I received a text message from my ex in the middle of the night, hoping to start over. Can I forgive him for cheating?

From the perspective of a bystander, I don't think we can forgive him. There is an old saying in China that "once you are unfaithful, you don't need it a hundred times", which applies not only to the workplace, but also to feelings. There is an old saying in China that "a dog can't change its mind and eat shit". This old saying sounds vulgar, but it also hits human nature.

I think whether boys or girls treat feelings, there should be a bottom line that cannot be touched, but if the other party has crossed this bottom line, it means that his mistake is unforgivable. There are all kinds of bloody examples in our lives, don't you believe? Let me tell you something.

In my own life, the most respected elder cheated her in marriage, and went to see San Xiao's parents under the guise of being single without our family knowing. This is the so-called "meeting parents in love". Later, the story came to light, and his wife gave him a chance at the pleading of the whole family. As expected, he cheated on me for the second and third time.

There is a colleague around, and the whole company knows that he has a wife, but everyone in the company also knows that he has a college student "girlfriend" and there are endless ambiguous women around him. We all admit that he has good skin, but this is definitely not the capital for his mistakes. How could his wife not know his love story? Just for the sake of children, I choose to endure and endure.

I have never advocated women's rights, but I want to raise the banner of "Down with love rat" for cheating men. I advise all men and women who break up because the other half is cheating, live a good life and stay away from those "people" who have no principles and bottom lines. One day you will find that the beauty of life has nothing to do with him.

Today, I am a bystander. I'm advising you not to be soft-hearted emotionally. Otherwise, you are likely to be hurt by the same person more than once. Our life is only a few decades. You can choose to love others and feel good about another person when you are injured. Many times don't believe in good words, and of course don't forget your injuries!