3 letters to expectant mothers

Being pregnant with a baby is something that every expectant mother feels happy, but there are still many things that need to be paid attention to during pregnancy. Below is a letter to expectant mothers that I share with you. You are welcome to read and learn.

A letter to the expectant mother 1

A delicate flower of life has quietly bloomed in your body, and you must be in a very happy mood now. Taking good care of his present and future. We also provide services to you and your baby with the same mood. Here, we sincerely remind you:

1. The health of your baby depends on the healthy lifestyle of the expectant mother. Expectant mothers must pay attention to avoid diseases that can be transmitted from mother to child during pregnancy, such as AIDS, syphilis, hepatitis B, etc.

2. AIDS, syphilis, and hepatitis B can be transmitted through three ways: (1) Sexual contact transmission (2) Blood transmission (3) Mother-to-child transmission

3. Infection of expectant mothers HIV, syphilis, and hepatitis B can lead to miscarriage, stillbirth, and stunted growth, leading to serious adverse outcomes such as congenital syphilis and children infected with AIDS and hepatitis B.

4. Risky behaviors that may lead to infection with AIDS, syphilis, and hepatitis B include: (1) Transmitting HIV-infected blood or blood products;

(2) Using strictly sterilized instruments Performing injections, acupuncture, tooth extraction, cosmetology, etc.; (3) Using syringes to take drugs while having sex with others; (4) Having unsafe sex; (5) Suffering from reproductive tract infections or sexually transmitted diseases, etc.

5. Preventive measures for AIDS, syphilis, and hepatitis B:

(1) Avoid unsafe sexual behaviors, such as anal sex, multiple sex partners, and sex without condoms , sexual behavior between men, etc. (2) Avoid taking drugs

(3) Avoid going to irregular small clinics for tooth extraction, cosmetic acupuncture, etc.

6. There may be no obvious symptoms after infection. Only through testing can we know whether Infect. It is recommended that you get tested for HIV, syphilis, and hepatitis B during your first prenatal visit. The test is simple and only requires a small amount of blood to be drawn to get the results. The test has no impact on your health.

7. HIV test results may have two results:

(1) Negative result: If you have no risky behavior, you can be deemed not to be infected at present, and I hope you will continue to do so. In this state, you should continue to take preventive measures during pregnancy to avoid being infected by AIDS, syphilis and hepatitis B. This is an important line of defense to prevent mother-to-child transmission; if you have ever had the above-mentioned risky behaviors, please wait 3 months (after passing the window Period) be tested again. (2) Positive result: It means you have been infected with HIV. Please consult an obstetrician as soon as possible to obtain relevant knowledge and help in preventing the spread of AIDS.

8. It is very important to know the infection status in time. If infected, early implementation of measures to prevent mother-to-child transmission of AIDS, such as drug treatment, safe midwifery, artificial feeding, etc., can greatly reduce the chance of children contracting the disease.

We recommend that you actively accept consultation and testing services for HIV, syphilis, and hepatitis B, and receive healthy life guidance and intervention as early as possible. Let us work together to create a healthy tomorrow for mothers and children.

A letter to an expectant mother Part 2

Do you still remember the story of the pony crossing the river? The little squirrel said the water was deep, the old ox said the water was shallow, what should the pony do? What? In fact, life is like this. If you don’t experience it yourself, you will never know what the answer is.

This is especially true when you are a mother! There is no need to envy the body of the old scalper, nor to lament the shortness of the little squirrel, we are who we are.

Some people got pregnant in a daze, and some people struggled to have a child for several years;

Some people gave birth easily and smoothly, while some people gave up on the operating table;

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Some people can abandon their children and travel around the world, but some people can only live in oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar

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No matter what you have If you are not ready to be a mother, you don’t know that there are actually several modes of life!

Pregnancy

Men can never experience pregnancy! We can only go through it ourselves!

Pregnancy

Men can never experience pregnancy!

Easy mode: Passed various screenings easily, ate well, slept well, and gave birth without any worries. Just like the advertising slogan, giving birth to a baby is so easy!

Oh, sisters, the amount of investment in this model is very small, and it feels like winning a lottery. So, young girls, please take good care of your body!

Normal mode: Who hasn’t been scared of being pregnant! Face every examination with fear, and then celebrate enthusiastically that you have passed the test again One level passed.

--Down syndrome screening, high risk? High risk among low risk? Amniocentesis?

--Sugar screening, gestational diabetes?

--Big Abnormality, harelip? Congenital heart?

--Fetal heart rate monitoring, umbilical cord around the neck?

--Natural delivery vs cesarean section?

In this mode Next, it is a good idea to learn the necessary pregnancy knowledge, keep your body and mind relaxed, and deal with it calmly. Don't be frightened by Du Niang!

At the same time, I would like to remind everyone that most men don't understand our unfounded worries, so don't get into trouble with your husband over this, just talk to your sisters. .

Hard mode: If you don’t experience it, you will never know that this mode exists. After getting through this mode, I realized that morning sickness and swollen feet were nothing to worry about.

In this mode, some pass through various levels through hardships; some have no choice but to give up due to various reasons. Undoubtedly, everyone will cherish it even more! The weapons to deal with this pattern are good doctors, good sisters and a good husband who can stand upright and trust each other and encourage each other.

We cannot predict in advance what pattern we will face, but what we can do is to conceive our babies with more confidence, more calmness, and a good body.

First-time mother

Some people say that the most timid years for a woman are when no one can take care of your children. In fact, being a first-time mother brings more challenges than just that.

Some people compare children to products without instructions, which need to be developed and used by oneself. Indeed, due to the effects of several historical periods, our generation has less inheritance and more squeamishness.

No longer raising babies like pigs, Chinese mothers have become the “most tired” mothers in the world.

Breast milk or milk powder? Imported or domestic? Working or full-time?

What should I do if my child has a fever? What should I do if my child has a loss of appetite? What should I do if my child doesn’t sleep well?

Is the child deficient in calcium or zinc? Why is the child slower than others in everything? Why are you so disobedient!

Although we have many parenting books, Although our medical conditions are now very good, our hearts seemed not strong enough when we first experienced it.

I also used to rush to the hospital as soon as my child had a fever. Now I will observe, care for and deal with it calmly first;

I also complained about the naughty child every night I have to wake up and cry several times, but now I see my child sleeping peacefully with my arms around me, and my heart is infinitely sweet;

I used to be around my child all day long, with no time and space of my own, and no time to take care of myself. As a wife, she can now chat with her child's father and run her own small family.

In fact, these are the necessary processes for mothers, or the growth process of most mothers. Women's natural sensitivity and delicacy will be particularly prominent during this period.

Whether you are anxious or complaining, please face it squarely! And face it bravely. While children make us feel at a loss, they also bring us more surprises! This is growth!

Speaking of this period, there is a classic line that can be used to make fun of yourself, that is, "Bitches are hypocritical"! Because we are not adaptable to the change in our roles, sometimes we are a little pretentious. Husband and wife still need more communication and trust!

When my husband and I talked about Xiao Shuang’s surgery 2 years ago, I understood how men behave. The heart, but at that time, the family needs a pillar, and he can't be impatient!

Therefore, don't be too entangled in a man's incomprehensible style. We just have different divisions of labor.

Growing together

Starting from about 2 years old, we will find that the little angel in the past begins to show the little devil side, because the child has grown up!

We start to complain about why our children are so disobedient, and we start to envy other people’s children. In fact, we have reached another stage, which is the stage of growing up with our children.

Sometimes we read some parenting theories, which are just a few words and each has its own reasons, which makes people a little confused;

Sometimes we envy other people’s children, who know everything and are so sensible. , and our family just knows how to play;

Sometimes we also envy other mothers about handicrafts, baking, and parent-child English. It seems that we have read so many years of books in vain and know nothing.

Sometimes we envy those mothers who are glamorous and live a colorful life. Why can they be so comfortable, while we have become a gray-faced mother-in-law.

In fact, we made two mistakes. One is not knowing what we want, and the other is not knowing how to accept an imperfect self.

We are eager for our children to grow up quickly, just as we were so eager to grow up back then. However, to save worry now, we imagine that when our children grow up, everything will be fine naturally; when we were children, we longed to grow up in order to be free, just like our children now.

As everyone knows, education is not a worry-free thing. It is the most technical type of work in the world! And freedom has always been relative.

We ourselves are not perfect, so how can we long for a perfect child. So the first step in growing up with your children is to accept your imperfect self!

Calm down, get to know yourself, and discover your shortcomings (impatient? Impatient? Don’t like reading? ), in order to make yourself less disturbed and affected in education as much as possible. And this process allows us to accept our growing children!

No one book can solve all parenting problems, not to mention whether it is easier said than done or easier said than done. Children themselves are all different. , so the second challenge we face is: how to turn fragmented knowledge into our own knowledge system and use it appropriately for our children.

I have three children, one older and two younger (twins). The younger two have very obviously different personalities. Many times I can clearly feel that the same method cannot achieve the same effect.

Therefore, Confucius’ “teaching students in accordance with their aptitude” will become the highest realm of education. And to pursue this realm, parents can’t do it unless they learn.

Moreover, parents must participate in their children's education together, because different perspectives and different methods can give our children more opportunities to show themselves and explore themselves.

In terms of education, I am still groping forward. Together with a group of friends who are keen on sharing and learning, I also communicate a lot with my significant other. Every child is different. Yes, please have more appreciation and patience! Wait for the flowers to bloom!

There is actually no big reason for writing this article. It is just some experience of these stages by a person who has experienced it. I hope it will be helpful to everyone.

A letter to expectant mothers Part 3

Hello all expectant mothers, I am the mother of a 6-month-old baby and would like to share with you my journey from pregnancy to menstruation. I hope my experience will be helpful to you, so let me get straight to the point.

Hospital choice

I personally think that a good hospital will reduce your worries. If possible, choose a professional obstetrics and gynecology hospital. First of all, ordinary hospitals have fewer examination items. , many projects will still require you to go to large hospitals for examination. Secondly, professional hospitals do have their trustworthy qualities.

When I found out I was pregnant, I had been checking up at the Red House. Of course, I set up a card at the Red House, but the result made me very angry. The reason was that there were too many people and the queue was too long. In order to set up a card, I It was built from the morning until the afternoon. I had to wait for more than three hours for the B-ultrasound. All other examinations also took more than one to two hours. I am not a squeamish person. I was angry because I saw the back door open. Everyone. They are all pregnant women, and I think all the sisters understand this, so for this reason, I transferred to the hospital. After researching with friends online, I finally chose Maternity and Baby Care, and I was not disappointed.

When I was three months old, I was transferred to Maternity and Infant Care by someone else. What makes me most satisfied is the service of Maternity and Infant Care. All prenatal check-ups use an appointment system, which staggers the flow of people during peak hours. For example, if I make an appointment for a prenatal check-up from 10 to 11 o'clock tomorrow morning, the hospital will send you a text message the night before to remind you of the time for tomorrow's prenatal check-up, and there is no special reason why you can only You can go to the hospital for examination from 10 to 11 o'clock. If you go earlier, you won't be able to get the examination because the hospital will only let you register fifteen minutes in advance, thus controlling the flow of people. The most important thing is that you make an appointment for a prenatal check-up in the morning, and you can go home in the morning. I usually go to the hospital for maternity leave at nine o'clock, and I can usually go home at eleven o'clock. I have to wait for more than an hour at most for the B-ultrasound. The benefits of raising a baby are far more than this one. I will mention it later. There are other benefits as well. Of course, there are also some shortcomings, which I will tell you later.

PS: If sisters have decided which hospital to go to, they must go to that hospital for a check-up when they know they are pregnant. In large hospitals, it is difficult to create a card when you are more than three months old. Because there are too many people giving birth to children now.

About milk powder for pregnant women

I ate a bucket of milk powder when I was pregnant, because some friends said that eating milk powder for pregnant women will cause overnutrition, making the mother fat and the baby big. Let me talk about my experience here. First of all, I only started taking milk powder for pregnant women when I was more than three months old. Because I heard from many friends about some problems with milk powder for pregnant women, I did not take it exactly as recommended. I only drink one cup of milk powder for pregnant women every day, and only two spoons each time (the standard of milk powder I drink is three spoons for one cup). I read the introduction of milk powder for pregnant women. It contains a lot of nutrients. In addition, pregnant women eat a lot of nutritious foods every day. I think one cup of milk powder for pregnant women a day is enough.

Some pregnant women with severe reactions cannot drink milk powder for pregnant women. They can start drinking milk powder for pregnant women after five months. Not every pregnant woman must drink milk powder for pregnant women. I personally think that milk powder for pregnant women can be used after eight months. No need to drink unless the baby is too small. Because the baby will grow very fast after eight months, too much nutrition will cause the baby to grow too fast, which is not conducive to the mother's normal delivery.

About Down syndrome and amniocentesis

When I was four months old, I had Down’s syndrome done by my mother-in-law, but it failed. Later I found out that the mother-in-law and my baby had two joints, and other The hospital operates triple hospitals, and many second hospitals have been closed down. (This is the first shortcoming of pregnant women and babies).

When I received the news that Down’s Syndrome was not diagnosed, I cried. I cried wildly, because as a mother, I couldn’t accept this fact and cried at home all night.

The next day I calmed down and checked the information on the Internet, and found that there were many cases of maternal and infant failure, and the reason was the two-part syndrome. I also learned that the accuracy rate of Down syndrome was not high. If I wanted to be completely reassured, the only way to do it was to do amniocentesis. The diagnosis of Down syndrome is based on a formula. The key data is the mother's gestational age. If the mother's gestational age is inaccurate, it may lead to inaccurate final calculation. (Our gestational age is calculated based on the last menstrual period, but the time of conception is different for everyone. If you get pregnant more than ten days before menstruation, your gestational age will be inaccurate.) And for many elderly women, doctors also recommend For amniocentesis, Down syndrome is only for reference. Of course, there are many brave mothers who don’t believe in the accuracy of Down syndrome, and there are also some who don’t do amniocentesis, but I did it anyway.

I was also afraid of having a puncture at the beginning, because after all, it was a needle sticking into my stomach, and there were risks if it was not inserted properly. Later, after consulting doctors and friends, they all suggested that I do it, and the risk of puncture is one in a thousand that it will lead to miscarriage. I had the piercing done with trepidation. The biggest comfort is that there are many mothers who have undergone piercing, which makes me feel relieved. In fact, puncture is very quick. Within a few minutes, you can feel the needle entering. After the amniotic fluid is drawn, it is a painful wait.

PS If the amniocentesis is not done well, the baby will definitely not be born. Most of the time it is because the parents have bad genes, so we can only accept their fate.

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