What does it mean that blind date men only send messages to women and don't ask them out to play? How many text messages will you send every day for half a month? Is it a spare tire?

You are probably a spare tire, so be careful. This kind of man refuses you with an excuse, which shows that he doesn't care about you. It can be seen from the behavior of texting without meeting you that he doesn't want someone more important to him to find out. Not asking out to play shows that he is not sincere. If a man is sincere to you, he will try his best to meet your requirements, instead of shirking it like this.