What if my ex-boyfriend texted me in the middle of the night to get back together?

If you are going to accept him again, you must know whether the contradiction that led to your last breakup still exists. If the contradiction that caused you to break up has not been solved, then the possibility of breaking up again after you are together will be very high.

In the process of getting along with each other, two people will certainly encounter such and such problems. The closer they get, the more serious the problem will be exposed. In the case of contact, more men are particularly good to women, too good to be true. But the girls made special works, and made out-of-line works. Finally, the man was overwhelmed and chose to break up.

There are also girls who can't accept the shortcomings of boys, slowly start to dislike each other and finally break up. There are also some people who are going to talk about marriage. As a result, due to family reasons or material reasons, the two sides cannot reach an agreement and then fall apart. In short, there is always a reason to break up.

If you are going to accept him again, you must know whether the contradiction that led to your last breakup still exists. If the contradiction that caused you to break up has not been solved, then the possibility of breaking up again after you are together will be very high.

Many people want to get back together after breaking up because there will be a sense of gap before and after breaking up. People always want to be beautiful, and they will recall the happy times in the past, and then when compared with the present situation, it will cause a huge sense of gap, which will lead him to want to be together again.

However, when you get back together for a period of time and find that it is not what you expected, then you may break up because of new contradictions, leading to breaking up.

If you still have feelings, decide to get back together, first rationalize your previous problems, and then guide him to invest in you, such as dating, giving gifts, caring for you, taking you to do what you wanted to do before, and letting him invest in your time, feelings and money. Then you will also invest in him, and mutual investment will make your feelings stronger. Because people often don't cherish cheap things, only the harder it is to get things will make him cherish them more.