An opening line for a blind date chat to keep you from being embarrassed__

Date chat starters

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You can look through the friend circle of your blind date and his social account. When browsing, don’t Forget about jotting down topics that you can expand on and proactively capture new things in your life that you can relate to. Then when chatting, throw it out at the right time. Remember, always be prepared and find ways to give the other person a soul-stirring experience. If you don’t know what topic to start with, you might as well check out what’s going on in his circle of friends recently.

For example, if you see him traveling, you can say: "I saw you traveled a few days ago. The photos are so beautiful. Did you have a good time?" or he posted his work updates. , you can say: "Congratulations, today's project passed successfully."

The circle of friends is originally meant to be shown to others, which can convey a message to the other party: you are very concerned about him.

2. Recall opening

"Recall" refers to using information from your previous chats. For example: "I just had dinner with a friend and found a Sichuan restaurant that tasted very good. I remember you mentioned that you love spicy food. If we have a chance to meet, let's eat together." Such an opening not only gives you something to talk about, but also It proves that you have kept the other person's interests and hobbies in mind and can make the other person feel your intentions.

In addition to what I just said, "things happening around you" and "things in work and life", you can also take the initiative to share with the other person your growing up, embarrassing and play experiences, various interesting, special, and even... Embarrassing incidents are also a kind of "memory". The other party will let go of his psychological defense and share his story with you openly.

3. Open with hot topics

"Hot topics" are what everyone is paying attention to. They are easy to cut into and not easy to appear obtrusive. The latest hot news, popular movies, and TV series, These are all topics you can use to start the conversation. For example, everyone is staying at home recently, and it is inevitable to watch dramas to kill time. You can ask: Do you have any good drama recommendations? Have you heard about the recent incident of (a certain entertainment star)? What do you think about this matter? What?

Popular things are the most communicative topics, and hot topics are the easiest starting point for communication with others. From these topics, you can understand the other person’s views and even three views.