their careers and to make your life better. Not all your boyfriends are yours. As a boyfriend, he is also the son of his parents, the employee of the company and the partner of his colleagues. When he is on a business trip, he silently looks after his luggage. Buy him some presents when he goes home to visit his parents. When he is with his colleagues, share the happy moments he told you. When he can't be with you, please firmly believe that two people's hearts are together. Don't think about other men because of temporary emptiness. Think more about your wonderful time together and look forward to his coming back and being together.

When a spoiled boyfriend washes pots, dishes, dishes and cooks for you. I hope you can understand his hard work He is also busy with work and housework. Give me a hand if you can. Men don't want anything else, just want to see the people they love taste the fruits of their efforts, and like the feeling that two people are working hard for the same goal.

Please remember to judge yourself and your boyfriend by the same standards. Remember, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Now this society is a society of equality between men and women. Your boyfriend can tolerate your shortcomings and your mistakes because he loves you, not because he simply ignores your mistakes and your shortcomings. Remember to be punctual for appointments, and your boyfriend's time is also precious; Don't complain too much when your boyfriend is late, because they are more anxious than you. Remember to feel a little guilty when you are late. Although my boyfriend said, "Baby, don't worry, be careful on the road", he still has a little selfish hope that you can come soon.

Strive to improve yourself and make yourself excellent. Maybe your boyfriend doesn't ask you to know this and that, but he still wants his girlfriend to surpass everyone in his heart. He will be happier than you when he sees your progress. He doesn't want you to be a fair-weather girlfriend, although he hopes that you can lie happily in a sunny bed and bask in the sun without doing anything with your own efforts.

When your boyfriend does something wrong, please don't be too picky, and don't be picky because you compare with your predecessor. Because you have to believe that no one is perfect. When you don't like some of his behavior, please bring it up directly or euphemistically, and don't quarrel angrily, because quarreling will make people lose their minds and can't correct their shortcomings.

When you see your boyfriend's room in a mess, please either patiently help him clean it up or remind him to clean it up. Men are not as delicate as women, and it is certain that women love cleanliness. Being informal doesn't mean that he won't have a future, and it doesn't mean that he has no ambition.

When the boyfriend is playing the game, he will watch silently around him, or walk away because he is not interested. Playing games doesn't mean that you are tired of playing things. In fact, when they get to work and have a girlfriend, few people will get tired of playing games. He may just find the feeling of university, a sense of accomplishment in another world, or just want to have more languages in common with his colleagues.

When your boyfriend holds an umbrella for you in the rain, remember to hug him tightly. People are all fleshy. Just because he thinks you are more important than him doesn't mean he likes to get wet.

Please don't be nervous when your boyfriend gets a call and leaves to talk outside. He just respects you and has nothing to hide.

Don't take it for granted when your boyfriend does this for you. Please say thank you gratefully. Although he said you're welcome, he really wanted to hear it.

When you have a bad temper and have a seizure due to physiological reasons, please believe that your boyfriend is distressed in his heart and very much hopes to endure it for you. When he is willing to be your punching bag, when he is willing to wash your underwear. Please be kind to him after those days. Men also have a temper and are afraid of dirty things.

When he is drunk with others outside, please don't lose your temper with him, don't scold him, and he can't hear you. There may be people who respect you in those drinks he drinks. He was smiling when he drank the wine.

When you two have different ideas, please believe that people will have different ideas. Don't think that different opinions are inappropriate, that is, they can't get along. It is necessary to seek common ground while reserving differences. He won't force you to accept his point of view, nor does he want you to impose your point of view on others.

If she doesn't feel anything,

Brother, I advise you to forget it.

Let it be.