My husband habitually deletes records after sending text messages, and deletes them immediately after receiving text messages.

You can feel that you and your husband are as happy as ever. Or is he still very concerned about you? Is the relationship between you still good? If your husband just won't let you read text messages, but he still treats you the same as before, then you don't have to worry about it, just be yourself. Sometimes, adults will have disgust and resistance, which is nothing at all, but if you care too much, he will be disgusted and won't let you see it. After a long time, it will conflict like monitoring. Generally speaking, everyone wants to gain the trust of others, let alone his wife. Even between husband and wife, there should be space, not to say that everything should be transparent. There is no sense of beauty or comfort. Most importantly, if your husband's life is the same for you and your family, then there is no need to worry and doubt.