An encouraging letter to my college son (2)

A letter of encouragement to college sons: Fan Wensan

Dear child:

Hello!

You will start school in a month. Watching you prepare for the free travel in the summer vacation after the college entrance examination, booking high-speed rail tickets online and coordinating hotels; When I saw you carefully reading the instructions for freshmen, preparing school materials and activating the bank card, I really realized that my child had grown up and was going to fly. But after all, you are still a child. I know that you are full of expectations and brave to leave your parents and start college collective life alone. However, we are a little worried, and our children are worried for thousands of miles. Children, no matter how far you go, your parents will always be your strong backing. At eighteen, I want to learn to travel alone and handle things independently. We want you to fly. In order to make you fly higher, parents want to say a few words.

In fact, during the Spring Festival of 20 16, that is, six months ago, we began to brew this letter; I also referred to a letter written by a parent on the Internet to his son who is about to enter the university. Inherit the wind is connected!

I picked you up from Peking University Summer Camp and hurried to Tianjin by subway. When you closed your eyes wearily and took a nap, my heart felt distressed. We felt sorry for your efforts in the past few years when we learned about your semi-final results in the physics competition from the Internet and that you missed the final. When I thought over and over again and told you the result of my unsuccessful application with trepidation, you still comforted me calmly. I know, we are all a little lost and frustrated. However, you can treat it correctly and know that you are not good enough in some aspects; We are glad that you have really grown up!

Along the way, there are joys and tears; There are successes and failures; There are gains and setbacks. Walking with you is our mission and the source of our happiness. We are sincerely gratified to see your hard work and pursuit of Excellence. We don't expect you to have a brilliant life. We only hope that you can live gracefully in the future and be an upright, kind and beneficial person to society.

Many things will have results without hard work. We can't guarantee to win every race, but we must ensure that we try our best to run every race. As long as you work hard, there will be no regrets; As long as you work hard, you will always get something!

University is an era of subversive creation. What advice do we have for you? Three major tasks? And then what? Three hopes? For your reference.

Three tasks: mastering professional skills, cultivating communication-coordination-organization ability, and a group of friends who can communicate for life;

Three hopes: managing time (doing things in a planned way), managing space (living in order) and managing emotions (doing things rationally).

1. Study hard and don't waste good time.

(1) University is not a place to rest and have fun, but an important port for life to set sail. You should spend most of your college time studying. Bu's letter encouraging his son to go to college is famous for its heavy academic burden and great difficulty. It is the basic requirement not to fail the subject, and to strive for Excellence in every subject. Maybe you will find it difficult, but as long as you pay, you will get something back. There is often only a thin line between the strong and the weak. At this stage, attitude often determines everything.

Remember, there is no difference between good and bad majors, only good and bad ones.

(2) Make a study plan and life goals for each semester, and make early preparations for your future. For example: when to take TOEFL /GRE and professional certificate. If you want to pass the exam, you'd better make a study plan before reviewing.

Try to pass CET4 in the first semester and CET6 in the second semester. Try to get a high score, which is conducive to insurance research or preparing to go abroad in the future.

In addition to learning English well, try to choose a second foreign language related to your major, which will help you learn quickly and easily in the country where your major ranks first in the world.

(3) Take the initiative to find a good tutor, actively participate in professional activities such as college students' innovation, participate in teachers' topics, follow the tutor to be a serious person and study hard.

(4) Go to the laboratory to see what seniors and teachers are doing, and do more and talk less. Master the basic experimental skills of your major as soon as possible.

(5) Learn to make good use of the library. The rich resources of the library will benefit you a lot.

(6) Talk with excellent seniors to see where others are excellent and how to make themselves excellent as soon as possible. A good university master's degree is like a floating cloud, and a person who puts it in is a drop of water in Wang Yang. Strive to become better, so as to be worthy of this title.

(7) Listen to the reports made by some campus celebrities. In this way, you will be as good as them in the future.

(8) Pay attention to the news every day and keep pace with the times.

2. Learn to arrange your own time so that you can live a full life every day.

(1) Do things with goals and plans. Learn to arrange time reasonably and handle the time of study, club activities and exercise. You should have your own exercise plan and keep exercising 1- 1.5 hours every day.

(2) Join a community or be a cadre. But the premise is that it can't affect learning.

(3) Be a simple person, practical and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasy, don't make much ado about nothing. Introspection every day, do well every day. Live in the present, don't waste your present life thinking about the past or looking forward to the future.

(4) More humanistic cultivation and aesthetic taste, outstanding achievements can not be separated from the pursuit of the realm of beauty; The greatest scientific discoveries often contain order, simplicity and beauty.

Elective courses can dabble in music, literature appreciation, philosophy, history of science and technology, economic management and other aspects of knowledge.

Reading several pages of famous books every day is good for improving literary literacy.

It is best to listen to all kinds of songs. For example, Teresa Teng has as many fans as Jay Chou.

There are several songs that I am good at.

3. Learn to get along with others. Learn from people with good interpersonal relationships and be a popular person.

(1) Get along well with classmates and roommates. Don't smoke in the dormitory (it's best not to learn to smoke). Respect the rest time and living habits of other people in the dormitory. In club activities, we must consider those students whose families are not very good and know how to put ourselves in others' shoes. What should I do if my classmates don't ask your permission? Borrow? If you steal from you, whether you know who he is or not, don't slander him and make trouble without reason. Because I live in the same campus, I am still a classmate after all.

(2) Respect teachers. Be sure to get on well with counselors, class teachers and teachers. Giving others face is giving yourself face. Some teachers may not be as good as you, but you still have to respect them. Whether you like this classmate or the teacher, try to say hello when you meet him.

(3) Be kind, don't gossip about teachers, classmates, especially roommates, or even laugh at or dig at others. When communicating with others, you should know how to take care of others' feelings, such as not involving the topic of urban-rural differences; Don't make fun of your classmates' accents, clothes or defects.

(4) It is best not to tear things posted by others in the dormitory or classroom without permission; When posting online, don't be reluctant if others don't reply.

(5) Don't underestimate anyone. There must be a teacher in a threesome. Everyone has his own advantages and is worth learning.

(6) Be gentle with people and things, and do your best? Gentle and polite? .

Reason is not loud. When you disagree with others, be reasonable calmly, don't worry, and don't quarrel easily.

Don't lose your temper at will. Nobody owes you anything. Restrain your temper and be silent occasionally, because impulse will do irreparable things. Whenever you do something, you should think twice before you act. Don't be a hedgehog, try not to make enemies with others, and no one will stay with anyone for a lifetime. Some things don't need to be remembered.

(7) Don't gamble between classmates. Remember to pay back the money you borrowed from your classmates.

(8) Don't lie, because you will be caught one day. It is impossible for people to honor all their promises, but as long as they promise, they should try their best to honor them and be honest. Believe in karma! Believe in reincarnation!

(9) break up with people who are malicious to themselves. Only when people break friends can they have the best friends. Never give a friend who has betrayed himself a second chance to betray. No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust.

(10) Be cautious, independent, learn to compromise and stick to your most basic principles.

Be realistic and hypocritical once in a while, because if you don't do that, it will be difficult to mix.

Learn to be patient and persistent! Only those who have perseverance and accumulate wealth can become strong in life.

(1 1) Know how to listen to other people's suggestions. Don't try to control others and don't ask others to understand you.

(12) Make more friends and make good friends. The definition of a good friend is: you mix well and he is really happy for you; You have a bad life, and he is really worried about you. There must be friends from different levels and classes, and then you will really realize it? Many friends make the road easy? The real meaning.

(13) The world is unfair, but God is fair to everyone. Don't always pour out your difficulties in front of others and expose your vulnerability. Do it. Frustrated and unhappy, proud and unhappy? . Your emotions should take into account the feelings of others.

? Don't use happiness to make promises lightly, don't get angry because of drunkenness, don't use fast things, and don't end up fresh because of fatigue. ?

4. If you meet a person you really like and can become a like-minded partner, then fall in love with your heart (not encouraged+not limited).

(1) Have a clear understanding of human weakness, please stay away from girls who are greedy for money and snobbish and don't know how to cherish you. But we should believe in sincere love and always have a simple yearning for love. But love is not the whole of life. Don't beg for love once and you will succeed. Understand that time can dilute everything.

The choice of love object should take into account the social and family environment, personal accomplishment/personality and appearance (above average) of the other person's growth; This determines a person's knowledge, taste and level.

Don't jump to the conclusion that she is your favorite person, and don't say it easily? I love you? Don't kiss others easily, because it is the greatest behavior of mankind.

(3) Dating someone you like is the happiest thing. Don't date people easily because your ears are soft and you can't stand entanglement.

(4) You can pursue a person persistently, but if you really can't catch up, you'd better give up; Catch up with better people in the future, don't gloat.

(5) Even if you meet by chance in the street or at a class reunion after breaking up, don't contact again because of this. Once love is shattered, it is impossible to come back; When you meet an ex-girlfriend or someone you've pursued, you should say hello no matter whether there is anyone else around her.

(6) If this relationship is unforgettable, it is best not to start another one immediately after breaking up, because this is a respect for love.

(7) When two people are together, they should learn to leave private space for each other; If your girlfriend's ex-boyfriend suddenly calls her, don't interfere in their conversation and give them time to talk freely.

(8) Try not to talk about your previous emotional experience. This is a white lie.

(9) When two people are intimate, they should consider others and occasions.

(10) Before deciding on a long-distance relationship, you must think carefully about picking someone else's object, playing both sides, and trying to hook up with a friend's wife.

Don't fight for a girl, respect her choice.

(12) Treat your suitors with respect and courtesy. There is nothing wrong with loving someone. You can't interfere with others' right to love.

Pay attention to safety and remember that your life is not yours alone.

In the eyes of mom and dad, you are still a kind, naive, upward and simple big boy! All these years, we held you in our hands. You are used to a simple and simple life, to reading and making progress, but you ignore the social course of mind reading, thus avoiding your own risks! You must make up this lesson when you are in college!

(1) The most fragile thing in this world is life. Good health is very important.

(2) stay away? Yellow gambling? There are also bad friends, don't indulge in games, which will ruin a person's life.

(3) Be sure to have breakfast. Don't be a donkey friend, don't travel badly, don't stay in a bad hotel, don't eat cheap takeout, and don't eat cheap shops on the roadside. Health and safety are more important than money!

(4) Try not to get drunk! No smoking, no staying up late. If you don't pay attention when you are young, you will pay the price when you are old.

(5) Before saving people, please do what you can, and first ensure your own safety.

(6) Don't swim in unprotected places such as rivers and reservoirs.

(7) Don't leave the campus easily at night, and don't go to bars, karaoke bars, dance halls and other places.

(8) Don't trust any acquaintances, classmates and friends who borrow money or ask for help from you on QQ, WeChat/SMS. Don't trust the so-called public security departments, police stations and other public security laws.

(9) Don't believe that pies will fall from the sky. Don't go out with strangers easily, and don't be greedy for petty gain.

6. Always smile.

(1) I hope you can learn to face the pain and frustration in life correctly, and choose the right way to deal with it no matter what happens.

We must accept the unchangeable; We can only change what we can!

Time is a wonderful thing, forgive the unforgivable, and the past cannot pass; Maybe you want to go back to the old time, but you know, people always have to learn to look forward. If you are sad, look up at the sky and forget it.

(2) The strong in life will adjust their mentality in time, so that their mood will always be positive and full of sunshine. People who are affected by emotions are often confused, while those who can control their emotions are often happy.

Children who love to laugh are not too bad luck.

7. Self-improvement.

Mom and dad are ordinary peasant children, and they are ordinary workers who are conscientious and love their jobs. We try our best to create excellent living and learning conditions for you: from the best kindergartens and primary schools to the best junior high schools and high schools. The road to the future depends on your own efforts!

Always remember this sentence of Tao Xingzhi. Drip your own sweat, eat your own food, do your own thing, rely on people, rely on the sky, rely on your ancestors, isn't it a hero? .

Don't give up your ideals for petty profits, and don't change your beliefs for some so-called trends; The appearance of the material world is too complicated, so we should know how to resist the temptation of vanity.

8. Thrift is a virtue.

? A porridge and a meal, when thinking hard; Half a silk and half a wisp, persistent thinking about material difficulties? . Thrift is not stingy, but I hope you will think about whether it will cause waste when making decisions such as buying things and ordering food.

9. Call your parents once a week.

Parents will always pay attention to your growth and correct your course at an appropriate time, so that you will not deviate from the goal of your efforts.

If you have something on your mind, you can tell your parents that they are your 24-hour psychological counselor.

Remember: important things or decisions must be consulted or notified to us!

Dear children, we still have a lot to say and a lot to exhort. A thousand words can be summed up in one sentence? Fly your ideals, be down-to-earth, and create greater glories! ?

If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come; You can arrange it yourself if you are wonderful!

Love your parents forever.

XX，XX，XX，XX

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