How should I respond to a text message from a teacher saying that my child is not serious in class and has not completed his homework?

Reply: I will work hard to improve the children and work with the teachers to educate the children well. Thank you teacher for your concern.

Not listening well in class and not completing homework will definitely affect learning efficiency. When teachers and parents report children's learning problems, they also want parents to pay more attention to it. On the other hand, the child does not listen in class, which has affected the teacher's normal teaching work. The teacher conveyed it to the parents and hoped that the parents could cooperate with the teacher, home-school cooperation, and jointly help the children solve the learning difficulties and find out the reasons.

Although not listening in class is largely under the control of the teacher, the habit is developed over a long period of time and parents must face it. Students with good habits have a strong sense of learning and know when to study seriously. Learning is very purposeful and self-disciplined for them.

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Help children get rid of the way of not paying attention to class and not completing homework:

1. Help children make study plans and cultivate single-mindedness use.

Primary school students who do not listen in class will basically behave as follows: running away, talking, making small movements, groping in the desk, secretly playing with toys and other items... The teacher can no longer attract students in class. For students who amuse themselves, teachers will definitely remind and warn students in class.

When you encounter children who always affect the learning of others, make some study plans, that is, what to do at what time. In class, you have to listen to the lectures. You can't do two things at once, you can only do one thing at a time. Set small learning goals for your children, such as listening carefully for 10 minutes in class today, or listening to the teacher explain a certain knowledge point. If you understand everything, give them encouragement and praise.

The same goes for homework and games at home. Parents can also give rewards if you focus for more than 15 minutes and complete something with concentration. Cultivate children's learning habits step by step and gradually get on the right track.

2. Exercise concentration. When doing homework, do not place items on the desk that have nothing to do with study.

Primary school students who desert in class have a relatively minor bad habit of not listening. The attention span of primary school students is relatively short, so it is understandable that they suddenly wander away from class. So in order to cultivate children's concentration, it is not enough to encourage and formulate study plans. It must be thoroughly integrated into every aspect of daily learning.

For example, when doing homework, if you see students with messy desks at school, you don’t have to think that the desks at home will also be messy. In such a learning environment, one has to rely on grabbing an empty space in a messy desk to write homework. In such an environment, it is difficult to concentrate. Some primary school students will place various toys on their desks, and after writing for a while, they will stare at the toys for a while.

Obviously, at the age when children are most easily distracted, these obstacles should be avoided. When children are studying and doing homework, the desk should be cleaned to make the desktop clean and tidy, so that students can improve classroom efficiency and listen carefully.

3. Encourage and recognize, but do not overemphasize the negative learning emotions caused by listening to lectures.

When teachers come to communicate and reflect on their children’s learning situation, parents often criticize their children immediately. Even when reporting on their children's progress, parents are actually very stingy about encouraging and recognizing their children's behavior. Once the teacher comes to report that the child is not paying attention in class, the parents will not allow excuses and will criticize the child, and sometimes the teacher will be required to intervene.

In fact, parents should not overemphasize the negative emotions caused by not listening in class. When children have problems, they should eliminate the anxiety in the children's hearts, affirm and recognize the children, and tell them that such a phenomenon is normal. , and then we can correct it together.