My husband Xiaosan texted me that she was pregnant. What should I do?

Situation: Ten days after my father was hospitalized with a massive cerebral infarction, he received a short message from a stranger, claiming that my husband was having an affair. Under my questioning, I know that my husband and she have been together for half a year, and they often meet and meet all over the country. We haven't contacted each other since we last met in Beijing in April. The woman recently found out that she was pregnant, and my husband didn't want to get divorced or make trouble. That woman found me directly. It is said that the woman suffers from polycystic ovary and is difficult to conceive, so she threatened me not to wear condoms during sex. Now that woman refuses to give up her child, asking my husband to sell the car, give her the money, raise her own, or divorce me. Now my husband has gone to Fuzhou to find her to solve the problem, trying to persuade her to abort the child, but it doesn't look smooth.

We have two children, the older is four and a half years old and the younger is a little over one year old. For the sake of children, I can't choose divorce. Appeal: What should I do? Do you want to go to Fuzhou? Can such a thing be done by legal means?

Mentor Jiang Mumu:

If you can't get a divorce and she won't abort the baby anyway, you can say to your husband, "We want this baby. After all, it is your child, and I will treat him well. Whoever raises the child will kiss him. " Then he said to the hostess:

"If you insist on having a child, we will wait until the child is born. Anyway, I already have two children, and there are not many. As long as my husband brings it back, I will raise it "(always tie the interests of you and your husband together).

"But in the future, this child has nothing to do with you. As compensation, we can give you 500 yuan nutrition fee every month. " Some people have done social experiments and come to the conclusion that when you repay others' efforts with little money, people will be very angry. It is better not to give money. Therefore, this monthly nutrition fee for 500 yuan is actually humiliating her.

"If you refuse to give the child to us and insist on raising it yourself, I have to go to the family planning office to report you. It is impossible for children to register in the future, and we will not pay a penny for support. If you think you can win, you can go to court, and the court will do our best to give you 800 yuan a month. But you will ruin the rest of your life. When you really meet a handsome single prince charming, people will see that you are a single parent with a child without a father. I was born at the age of three when I asked, hiding.

Make her give in.