My girlfriend is going to study abroad, can our relationship still be maintained?

Of course it can be maintained. There are many people who have gone from long-distance relationships to marriage. You only need to do this:

1. Pay more attention to each other and pay attention to communication. . Most of the relationships in different places are due to a weak sense of connection, which results in the relationship becoming more and more unfamiliar. No matter how passionate the relationship is, it is difficult to preserve it intact after a long period of time and distance. If you want to maintain your love for a long time, you must ensure the frequency of communication between the two of you.

Because you haven’t contacted her for a while, she will definitely have random thoughts and a sense of loss. If she likes to have small emotions, she will wait for you to find her and lose her temper with you; if she If you have a more impulsive personality, she will call you to test you.

Even if nothing happens in the end, she will always remind herself to pay attention to your updates because she feels insecure. In this way, she will be tired and you will be tired. Therefore, maintaining regular contact is a must. You are telling her that you always value your relationship and will not ignore her just because you are not around. ?

2. Guide the other party’s investment. A long-distance relationship cannot be maintained by the efforts of one party alone, but must be managed jointly by both parties. If you are the only one worrying about this relationship, and she is only enjoying your intentions, then you will not even know when you are broken up.

Because she has never given anything, she will not feel any pity, so he can turn around easily. You must guide her to invest in your relationship with you. Don't cherish him so much that you won't give up anything. You think it's for her sake and not being so strict with her is actually infringing on your feelings. If there is no effort, there will be no gain. In the end, she will only develop the habit of being too lazy to maintain your relationship.

3. Establish long-term goals. It's not just long-distance relationships, many relationships end in vain because they don't have the same expectations. Establishing common long-term goals for both parties can guide you to work together, advance and retreat together, and share joys and sorrows. And this kind of relationship, I believe, can withstand the test of distance and time.

If you remain content with the current status quo where there is no pursuit or imagination, then your relationship will not go further. To give a simple example: You have never thought about whether to get married in the future, and you have only been lingering in the relationship with your current lover, so there will be no breakthrough development in the relationship. The final result is that one party can't bear it anymore and either gets married or breaks up.