How to keep long-distance love fresh?

Don't always say "spend more time with her when you are busy". I can't even recognize her WeChat avatar when I am busy. She can't even say your name correctly.

The advanced requirement is that if you want to do something, you may lose contact and tell your lover in advance:

"I went to study by myself, so I didn't bring my mobile phone."

"I'm going to start fitness. I will contact you later. "

"If I don't return suddenly, my mobile phone will be dead. I'll call you when I get home. "

If you have a big temper, let Ta sleep first.

It's normal for couples to be stiff, but no matter how fierce it is, as long as you think there is still room for recovery, please say something to let Ta sleep well first, or admit his mistake hastily, or imply that "I'm just a thief, but I won't break up, so don't worry too much."

People are very sensitive at night: sadness, grievances, resentment, complaints ... A thousand little thoughts, there is always a meeting. So even if you are wronged, first lower your head to the other side and let Ta sleep as safely as possible. Tomorrow, if you two make any noise, you won't fight.

Try to be honest.

Some "heartfelt words" between lovers are quite interesting: for example, a tall girl wears short skirts and stockings, and her boyfriend can't help putting his hand on her leg every time he sits down, and the girl will be proud of her beautiful legs and secretly happy.

It's a pity that couples in long-distance relationships don't have any chance to hint at praise with actions. Many times we only have language, so please speak your mind. It's really hard to know without saying Ta.

Maybe the girl is putting on makeup seriously before the video, or maybe she bought new clothes and can't wait for you to see them ... Tell her if you like them, and don't let her down if you are obviously satisfied.

In video chat, I often say, "Today's eyebrows are very charming." "This lip color is too attractive." "I want you to wear this dress when we meet next time ~"

Of course, some people enjoy the process of lovers' careful probing, or think that they don't realize the seriousness of the problem until they make friends, so you can do whatever you want, just don't get stuck.

Let lovers and friends have some intersection.

There is really no need to know only what you know and what I know in love. Personally, I think it's good to have a few same-sex friends.

First of all, there are many overlapping social circles, and my heart is also practical. Secondly, you can also get a general idea of t a's environment and current life from his friend status. Once again, the object suddenly loses contact, and you have someone to contact, so don't worry about it yourself.

If your lover hates introducing you to Ta's friends, or doesn't want others to know about your relationship, I advise you to ask the reason. I believe this reason is probably not "hard work" and it is estimated to be quite hurtful.

When your lover is sad, wronged and afraid, please cast a shadow and make a sound.

There are always colorful dangers around us. Since Ta told you about her grievances and fears, she has regarded you as a kind of support. I hope you can share some pain. Ta can't touch you and hug you, at least let Ta watch and listen to you. Even if you really have something urgent and don't have time, just show up and say a few words, and explain when you are busy.

Not only is it more effective, but it also shows your attitude.

What can I do together when I am in a long-distance relationship?

Long-distance love seems to have really nothing to do except typing and video chatting. I have racked my brains to think what interesting things we can do, and then the more I think about it, the more sad I get.

It is suggested to find some in-depth topics to talk about, such as "fragrance of women", "spring of cowboy class" and "stove" Then there are erotic films that couples watch together. That's great.

One thing is very important. Your plan must come true. If you are not sure, don't draw a pie.