Does a person who never chats and is perfunctory just have no affection for you?

If a person is basically perfunctory when chatting with you, I think such a person must have a bad impression on you. If he really likes someone, he will care about everything you say, whether in message or in person, because they need to care about your feelings all the time. You won't be silent because you don't understand what you said. Maybe he doesn't understand a topic for the first time, then he will definitely look up information and ask his friends later, so that you won't feel that he doesn't understand your world.

If a person has been perfunctory to you, then there is only one possibility, that is, he doesn't have any good feelings for you, but answers you politely, so as not to make you too embarrassed. My husband basically belongs to the kind of straight man who naturally doesn't like to talk, but no matter when we are in love or after marriage, every time I send a message, as long as he is not busy, he will reply to me seriously, and he will listen to me carefully when sitting and chatting with him, even if he doesn't know, he will discuss it with me or ask me, and then we will not have no topic.

perfunctory itself is a sign of not paying attention. If you don't pay attention, it definitely means that you are not the one who can make him pay attention. I am also a person who doesn't like to talk very much. In front of people I don't know, they all think I am a little cold, but when I face my husband, I immediately become a different person. I may answer him casually when I am busy, but I will reply to him as soon as I am busy, and I will explain why I didn't reply seriously just now, because he is the one I love and the one I care about, so I will care about everything about him at any time.

If you meet someone who has been perfunctory to yourself, it's better to give up decisively. Don't let your liking become the burden of the other party, and don't let others see you clearly.