What does it mean that women may cheat?

As we all know, it is not good to cheat emotionally or physically. Of course, if both exist at the same time, then the couple may break up and divorce. Obviously, both men and women will behave after cheating. So what does it mean that women may cheat? What are the general manifestations of women's affairs?

1, the performance of cheating

There are three kinds of infidelity: the first is emotional infidelity, the second is physical infidelity, and the last is mental and physical infidelity.

1, life rule mutation

If a girl and a good woman have some subtle changes in their daily lives, it often means that there are people around her who shouldn't appear, such as not coming home at time, always coming home late from work, chatting online in the middle of the night, and QQ is full of men, sometimes going out at night.

2. When answering the phone, the expression is subtle

She often receives inexplicable phone calls, and she is still far away from you, or her tone of voice is very cautious, or she doesn't answer your phone enthusiastically at ordinary times, but she suddenly becomes extremely gentle and polite to a man, sometimes chatting for a long time, and is more enthusiastic than ordinary friends; ? Then I told you it was just a male friend. Male friends? In fact, they are close friends of men. Occasionally, I will call you on my own initiative, which is much more enthusiastic than before, saying that she will go on a business trip and come home late, saying that her mobile phone is running out of power, or simply saying that she will not take her mobile phone (the implication is that you should not call him this day).

3. Become concerned about makeup.

If she goes out with you, her face is ordinary. Before going out with other men, she pays special attention to whether her makeup is fashionable or not. The clothes she wears are more beautiful, thinner and more exposed than usual, which shows that she wants to add sexual charm to that man. This shows two things: she doesn't love you; She's seeing someone else.

4, often attend various parties.

She often attends various parties under various pretexts for a long time. If you ask a tight question, she will get angry and think you are too strict. If she really loves you, she will want to be with you every minute. If she really loves you, on the other hand, she looks at you more strictly than the police.

5. Always dating other men.

She would say just friends, eating together, watching movies and so on. Just friends? ! Hearing this, you must have no tolerant attitude. Before they have developed from so-called "ordinary friends" to sleeping friends, you have only one wisest choice: let her go at once.

6. Always mention your ex-boyfriend

If she often talks about her ex-boyfriend, she will often receive photos, phone calls and text messages from her ex-boyfriend. If you are interested, you will find that she still has her ex-boyfriend's love letter and Emil. This shows that they are far from breaking up, and the old love will rekindle at any time. Don't believe her "it's over" bullshit.

7. I don't care if a woman likes you.

If a woman really loves you, she will care about every look of every woman around you and the meaning behind every sentence, and then nervously ask you to confess, otherwise she will cry and hang herself, and check your mobile phone and communication-if these basic love features do not exist, there is only one most reasonable explanation: she does not love you.

2. The age of infidelity

Generally speaking, everything a man does before marriage is to create an atmosphere of pursuit; All kinds of romance before marriage turned into all kinds of waste after marriage, so I simply stopped this "meaningless transportation". But at this time, women need men's care more psychologically and physically. In fact, men and women have very different attitudes towards sex after marriage. Men often regard sharing a room as a pastime, while women regard it as an extension of feelings and marriage.

In today's industrial society, the relationship between work and extramarital affairs is obvious between men and women in the workplace. Besides online dating, the office is the ideal place to publicize extramarital affairs. In earlier years, foreign experts found that among all age groups, women who have the most affairs are between the ages of 26 and 30. However, a recent survey shows that the proportion of women in their twenties is even higher than that of men of the same age 10%. 1988 a survey report on extramarital affairs in the United States said that young women betray their husbands faster than ever before after marriage. Women who got married before 1960 had their first affair after 14.5 years on average. Nowadays, after getting married, women begin to have extramarital affairs for five years.

What is even more surprising is that women now start to plant cicadas and pull other branches after four years of marriage. Professor Fisher, a professor of anthropology at Rutgers University in the United States, spent 15 years studying in 62 countries and finally reached the above conclusion. She pointed out that the four-year period from accepting marriage proposal, cheating to divorce is preset by innate procedures, which leads to the disappearance of chemicals in women's brains that make them fall in love with others within 36 months, and then it takes a year to realize this fact, then go out to find a new object and then divorce.

Professor Fisher also pointed out that another reason for women's divorce is that their genes tell them that their children need to be raised by a series of men to develop their talents and have a better chance of survival, which explains why women usually file for divorce.

Professor Fisher's research report mentioned above says that women's genes indicate that their children need to be raised by a series of men, which coincides with the view of paleoanthropologists. They always thought that primitive people practiced group marriage in cave times. In order to survive, women resume sexual activities in the shortest time after giving birth, and let men stay with them to provide food and protection. But I don't know whether men at that time only wanted to live with women until their children were weaned, or didn't leave until their children could walk. Is this what Professor Fisher said about four years? Besides, has this suggestive gene been preserved to this day, making women think twice four years after marriage? These two points also need further study by scholars.

Generally speaking, men are most promiscuous in their twenties before marriage. On the contrary, women are most likely to cheat when they are 30 to 35 years old after marriage. This is also due to certain social factors. In Hong Kong, where land is scarce, the cost of mortgage and rent has become the heaviest burden on the family economy, so we must scrimp and save. Therefore, the average family size is very small, which is the most unfavorable for giving birth to children. This is the reason why many young couples are unwilling to have children after years of marriage, or just want to have one.

If a woman gives birth to a child around the age of 28, within ten years, the child will go to primary school for four or five years and gradually know how to take care of herself, and the mother will not be careless. Compared with before, she has more freedom and time, but less bondage. On the contrary, her husband is busy with his life. At work, he may be at a critical moment in his career and have little time to take care of and care for her. He would send her roses before marriage, and now it is a luxury to watch a movie together. The sweet words once announced in his mouth have now disappeared. He may be too tired to have sex again. The loneliness and resentment in her heart came into being.

Generally speaking, women always think that they should enjoy the same love and romance before marriage. The timely appearance of extramarital lovers makes up for the lack of happiness. Once you get another man's consideration, praise and compliment, how can a woman not fall in love? The lover's feelings are romantic and eager. He takes care of her and always gives her warmth and comfort when she is lost. In addition, women aged 30 to 35 after marriage are at the peak of their sexual life and cannot get comfort and love from their husbands. Many times, she can't resist loneliness and temptation, and extramarital affairs will get out of hand.

Today's women are more educated than their mothers. Women between the ages of 30 and 35 have worked in the society for 10 to 15 years, and their income has increased several times compared with when they joined the company, unlike when they first came out. A stable and considerable income and a relatively perfect comprehensive social security system have eliminated the worries of women once divorced. It can be said that the improvement of women's education level and economic independence greatly increase the trend of divorce in today's society, which in turn leads to the derivation of women's extramarital affairs. In the past, once a woman who was unfaithful to her husband was caught, her life was ruined. Today, great changes have taken place in social moral standards, and most people are more tolerant and balanced about extramarital affairs. Even if unfortunately exposed, you can find a marriage counselor, or simply go to court for divorce. Compared with their grandmother's generation, women nowadays, especially those with higher education, live independently after divorce, raise children alone or remarry, and nothing will bother them.