I have been with my boyfriend for a long time and break up every day. I will regret it after breaking up. What should I do?

First of all, you need to see your heart clearly. You love that man very much. You know how much you love him, but you may not really understand how much.

Secondly, you need to know your boyfriend, including his feelings for you, his personality, and his attitude towards this feeling;

Thirdly, you need to make yourself understand that feelings are feelings, feelings are not the whole of your life, and feelings are not the business of two people (I personally disagree with the saying that "feelings are the business of two people", feelings are your own business, and the maintenance and result of feelings are the business of two people, even two families). Your feelings are only your own business. Your feelings can be paid, hidden or even hidden.

Finally, I have to warn you not to lose yourself because of feelings. If you love each other so much that you lose yourself and have no self-esteem, how can this man love you and care about you? He loves you, okay? It is impossible for a man to love a woman because of this.

If you don't answer the phone once, don't call again; Send a text message twice, and don't send it a third time if you don't reply. There is no such humble waiting. If you are important, you will come back sooner or later. There is no need to be mean to people who don't know how to cherish you. If a person starts to neglect you, please choose to leave. In order to maintain a self-confidence and dignity, I would rather be arrogant and moldy than crazy. At least, for you, you can leave a good memory in the end.

It can be seen from your question that you don't like him very much, but much more, more than you say, more than you think, and you know it very well. Warning: If the love between the two sides is not equal, then you can love a lot, but don't show too much, because the other half often doesn't cherish it too much, and what you can't get and what you have lost is the true meaning. When a man wants to get rid of you, and then you don't show how much you love him or even withdraw your feelings and leave him, he turns to you. Since self-esteem has been hurt, don't forgive it easily. There will be a second time if there is a first time. Actually, think about it. What do you like about him? Is it his appearance, temperament or maturity? Please don't say that love is love for no reason. Without unfounded love, love has a bottom line.

Besides, you don't know your boyfriend very well, or you don't want to know. That man doesn't like you even more, and even doubts whether he cares about you or loves you! Although the reality is cruel, we must face it squarely! Your boyfriend has worked for 5 years, so he should pay more attention to his career or be ambitious. He can be said to be a mature and rational person. Your relationship, I think it is definitely not the first love for him. For you, if it's not the first love, it's at least the first time you really love someone. A mature and rational man will not easily fall into a relationship again, and you are already in deep trouble. This man thought a lot. You have taken him to meet his parents, but he hasn't taken you to meet his parents. He even wondered if he had introduced you to his best friend. Have you ever thought about what he is thinking?

The purpose of your question is actually very clear, that is, how to treat this relationship? To put it bluntly, that is how to keep that man and how to make him love and care more about himself. To put it bluntly, you just want to get back together, and you just want to know how to get back together without getting hurt.

Your love is true, but some love is more than that. If you want the other person to love you, you must love yourself more than anyone else. An independent woman with personality is the most beautiful. Self-confidence can not only enhance the charm of men, but also make women exude an unspeakable temperament and charm!

Women not only need independence in personality, economy and feelings, but also need independence!