The girl I like was scolded and cried by me. What happened?

Maybe your words really broke the heart of the girl you like, plus she was probably in a bad mood and had some troubles. When she heard you scold her, she couldn't stand it at all. Just think about the situation at that time and apologize to the girl to comfort her.

Precautions for apologizing

Apologizing is very important in any society. Once our children have the ability to say complete sentences, they will be taught how to say, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

However, even though we have been taught how to say sorry since childhood, our level of apology has not been greatly improved. Sometimes, an adult's apology is as insincere and untrustworthy as a three-year-old child's apology.

There is an old saying in China: It's a good thing to correct mistakes. Therefore, people are not afraid of making mistakes, and they are afraid to admit their mistakes after making them. If you are going to apologize, you must first realize your mistake. If you apologize without realizing your mistake, the result will often be counterproductive.

Pay attention to your attitude when apologizing. Absolutely sincere, let the other party feel your sincerity. If you feel that you can't say anything, you can bring some gifts to express your feelings, which will often get unexpected results. Whether the other party accepts it or not depends entirely on the decision of others. Others have the right not to forgive us, but we still have to apologize with the most sincere attitude and actions.

When a mistake occurs, if you want to apologize, one thing you should avoid is to avoid entering the misunderstanding of accusing and apologizing. What is an accusatory apology? In other words, when you apologize, you must try to put the blame on the other person. For example, you forgot your ID card and delayed a planned plane, but you have to say more. If only you had reminded me.

For another example, when we hold activities, we lack some experience, which may lead to mistakes in the implementation of the plan and bring bad results. Some novices will easily make an accusatory apology and blame the old man for not making it clear to him.