About virgo boys

When you are not boyfriend and girlfriend and are uncertain about your relationship.

First, the meeting mode.

(1) If you fall in love at first sight or hit it off at first sight:

Maybe it's a vigorous love! Even if it is love at first sight, plus the initiative of girls, he should not act immediately. A month, three months, half a year is possible; This is a relatively fast progress. There are many scorpions

And the virgin missed it because they kept it for each other for many years! Vigorous does not mean that he is completely active in pursuing, he still needs your response. For him, love is a matter of two people. If he is the only one who is loving and giving his feelings, he would rather die than be willing.

(2) If you are not the type of love at first sight:

That should be gradual, with a steady stream of water! Your feelings are gradually accumulated bit by bit, intentionally or unintentionally forming a continuous river, and then gathering into an ocean of love; They have a deep emotional foundation and have a certain understanding of each other's life, habits and past. Starting from touching, from tacit understanding, from appreciation, from comfort, from mutual concern, from interdependence, from childhood romance. Please fall in love with him at a slow but firm pace. If you use emergency high pressure, he may stay away from you.

Second, the wrong strategy.

Challenging method:

Generally speaking, the challenge method, which is effective for some boys, is counterproductive for Virgo boys. All wet. He will look down on you because of this, and his feelings may break; Especially when you say you have a boyfriend. This is because:

1, Virgo boys have high demands on the purity of love. It is unforgivable to drag another boy into your relationship.

2, long-term, stable relationship is the feeling that most Virgo boys pursue: whether it is a long stream of water or a vigorous one, he hopes to be with you for a long time and stability. Like Scorpio, he needs security. If you get emotional with another boy easily, he will feel scared, afraid that he will stay away from you for a short time.

He combines hard and soft.

Jealousy is shameful to him. So he will try his best to suppress this emotion, which is caused by mental cleanliness.

5. He is fair.

(2) Cold War:

The cold war is the power of virgins. Being cold to him for no reason will be misunderstood as not liking him or being unpopular, so he won't have the cheek to appear in front of you, no matter how much he misses you. Virgo can carry out the Cold War to the end, and be endless silent to you. The way you can remedy it is to let it cool; Ask him later. Please give him a reasonable explanation when you have the opportunity in the future.

(3) arouse the virgin's emotions:

As long as the balance is accurate and not excessive, small stimuli are acceptable; It's interesting to stimulate him inexplicably, test his endurance, induce his negative emotions and make him angry, isn't it? You just put your relationship in crisis. Stimulation that will make ordinary people particularly angry, Virgo boys will also be very angry; But spiritual cleanliness forced him to be as calm and tolerant as possible and not to fight back. However, stirring up the virgin's emotions and driving her crazy is like slandering the Cancer family, depriving Aquarius of its freedom, trapping the shooter in a room and infringing on the lion's self-esteem. He may not retaliate against you, but he is still terrible in the cold war.

(4) cheating:

If your deception is to give him a chance to express his love, he will understand. In other cases, his reaction was fierce. Mental cleanliness is the reason.

(5) Break up/stop calling me/get emotional:

He will believe any emotions and decisions you say or write. Therefore, he will also respect your decision. If you say "Don't call me again", maybe he will never call you again. You said, "I don't want to see you again." Maybe he will avoid you from now on. It is not that he doesn't love you, but that he won't force you to love him. Please use negative emotions, tone, words and tricks with caution.

(6) Conquer:

He doesn't like to conquer others, and he doesn't like to be conquered. We can appreciate each other and learn from each other. He doesn't mind that you are better than him, as long as you use your Excellence in study, career or other aspects instead of attacking him. In the game, the outcome of the game is the inevitable result, not the conquest. Conquest is a sense of hostility, playfulness and control.

Third, establish emotional tug-of-war with Virgo boys.

(a) if the virgin he hasn't action:

First of all, make sure that there are no obstacles between you that hinder further communication between the two sides. For example:

1, distance

2. obstacles that will inevitably appear within two years (for example, one of them wants to go abroad).

You have many friends around you.

There are suitors around you, even if there is only one.

You give him the impression that he is a playboy.

6, study, career. He may not have time to care about love and have no idea of finding a girlfriend for the time being.

7. Didn't notice you.

8. I didn't know you had the idea of catching him.

9. He doesn't think he is good enough for you. Virgo boys have his confidence, but in the face of love, he is very inferior.

Next, you can create opportunities not to confess. For example:

1, appeared in front of him alone.

2. Send cards and gifts.

3. Ask him to help you.

4. Ask him out more often.

Invite him to have lunch or chocolate prepared by you occasionally.

6. Care about his life.

7. Tell him some little secrets.

8. Write/leave a message. Virgo is better at expressing his feelings in words.

9. Try to get him to confess to you or take action.

10, it is better to stay away from him with a little stimulation. However, it is not easy to grasp the scale.

If you want him to have the courage to approach you, you should pay attention to the following:

1, how close to him, alone.

Don't let him misunderstand that you have a boyfriend.

Don't get too close to other boys in front of him.

4. The virgin man is not very good at taking the initiative to talk, because he doesn't want to be the focus. It's too general and meaningless, and he doesn't know how to answer you. Ask him more about his life at school and ask him more things, which will easily inspire him to answer your wishes; Even some views on life love, pursuit, what kind of girls you like, fashion, art and movies.

For him, the ideal pace of emotional progress is one step for him and one step for you. Or he takes two steps and you take a step back. It will never be his ten steps, and you will respond or ignore it in one step; If so, he will go back to the starting point. Feelings in one step is of course the most ideal!

(2) If a virgin has taken the first step (such as a warm letter):

Now that he has taken the first step as a virgin, he will wait for your reaction to decide the next step. If you don't respond or give an ambiguous response, he won't take the second step, so he will act casually. The emotional rhythm of virgins is relatively slow. Sometimes, the interaction with him is like the next game of chess, which follows suit. He has a deeper passion hidden in his heart, and he needs your affirmation to release it.

Virgo boys seem to need your oral or written confirmation to treat you as a girlfriend; So, you can test it. The so-called temptation is not to give him a clear answer first. For example, ask him out more often, just like a friend. For example, ask him if he can come out for dinner or something Understand his thoughts from chatting and dating; Make sure you know him and have feelings for him. If you feel bad, pull it down; Feeling good, just tell him that he agreed to be his girlfriend.

Fourth, how to distinguish between like and love?

As long as they are not annoying friends, Virgo boys really care about him/her. Misunderstanding also comes from this.

In the face of love, he is serious, so his attitude towards you is also serious. Seriously, he shouldn't laugh at you. There are some jokes for you, there is a silence for you, you are happy; But I won't play with you in a big way. Virgo boys are cautious about shady love; He will try his best to keep his perfect image. Of course, after the relationship is confirmed, he will make you happy like a big child.

Because many virgins' love is developed from friendship, love at this moment may be love at another moment. So, as long as he still plays with you (maybe it's a prank, maybe it's a bickering, the form is not necessarily), he likes you. There is a further possibility of your relationship. It was a gradual love. Therefore, the transition from playful raillery to solemnity and back to playful raillery may not be so obvious.

At any time, even if you have only light contact with him, as long as you make him feel brand-new, especially in connotation, taste and temperament, he may still have passionate love for you.

5. What do Virgo boys like about being alone?

1. He is willing to help you when you ask him. It should be noted that he will not pretend to be attentive to please you. Bad things, meaningless or have been helped, he may not help.

He will secretly look at you. You may not know. However, friends around him may find his fiery eyes.

3. You really can't see it outside.

4. He trusts you.

5. Talk to you with focused eyes.

6. He will want to know everything about you.

7. When chatting with a group of friends, you won't be his main conversation partner. He may talk to all his friends present, but only briefly with you. However, he will try not to neglect you.

8. He will remind you, care about you, give you friendly suggestions and ideas, and provide you with more efficient practices. Maybe you will misunderstand that he is criticizing you or nagging.

9. He won't treat you as a joke.

10, he may keep his distance from you. Whether in public or in private, if he is not sure that you like him, he will not get too close to you.

Sixth, depression ...

From the appearance, I really can't see that he likes you very much because he doesn't want you to know. He wants you to really like him, from the heart, not because he likes you. So he will bide his time. But also create more opportunities. The form of opportunity is preferably oral or written. A look, a hint, is probably not enough to inspire his courage. For love, Virgo boys don't agree with the default. Boys in other constellations seem to act as soon as girls acquiesce; Virgo boys, on the other hand, are waiting for a clearer affirmation. I'll tell you a little secret: if you hold his hand by default, you still have a chance of success.

In short, he needs your positive affirmation to go further, otherwise, he will always regard you as a friend. The positive side is definitely an inspiration and a direction. Don't give him an ambiguous feeling, he likes a certainty.

Seven, a small angle of a Virgo boy

Virgo boys' ideal love is natural communication. It is a sincere, pure and unmotivated feeling. You can try hard once in a while. You can deliberately create opportunities, but don't appear too artificial. His love does not need too much human effort, nor does it need too much interference unrelated to love.

Maybe this is just my personal view of love. Love should not be a competition, and' she' should not be the winner of this competition. Virgo boys are the most easily defeated opponents in love; If he really loves you, he will quit automatically in the face of rival in love.

There is another situation where Virgo boys will leave you, not because they don't love you:

"If a virgin really falls in love with a person, then the virgin is likely to leave that person, because he knows that his ability is limited and he can't let the other person be happy forever. In fact, virgins reject "falling in love with someone" from their bones, because love easily makes virgins weak and love easily makes virgins lose themselves. In order to maintain that arrogant self, it is difficult for a virgin to really love anyone. " [Source/Sina. Com "Expose the inner world of a virgin"; Author/Fox]

Note: "It is difficult for a virgin to really love anyone", which seems controversial. After all, everyone loves themselves the most.

Postscript: My personal opinion cannot cover the whole group of Virgo boys, nor does it apply to underage boys. Aggressive methods will have a serious adverse effect on Virgo boys, which is the focus of my writing; The other part is written to keep the integrity of the article. Fox, your writing is so good that I have to use it secretly. Thank you! Don't sue me for infringement!

Alcohol cleanliness

I think it is necessary to explain briefly. Cleanliness is a person who loves cleanliness. I hate dirty environment and things. Similarly, spiritual cleanliness advocates good emotions, behaviors, ideas and thoughts, tries to suppress bad ones, or tries to make yourself a better and wiser person. Indeed, not all Virgo boys understand the depression caused by spiritual cleanliness. To understand which behaviors, thoughts and emotions are inevitable, accidental, artificial, should and shouldn't, it takes some wisdom, thinking and hard practice in life.

When they haven't understood these contradictions that appear on them, a few people choose to be calm, and more people choose to cover them up. Like dirt that I don't know how to get rid of, people with cleanliness have to cover it up.

Virgo boys have the best taste.

Virgo boys care most about people.

Virgo boys will appear when friends need help.

Virgo boys know their girlfriends best.

Virgo boys are the most insightful

Virgo boys are most likely to be born in September.

Virgo boys are the most careful.

Virgo boys will miss their beloved girls the most.

Virgo boys are the least likely to cry.

Virgo boys like to play role-playing games (more stand-alone games)

Virgo boys draw best.

Virgo boys talk the least, but their words are amazing.

Virgo boys cross the street and hold hands with girls.

Virgo boys are the most shy

Virgo boys pay the most attention to their own image.

Virgo boys sing best.

Virgo boys are the least afraid of ghosts.

Virgo boys are the most worthy of parents' concern.

Virgo boys are the least forgetful.

Virgo boys have the least foot odor.

Virgo boys are the most technical.

Virgo boys are the least fat.

Virgo boys are the least troubled.

Virgo boys have the most tears, but the tears flowing out of their eyes are the least.

Virgo boys cook the worst.

Virgo boys don't care about trivial things the most, but pay attention to small details the most.

Virgo boys spend the longest time with the girl they fall in love with (excluding the time after marriage).

Virgo boys hate (or are jealous of) being called a boy.

Virgo boys are the most hypocritical (I don't mean to hurt Virgo boys' hypocrisy, which can make girls cry the most)

Virgo boys are the most sensitive.

Virgo boys have a single eyelid rate of 30% (it is better to fall in love with Virgo boys than with single eyelid boys)

Virgo boys are the least official and the least soldier.

Virgo boys want to hang Japanese Libra boys on the wall in Nanjing for public display.

Virgo boys have the most sense of time.

Virgo boys are the worst at writing timetables.

Virgo boys get the most praise from girls when they play basketball.

Virgo boys play snooker in the most beautiful posture.

Virgo boys are the worst swimmers.

Virgo boys account for the least proportion of constellation boys.

Virgo boys are not afraid of the dark.

Virgo boys are the most insecure.

Virgo boys are the dumbest when they laugh.

Virgo boys give beggars the most money.

Virgo boys like to look into each other's eyes when they talk.

Virgo boys are the weakest.

Virgo boys study art the most.

Virgo boys study sports the least.