Is it cheating for a wife to delete the chat record with a man (which undoubtedly indicates that a woman is cheating)

Although it is no longer the time for men to be masters of women, women rely on their own men all their lives. Women's happiness can only be given by men, and men's happiness is also brought by women. So family happiness is maintained by two people. However, if one party does not understand this truth, it will lead to the disintegration of the family, so it will not be happy. Just like a woman's infidelity, it will not only bring great harm to her husband, but also bring the original good feelings to an end, and at the same time make the parents of two families feel embarrassed.

In order to make men really realize what will happen when a woman cheats, Xiaolong interviewed a woman named Tao, hoping to give some help to her friends through her case!

Ms. Tao, 35 years old, married for 7 years and cheated for 3 years:

I have been married for eight years. In recent years, my husband only cares about work, and there is no second important thing in his heart. Even children are rarely taken care of. I can't stand the feeling of being ignored, and I can't stand being alone. At a class reunion, I met my first love. He is still the same. I like the way he looks. Even though I am married now, I still can't hide his handsome face.

So we contacted each other every day, and slowly our deep feelings were aroused, so we slept together. He satisfied my inner emptiness and gave me company. We contact each other on WeChat every day, but I'm afraid my husband will find out about our relationship, so I will delete all the information every time we chat, so whenever my husband watches TV on my mobile phone, he won't find anything.

And I dare not update the dynamics of my circle of friends, because I am afraid that I will reveal something accidentally. I used to update it from time to time, so my friends sent messages to care about my affairs, and I didn't dare to answer directly, and I rarely chatted with them.

Moreover, I have less communication with my husband every day. I'm not like before, when he comes home, he rushes at him and asks for help. Maybe I found this change. He told me about the divorce when he came home in the evening. I don't know whether he noticed my infidelity or not, but I have no feelings for him, so we can be regarded as a peaceful breakup. I will go through the formalities the next day, and then I will be a passerby.

Through Ms. Tao's narrative, we can learn that if a woman is derailed, the following three situations will appear in her WeChat:

1, the chat record is clean.

If a woman cheats, the chat information will be deleted very cleanly, because she is afraid that her husband will know, so she will delete all the records.

2, no longer update the circle of friends.

If your woman used to like to update her circle of friends, she will also mark the position below, but she hasn't posted it very much recently, which means that she is cheating. She doesn't want you to know what she is doing and where she is.

3. She seldom chats with her friends.

A woman used to like chatting with her best friend, but one day she didn't keep in touch much, but she was still chatting there with her mobile phone, which was suspicious because she couldn't say that it was her lover who was chatting with her.

To sum up, men don't understand that there are undoubtedly three situations on WeChat after a woman is derailed. At the same time, men must know how to maintain their marriage and their women. Once they find the abnormality, they must try their best to save a woman's heart. If you really can't save it, let go in time.

A word to a friend: a woman, but derailed, will definitely leave a trace, especially in the mobile phone WeChat. But in marriage, no matter what the reason is, both people are responsible. Only by figuring out the problem and saving it in time can we protect our happiness. After all, it is not easy to get married with each other, so we should cherish each other.