Debate: Who is more suitable to be a wife, Lin Daiyu or Hua Mulan? We agree. From what aspects shows that Lin Daiyu is more suitable to be a wife than Hua Mulan.

Q: Mulan is so powerful, why does she need a man?

In today's society, men and women are equal, and women also demand independence and progress. Mulan is strong in words and martial arts, and persevering. Marrying Mulan will save you a lot of things. Mulan can take care of others better than Sister Lin. What a strong girl, there is a soft side in her heart. If you think Mulan is too capable to marry, it can only prove that you are not capable enough, not that she is too strong. Lin Daiyu, on the other hand, was sickly since childhood and took medicine every day. She only lived in her twenties, and the expensive medicine she took could go around tianmashan three times. Although Lin Daiyu's softness and weakness can arouse men's desire for protection, don't forget that Lin Daiyu doesn't need your protection and care from time to time, but forever, marry Lin Daiyu and go home. Will you be her nurse? Mulan is a nearly perfect woman, and Lin Daiyu, like Hua Teng, needs careful care. If I don't love any of them, I will choose Mulan, but you have to let your heart decide.

Q: Do you want to be with people who can't tell the difference between men and women? /Mulan is male and female. Do you think you can be a wife? /In the future, children will not know what their parents are doing. /Mulan came back from the army, her face was full of vicissitudes and scars. Who dares to marry? /She can go into battle with a broadsword, and her muscles may be stronger than yours. What do you think of a muscular man who faces you every day, an innocent girl?

The beauty of Mulan lies in her heart, which is different from those women who whitewash it. In Mulan's poem, "Open my East Pavilion door, sit on my West Pavilion bed, take off my wartime robe and put on my old clothes." When the window is decorated with clouds and temples, the mirror is painted yellow. When I went out to meet the fire companions, I was both surprised and busy: I spent twelve years together, but I didn't know Mulan was a girl. "In other words, Mulan looks very beautiful in women's clothes, and her partners will be surprised and busy. When the window is decorated with clouds and the mirror is painted yellow, Mulan is also a girl who loves beauty. A young lady like Lin Daiyu definitely spends more time on makeup every day than Mulan. In today's society, many goddesses can't bear to look straight after taking off makeup. A man must be looking for a beautiful girl with amazing makeup. Mulan is the girl with makeup and a partner. Show Lo and Hugh are really handsome guys, but in the mv, Show Lo plays Beauty Luo Hugh and Monroe, and their dresses are beautiful, so you don't have to look like a man to be ugly, unless you think you look like a man. I want to clarify for Mulan here. Although Lin Daiyu is beautiful, Mulan is not bad.

Q: Is it interesting to discuss with women how to kill people every day? /Mulan has been crossing the battlefield for a long time, so there is no mania? (If Lin Daiyu is depressed)

Not all people who have been in the army find killing interesting. They had to kill people to defend their country. If it can be settled peacefully, who wouldn't? If it can be settled peacefully, Mulan will not join the army as her father. It is precisely because Mulan joined the army as her father, considerate of the family and shared her worries for the family. This shows that Mulan is responsible. Isn't such a woman more suitable for being a wife?

Q: How does Mulan educate future children?

A mother is a child's first teacher. Hua Mulan has been in the army 12 years. I think it's good. She can educate her children in the way of sunshine. Lin Daiyu, she can't live without men. If all mothers are like Lin Daiyu, especially the mothers of single-parent families, how can she educate a healthy and optimistic child? What happened to Lin Daiyu? A pot of flowers is broken, so she can cry sadly for half an hour. If the child sees it, think about whether the child will lie in the ward of a psychiatrist at the age of 30 and think of my mother crying in a broken flowerpot for more than half an hour. On the other hand, Mulan is different. I think Mulan can set a good example for children. Moreover, Mulan joined the army for her father, was filial to her parents and did not seek fame and fortune. With outstanding military achievements, the emperor wanted to reward her, and she chose to go home and reunite with her family. What a good influence such a woman has on children. Although Lin Daiyu is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, she is also very clever, but her personality is really not suitable for bringing a good education to her children. Love yourself first. Lin Daiyu doesn't even love herself. What capital does she have to love others? On the other hand, Mulan is brave and resourceful. She saw the recruitment documents, and after repeated thinking and weighing, she chose to dress up as a woman to join the army for her father, so she could make a difference. She is also an extremely clever Mulan, loyal and filial. Mulan is more suitable for her children to learn, whether it is life skills or ideological morality. Darwin put forward the concept of "natural selection, survival of the fittest" from the biological point of view. Lin Daiyu was weak and sick from childhood, and her heart was sensitive and sentimental. She is mostly depressed, even though she is a giant of thought, she is also a dwarf of action. Mulan is in good health, her IQ is not low, and her hands-on ability and adaptability are strong. Genetically speaking, Mulan won completely.

Q: Is Mulan's personality conducive to family harmony (mother-in-law-daughter relationship)? What makes Lin Daiyu a bad wife (in our opinion, Lin Daiyu is not conducive to family harmony, can not educate children well and so on. ), ask the other debater to explain it to me seriously.

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in China has always been the most difficult to get along with, which can be said to be incompatible, mainly because the interests of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are different, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become the most difficult to get along with in China. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Baoyu's mother, Mrs. Wang, doesn't like Lin Daiyu, and Baoyu's sister, Yuan Chun, doesn't like Lin Daiyu either. Both of them like Xue Baochai. I wonder if a girl who hasn't gone through the door has been rejected by her mother and sister. If she really married her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, can she still get along? When Mulan came home, her parents heard that her daughter was coming and went out to help the generals. As soon as Sister A heard that Sister Mei was coming, she had to cut her red makeup. When I heard my sister coming, I sharpened my knife at pigs and sheep. In sharp contrast with Lin Daiyu, I believe everyone here knows who is more conducive to family harmony.

Q: Please explain to us what is henpecked. Thank you. (smiling)

I think if I choose between Lin Daiyu and Hua Mulan, I will choose Lin Daiyu. Why do you say that? If there was WeChat in Lin Daiyu's time, wouldn't Jia Baoyu's mobile phone ring every two minutes, "Where are you, husband?" "What are you doing?" "Husband, did you leave me chatting with another woman?" "Honey, do you get off work at five?" On the other hand, Mulan is a maid, but she has labor and can make money. She may call her husband and say that I will cook braised fish for you when I come back from work at night.

Another debater has been holding on to Lin Daiyu's "..." (Their statement may be that she is ill, or it may be something else, depending on the situation). Is it because there is no other argument? It seems that other debaters agree with us.

Is it because the other party has been holding Mulan in the army and there is nothing else to say, or is it because she is not suitable for being a wife because of her appearance? It seems that other debaters agree with us.

Q: Mulan can join the army instead of her father, which shows that she thinks her ability can replace a man. What if one day she feels that she no longer needs her husband? /She is so capable that you have no worries. But she may think that you are not as capable as she is and want to abandon you and find a much better one. Ask the opposing defense friend to explain it to us.

I think that in love and marriage, there is no value, only willingness. Please don't think of love so complicated. Women are simple creatures. If they like it, they like it If they don't like it, why are they with you? Love is not a business, there is no need to bargain.

Q: Everyone gets sick. Isn't the other debater sick?

Anyone can get sick, but who will drink medicine all day like a medicine jar and vomit blood with anger when hearing a bad news? Lin Daiyu has eaten three times as many precious tonics as around tianmashan.

Q: How does Hua Mulan adapt to the requirements of today's economic times?

Mulan's poem "Mulan Weaves at Home" shows that Mulan has the labor force, perseverance and can work for the family economy. Lin Daiyu's pride in clearing ice disdains working to earn money, and pampering is not suitable for careful calculation, let alone housework. She can only bury flowers with a flower hoe all day long, or burn poems in the incense burner herself. In contrast, Mulan must be more adapted to the requirements of the economic times.

The other debater is so strict, please tell us more about the benefits of marrying Mulan so that we can be convinced. Not much, just five. Thank you.

1. Zhude put filial piety first and joined the army as his father. Mulan is very filial. After the war, Mulan chose to go home to accompany her parents instead of fame and fortune. Is there any reason why such a woman cannot be a good wife? 2. The body is the capital of the revolution, and there is no capital without talking to her body. Mulan is in good health and can give birth to healthy children, but Daiyu is like a medicine jar, not to mention giving birth and taking care of herself. 3. Have a sense of responsibility. Mulan is willing to join the army to defend her country for her father, which shows that she has a sense of responsibility to her family and society. Why is a responsible woman not the best reason to choose a wife? 4. Being able to work and earn money to support her family, Mulan can weave and plant trees. She is a strong woman in the workplace outside and a good wife and mother at home. When you are in trouble, do you want your wife to cry like Lin Daiyu or try to tide over the difficulties with you like Mulan?

To sum up, Hua Mulan can be loyal and filial, and she is more suitable to be a good wife and mother than Dai Yu in terms of life skills and ideology and morality. Shouldn't she marry such Mulan?

If they use the same trick as us, you can say.

We want to bring it up, but the total time for the debate is very short, so let's not waste everyone's time. If you are interested, we can talk slowly in private.

If they still ask, you can say.

Is it because there is no way to prove your point from other directions, so the other debater has been holding on to this? What a pity.

We can also say these two! ! !

Then throw a question in the past

Thank you for your wonderful remarks just now, but wonderful is wonderful, and loopholes still need to be pointed out. First of all, the other debater said that Lin Daiyu was as beautiful as a fairy, just in line with men's love for beauty, so she was more suitable to be a wife than Mulan. I admit, everyone has a love of beauty, just as we girls also like handsome guys. But I can't help asking another debater and everyone here, will a man feel at ease when he marries a vase and goes home? Many men will like such a beautiful woman. Can you guarantee that one day she won't cuckold you and make you unconsciously become someone else's mistress? Finally, I lost my wife and my soldiers. I don't think all the men here want to see such a scene. On the contrary, Mulan is not as beautiful as Lin Daiyu, but it will be safer as a wife and men will feel more at home. Secondly, the other debater said that Lin Daiyu is weak, and many men have the desire to protect the weak, so Lin Daiyu is more suitable to be a wife. But don't forget, Lin Daiyu doesn't need your care from time to time, but needs your care all the time. She is not only sentimental, but also sickly. Maybe she cried when she was eating, and you were at a loss. Maybe one day she suddenly fell down and died. Would you like to spend your life with a pile of bones? Looking back at Mulan, I actually want to say that many people, especially men, don't know much about women like Mulan.

I know that not only other debaters, but many people present think that Mulan lacks some qualities that women should have, such as gentleness, virtue and talent, but don't forget that we are marrying, not looking for a lover. What is the wife doing when she gets married? Is it used to recite poems all day? Of course not. The wife marries and lives together, taking care of each other and understanding each other. In this respect, Mulan is more suitable as a wife than Lin Daiyu.

If I were a man, I wouldn't like a weak woman who cries all day; If I were a man, I would rather marry a woman who can take care of herself without worrying too much. If I were a man, I wouldn't be with a sentimental woman who only knows poetry and painting; If I were a man, I would fall in love with the woman who can wash and cook for me and have a bunch of healthy and lively children. But these are just if, after all, I am not a man. If there is an afterlife, if there is an afterlife, I would like to be a man and then marry a woman like Mulan without hesitation!