Emotional counseling was cheated. If you text like this, he will "can't help" calling you back!

No matter how you call, he won't answer. What if emotional counseling is cheated? No matter how much you beg for entanglement, the other party turns a blind eye. You are uncomfortable, you are unwilling, and you have to be so arrogant, but you know what?

After breaking up, electricity is a minefield for him, because according to the current emotional situation, it is not easy for the other party to answer your electricity.

Because he doesn't want to face you at this time, let alone this feeling, we can't use electricity as an immediate way to retain him.

But everyone also has a very tactful way to make him feel guilty about you and contact you later.

First: purpose

The most important thing in writing short messages is to establish a purpose. Do you know what our purpose is? "Begging for forgiveness?" "seeking to get back together?" No, neither.

"I can't lose you. I'm used to your existence. I can't continue without you. Go home and make up. " Does it look "sincere"? Do you feel that the other person will undoubtedly be moved to cry?

If you send your hair like that, the bad influence will always get worse. Sending messages is to better ease his mentality in an indirect way.

But you do things with a mentality. Always a dead duck. Not only can we not lower our mentality, but we will continue to blacklist him and completely block this road.

Therefore, in order to better ease the mentality and expand ways, we must maintain our mentality.

Second: value (respect)

Attention does not mean unfamiliarity, on the other hand, attention can also ease the mentality.

Why do you say that? Because the word "spacing". What is spacing? What if emotional counseling is cheated? That is, you don't have to make him feel that you are self-controlled and aggressive, but attention can create a kind of "distance". And how do I get his attention?

"Treat people and do things". For example, I understand that some things were my fault before, because I understand that you left because our suggestions were not unified, so I can think about it.

If it is a problem, I can change it, but for you, I can only say that if fate comes, people will continue to come and go. Only by taking a stand but not supercilious, paying attention but not unfamiliar, can he feel at arm's length and relax.

Once again: a sense of urgency.

"I opened a gym, signed up for a western restaurant class, and met excellent girls and boys. I used to know that I was around you and missed a lot of interesting people and things. "

I used to belong to someone who loved you, but I got better and better after breaking up. You said you were in no hurry? No regrets in the future? Don't worry, never regret that it is false.

I still remember that just a few days ago, this sentence helped a female classmate get in touch with her ex-boyfriend, and _ was the kind of ex-boyfriend who was in a hurry.

You see, just because of one sentence, the situation of two people has been completely adjusted. Naturally, the words are not very good, and it is also an instant thing to adjust again.

Finally: simple.

"There are no graves in the mountains, rivers are inexhaustible, there is Lei Zhen in winter, and there is rain and snow in summer. Heaven and earth are one, but dare to break with you." Soon I saw the short message I wrote, and I felt that I had culture and style, and I had strong confidence to send it out, waiting for the other party's response.

But what happened? It's not that I didn't reply, but that I replied "What?"

I'm not talking about you. This is a detention letter, not a confession letter. Why do you write such a literary style? Can't you make it clear to each other? Your hairstyle always makes the other person think you are pretending.

So we _ are like the lyrics in the music "The Actor": "Be popular, speak in a popular way".

Now you know why you didn't answer the phone and how to reply to the text message, right?